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Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:58 pm to
Posted by Patrick_Bateman
Member since Jan 2012
17823 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:58 pm to
quote:

I tried doing the right thing
Sorry man, but abortion is not the right thing.
Posted by NWLA Tiguh12
Member since Jul 2015
2402 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:58 pm to
Congrats on the sex
Posted by RabidTiger
Member since Nov 2009
3127 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:58 pm to
That's some crazy stuff man. All the best to you.

Posted by Jack Daniel
In the bottle
Member since Feb 2013
25448 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:59 pm to
Does the Lord know that you arranged an abortion?
Posted by Rebel
Graceland
Member since Jan 2005
131369 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:59 pm to
i don't want to get in the middle of you and lester squabbling, but I think he meant more along the lines of you being adopted. sounds like the step dad, will be the kids real dad. but the kid may have questions about his real father. the mom telling the kid that his biological father hates him is pretty low. it's mental child abuse in my opinion.

This post was edited on 4/26/16 at 10:00 pm
Posted by 3en
Member since May 2015
507 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 9:59 pm to
Whoa, what a mind frick. Hopefully things go well for you, and hopefully the kid. It'll be tough for him every which way because he has such a lunatic evil bitch for a mom. Bitches be crazy, indeed. Good on you for at least reaching out and that was nice about the collage fund. Good luck.
Posted by Dick Leverage
In The HizHouse
Member since Nov 2013
9000 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 10:00 pm to
Find out if he plays travel ball. If not, you should scold the stepdad and sue for custody.
Posted by Samso
nyc
Member since Jun 2013
4730 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 10:00 pm to
Amazing story

You can always tell who the real morons are with the "tldr" responses.
Posted by ChewyDante
Member since Jan 2007
16918 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 10:01 pm to
That is some heavy shite. That's all I thought immediately finishing the OP. Then I scrolled down to the first comment and literally busted out laughing.

Seriously though, this story is super fricked up. This chick sounds like an epic bitch. Though I guess kudos to her for not aborting. Every move outside of that was pretty indefensible though.
Posted by LSUJuicer
Member since Jan 2013
3354 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 10:01 pm to
Interesting, I fee I could have this story as well. I was single had an amazing friend with benefits (this was after college). The girl was amazing, no drama, said she really didn't want to deal with a relationship and wanted to be be FWB as long as I was not in a relationship. So we did and one day I met someone I saw it could get serious with. I told her and she insisted she was not wanting a relationship and was okay with it. Said if I was ever single again call her. She moved back home (another state). We remained friends through text and random phone calls. All of sudden she got real weird for her and said she was upset cause she liked me but she knew what she said. After that she went off the grid. Not on any social media, won't respond to a text. I started wondering if she could be pregnant. To this day have no clue, have no way to get a hold of her, it is really weird. I feel she was either right she got hurt I found someone. She got pregnant and is keeping it a secret. Or she just never wants to talk or see me again. Good luck. Everyone has sex, accidents do happen. Hope all works out with the kid!
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65654 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 10:02 pm to
Lay down with a crazy bitch-

Wonder what you wake up with?

Half of the kid's DNA is her's.

I'm sure this will end well.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
175840 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 10:03 pm to
quote:

im sorry i upset you
I not upset

I just feel sorry for you that 10 years later youre still engaged in some sort of imagined rivalry with me that you think kindness is something to mock


it must be miserable to be you
Posted by yankeeundercover
Buffalo, NY
Member since Jan 2010
36373 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 10:04 pm to
What did your attorney say about posting on public forum?

Let's go as ask Judge...
Posted by 13SaintTiger
Isle of Capri
Member since Sep 2011
18315 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 10:04 pm to
Owl dropping the mics tonight
Posted by partywiththelombardi
Member since May 2012
11588 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 10:05 pm to
That is crazy.

Sorry about all the time you both lost.

Someone said something similar to what I was thinking. Don't bring up the mom...people tend to figure things out on their own. Let your time with your son be about establishing your relationship with him.

I would talk with his guardian and formulate a longterm plan...he is actually the one raising your biological child and is technically his father.

I would work on a reasonable accommodation of what the relationship should be in order to do what is best for your kid. No contrasting styles of parenting.

However your time together should be about giving him everything you can be as a mentor in his life. Show him things no one else has, have talks with him that no one else does, teach him everything you have already learned.
Posted by BallCoachinFool
Member since Dec 2012
2133 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 10:05 pm to
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Find out if he plays travel ball.


Step dad wants the boy to play sports so bad but mom wont let him because she doesnt want to take him to practice and since the dad only has him half the time he can't just go pick up the kid and take him away from his mother.
Its heart wrenching.

I just want this kid to be happy. I was so blessed as a child and this is what I produce.
Posted by Cracker
in a box
Member since Nov 2009
17694 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 10:05 pm to
damn son 10 years of back child support is gonna suck dick when you got 8 more to go.
from the great one

She got one of your kids, got you for 18 years
18 years
Posted by Jones
Member since Oct 2005
90500 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 10:06 pm to
quote:

i don't want to get in the middle of you and lester squabbling, but I think he meant


sounded like he meant to sound like a dipshit
Posted by airfernando
Member since Oct 2015
15248 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 10:06 pm to
quote:

nobody read that shite.
I have a name, you know.
Posted by 13SaintTiger
Isle of Capri
Member since Sep 2011
18315 posts
Posted on 4/26/16 at 10:08 pm to
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damn son 10 years of back child support is gonna suck dick when you got 8 more to go.
from the great one



Back child support is support you were ordered to pay and did not pay. He will not have to pay retroactive child support because the mother did not seek out the biological dad in order to pay support.
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