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Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:36 am to
Posted by Chad504boy
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Member since Feb 2005
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Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:36 am to
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I don't remember.


its okay to say like "i've slaughtered 2 poons and only paid for 1 of them"
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:37 am to
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I worked 7 days a week 12 hrs a day for 152 days straight and then 5 days a week the rest of the year for 3 years while my ex wife worked part time while she finished her nursing degree.


Yeah, I get it. My wife was in nursing school when we married. Took her about another year and half to finish after we married. During that time I worked a ton of overtime to help pay all the bills, and paid off her student loans in the process.
Then, about 3 months after she graduated and started working full time, she took almost everything "we" had worked for and was gone. I was bitter for quite a while.
Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:38 am to
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after working to put her through nursing school.


So is it true what they say about nurses?
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
80192 posts
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:39 am to
Did she stay with the guy she left you for?
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
118994 posts
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:42 am to
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Did she stay with the guy she left you for?


We didn't have kids (thankfully), and I haven't kept up, so I don't know. That was 21 years ago.
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:42 am to
just keep slayin till you knock one up
Posted by Artie Rome
Hwy 1
Member since Jul 2014
8757 posts
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:45 am to
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You'd think that. You'd be wrong.


What part am I wrong about?

Hand fricker.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11218 posts
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:47 am to
I didn't intend to, but I got serious with someone before my divorce was final. He's awesome & out of my league in a lot of ways, so no regrets.

The thought of legally remarrying still scares the shite out of me. Divorce sucked so much.
This post was edited on 3/9/16 at 12:00 pm
Posted by Kujo
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Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:50 am to
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I was completely blindsided, especially after working to put her through nursing school.


Nurses are the worst.

Because they make more than the average woman, it's such a new and empowering thing for them that it corrupts them instantly.

They can buy whatever they want, they don't have to rely on anyone.....so they go after what they lust.

A girl becoming a higher paid nurse is just like a girl getting a new boob job or gastric surgury where she loses a ton of weight......they Instantly turn to the dark side(x2)
Posted by Dignan
Member since Sep 2005
13265 posts
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:56 am to
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7 years post DIV but i stalked her for a couple years before we were officially 'dating


See, there's someone out there for everyone, just like the example Cecil Collins just gave.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:58 am to
Are you saying you don't jerk it?

I jerk it even when I'm getting laid later.
Posted by caliegeaux
Member since Aug 2004
10126 posts
Posted on 3/9/16 at 12:05 pm to
12 years........after about 6-10 months of being a man whore, i went into each next encounter with the thought of, is she the one.........and 12 years later I finally got to say yes. women are whore. men are whores. you have to look under a lot of rocks to find someone with values these days....and yes, i'm excluding myself.
Posted by Kujo
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Member since Dec 2015
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Posted on 3/9/16 at 12:07 pm to
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you have to look under a lot of rocks to find someone with values these days


I think it's more two people finding each other when they both decide to stop being promiscuous.
Posted by Artie Rome
Hwy 1
Member since Jul 2014
8757 posts
Posted on 3/9/16 at 12:08 pm to
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Are you saying you don't jerk it?


No. I am not saying that. But don't you call me a liar Abu Nuwas.
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
12079 posts
Posted on 3/9/16 at 12:08 pm to
I've been divorced for 10 years and I think I still have commitment issues. I'd like someone to come home to but find a way to talk myself out of a relationship with every girl I meet.
Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
4275 posts
Posted on 3/9/16 at 12:10 pm to
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Man, I don't see how some of y'all can jump back in the marriage boat so soon. I'm just getting to the point where I'm settling down a little and I still want to run for the fences every time commitment comes up.


That's actually quite normal. Professional literature generally suggests one year of recovery for every five years married. I was married for 27 years, been divorced for seven. I learn something from every relationship I have been in. Part of that journey is learning what you DON'T want.

I would not rule out marriage again in this life, but I am going to really get to know someone damned well before I enter into another "legally binding contract", if ever. Then again, there could just be something said for having a companion of the opposite sex and leaving it at that. It's not like I want more children. I love the two I have, but consider myself too old to start another family.

Then again, there's something to be said for freedom. There's no one to hold me back. Anything I don't accomplish is squarely on me. There are times I enjoy my solitude and I don't have to worry about the dog wanting half of everything I own if she decides to leave. That said, there is still something to be said for female companionship, but I am more discerning about their motives these days.

Funny thing about the dog. When my ex left, the dog paced the hall for almost six months looking for her. My ex dropped by about 18 months ago. The dog was acting like she wanted to run out and see her. I let the dog out. Dog comes within ten feet of my ex, literally growls and snarls at her, then turn around and went back into the house.

The look on my Ex's face????? frickING PRICELESS!!!
Posted by lsufan1971
Zachary
Member since Nov 2003
18138 posts
Posted on 3/9/16 at 12:10 pm to
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Part of me wants someone to come home to every night again


Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
16994 posts
Posted on 3/9/16 at 12:16 pm to
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its okay to say like "i've slaughtered 2 poons and only paid for 1 of them"



It's in the double digits. I just didn't want to sound like a douche/man whore.
Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
4275 posts
Posted on 3/9/16 at 12:19 pm to
LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't recall where I saw it on TV, but there was this scene where the son was in the hospital dying of cancer. At one point he is awakened by his father's attempt to smother him with a pillow. The father explains that he was only trying to speed things up so as to spare him the painful death that normally occurs with cancer deaths.

The father tells his son that there are a few family and friends who want to come by and say goodbye. He also tells his son that the son's ex-wife is on her way to the hospital to see him.

The son takes a pause and then says, "Dad, how about the pillow"
Posted by scrooster
Resident Ethicist
Member since Jul 2012
37605 posts
Posted on 3/9/16 at 12:24 pm to
My current wife (of 18 years) testified on my behalf that I had not lived with, or slept with, my ex-wife (of 24 years), during our mandatory separation, at my final divorce hearing.

But I knocked out so much poon the first 46 years of my life, before I started with the eventual second wife ... so it all depends on when you meet the right next wife I think.

We were married a few weeks after the divorce was final.

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