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How long after your divorce (if ever) did you decide...
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:24 am
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:24 am
to settle down and get serious with someone again? I've been divorced for a year and a half now. Part of me wants someone to come home to every night again, and part of me enjoys the freedom of doing whatever I want. I'm not really the date around type of guy, but I guess commitment scares me now. Maybe it's because I was married to a lying, cheating narcissist before.
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Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:25 am to jvilletiger25
how many poons have you slaughtered in past year and half?
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:25 am to jvilletiger25
She was a whore, wasn't she?
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:26 am to jvilletiger25
You need to sow your oats far and wide before thinking about anything like that
It happens to the best of us. Go hang around another married couple and listen to the wife nag and bitch and moan.
That longing will clear up real quick.
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Part of me wants someone to come home to every night again, and part of me enjoys the freedom of doing whatever I want.
It happens to the best of us. Go hang around another married couple and listen to the wife nag and bitch and moan.
That longing will clear up real quick.
This post was edited on 3/9/16 at 11:30 am
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:27 am to jvilletiger25
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How long after your divorce (if ever) did you decide...
I was divorced about 2 years before I remarried, and we dated about 6 months, so about 1.5 years after my divorce.
My 1st wife left me for another man, took all of our furnishing and emptied out the bank account. I was completely blindsided, especially after working to put her through nursing school.
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but I guess commitment scares me now.
I've been married to a wonderful woman for 18 years now. Don't be scared of commitment, but be cautious till you are sure.
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:27 am to jvilletiger25
7 years post DIV but i stalked her for a couple years before we were officially 'dating' 
This post was edited on 3/9/16 at 11:27 am
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:27 am to jvilletiger25
Shaft?
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:27 am to jvilletiger25
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Maybe it's because I was married to a lying, cheating narcissist before.
Tell me more. Name? Number? Tinder account?
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:28 am to fr33manator
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You need to sow your oats far and wide before thinking about anything like that
You write poems and frick your hand. Don't give advice.
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:28 am to Artie Rome
You don't want no part of that shite Artie.
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:30 am to danilo
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Get a dog
my aunt always told me if you're lonely get a cat.
they'll live about 8 or 9 years.
after that you get another.
then another.
and then you're done.
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:30 am to jvilletiger25
I started dating someone eight months after my ex left...divorce wasn't final of course. Dated that girl for almost three years when she left me for an old man... 
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:31 am to Artie Rome
You'd think that. You'd be wrong.
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:31 am to jvilletiger25
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Maybe it's because I was married to a lying, cheating narcissist before.
So you obviously know how to pick em and should definitely do the monogamy thing again
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:31 am to jvilletiger25
Being single is so awesome, I don't know why you would want to frick that up again.
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:31 am to kywildcatfanone
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after working to put her through nursing school.
I was in the same boat. I worked 7 days a week 12 hrs a day for 152 days straight and then 5 days a week the rest of the year for 3 years while my ex wife worked part time while she finished her nursing degree. A few years after that she decided she didn't want me around.
I waited 6 months after she left to start dating. I've been with my current GF for 14 months and getting married soon.
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:33 am to Chad504boy
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how many poons have you slaughtered in past year and half?
I don't remember. But I was only with one other girl before my wife. That number is a little higher now.
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:33 am to bulldog95
Man, I don't see how some of y'all can jump back in the marriage boat so soon. I'm just getting to the point where I'm settling down a little and I still want to run for the fences every time commitment comes up.
Posted on 3/9/16 at 11:34 am to jvilletiger25
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Maybe it's because I was married to a lying, cheating narcissist before.
Until the thought of the ex doesn't make you angry, and then be very picky and date until you don't have to compromise who you are.
First part took about 2 years, second part took about 4 years. Been married again 1.5 years and it has been amazing.
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