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How come you never see elderly gay men?

Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:40 pm
Posted by ClientNumber9
Member since Feb 2009
9313 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:40 pm
Quick- conjure up an image of a gay guy. I'll bet you envisioned some pierced millennial with a lisp and gelled hair who's just fabulous.

But have you ever noticed you don't see elderly gay men through television/movies or in real life?

If the gay population truly is around 5% (estimates range between 4-10%), that's 16.5M gays in the United States. Reduce this by half to eliminate lesbians, and you're left with 8.25M gay men.

The average age of the American male is 37 years old, meaning that there are more than 4M gay men over the age of 37 and likely 2M over the age of 55. If this is the case, why is every gay man in the movies or at a protest rally or being flamboyant on the streets of San Francisco in their 20s/30s?

Presumably, there are gays playing bingo in nursing homes or feeding the pigeons in a park or staring dumbfounded at the debit card machine at Albertson's but neither Hollywood or anyone else sees it this way.
Posted by Ingeniero
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2013
18258 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:41 pm to
Because you don't live too long with AIDS

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Quick- conjure up an image of a gay guy

This post was edited on 5/11/17 at 2:47 pm
Posted by JetsetNuggs
Member since Jun 2014
13884 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:41 pm to
quote:

Quick- conjure up an image of a gay guy


Nah, I'm good.
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
26438 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:41 pm to
I saw a couple of aging queens this past weekend...
Posted by Navajo61490
Baton rouge
Member since Dec 2011
6716 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:41 pm to
the aids
Posted by FeauxPaw
BRuh
Member since Sep 2015
853 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:41 pm to
AIDS
Posted by Pelican fan99
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Jun 2013
34653 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:41 pm to
because back when they were growing up people got beat up for being gay
Posted by Eli Goldfinger
Member since Sep 2016
32785 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:42 pm to
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How come you never see elderly gay men?


You must have never been to the Florida Keys.
Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
101293 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:42 pm to
You need to get yourself to the Golden Lantern on Royal St, girl!
Posted by SthGADawg
Member since Nov 2007
7035 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:42 pm to
cause they were gay before it was cool to be gay and they didn't talk about it then...and don't now...backing up the point that what you do in your bedroom should stay in your bedroom.
Posted by Brosef Stalin
Member since Dec 2011
39165 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:42 pm to
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Because you don't live too long with AIDS

Magic Johnson seems to be doing ok
Posted by junkfunky
Member since Jan 2011
33856 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:42 pm to
The few I know aren't flamboyant attention seekers.
Posted by oleyeller
Vols, Bitch
Member since Oct 2012
32021 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:43 pm to
quote:

Magic Johnson seems to be doing ok


Magic has aids?
Posted by Hulkklogan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2010
43296 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:43 pm to
They're likely either closeted or keep their sexual preferences to themselves.

Older people typically faced ridicule, persecution, and/or physical violence for being gay as they were growing up.
Posted by SthGADawg
Member since Nov 2007
7035 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:43 pm to
quote:

pierced millennial with a lisp and gelled hair who's just fabulous.


I laughed

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playing bingo in nursing homes or feeding the pigeons in a park or staring dumbfounded at the debit card machine at Albertson's


I laughed again
Posted by VinegarStrokes
Georgia
Member since Oct 2015
13285 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:43 pm to
There are plenty in Atlanta. In fact, that barber shop I go to is fully staffed of older gay men and a couple of black women. They know how to cut some hair.
Posted by whoisnickdoobs
Lafayette
Member since Apr 2012
9352 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:43 pm to
It's just now becoming acceptable in American society. Most of them are so used to hiding it they've lost their flamboyant fabulousness in their old age.
Posted by arseinclarse
Algiers Purnt
Member since Apr 2007
34407 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:43 pm to
Come hang out with me. I can point out at least 10 in one hour.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
123923 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:44 pm to
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 5/11/17 at 2:44 pm to
You're not hanging out at the right rest areas.
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