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re: Have you ever reached rock bottom?

Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:55 pm to
Posted by Festus
With Skillet
Member since Nov 2009
85044 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:55 pm to
Dang, I'm glad I didn't go with my original response of that whenever I've hit rock bottom, I look at those pics of Sampson at Celebration Station that were posted and realize I'm not at rock bottom.



JK
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:55 pm to
quote:

Have you ever reached rock bottom?
And what stopped you from giving up?

I am too lazy to try hard enough to hit rock bottom
Posted by Winkface
Member since Jul 2010
34377 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:57 pm to
Try doing something different. Anything. Like the smallest thing. It's the act of doing something that helps. Close the computer. Go outside. Just lay on the ground. Whatever. Go talk to a bartender. Go to the library. Call an old friend. Go to the bookstore, coffee shop, whatever. Anything. Run! Kick! Jumping jacks!

Sure, you have to push yourself to do it. You usually don't want to do anything but that just makes things worse. Something tiny will get the ball rolling. You can't figure it all out in one day, or two or hell, years but you have to get started so you aren't just wallowing anymore.
Posted by ten Hoor Hall
Member since Feb 2014
380 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:58 pm to
Woke up one day on the northside of Chicago and it was all gone man. Thought about it all for about 72 hours to be honest.

I stayed alive back then because my grandparents were still alive. How selfish would that have been?

Man... You have a son. We should all be so lucky. Nut up.
Posted by SpartyGator
Detroit Lions fan
Member since Oct 2011
75574 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:58 pm to
spending time at my local library and working out pretty much was a boost for me.

some really good advice on this thread

This post was edited on 6/26/14 at 3:59 pm
Posted by LaBR4
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
50896 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 4:00 pm to
quote:

spending time at my local library and working out next to dem yoga pants pretty much was a boost for me. 

Posted by Sampson
Chicago
Member since Mar 2012
24563 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 4:01 pm to
I can't find that pic anywhere or I'd give it to you again for the next time you're ab to jump off a cliff. Here's this for a replacement:

Posted by USMCTiger03
Member since Sep 2007
71176 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 4:02 pm to
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No, I haven't been able to bring myself to date cause I feel like no one is good enough to be in my son's life... its weird I know..

Uhh, not weird at all, actually very loving and responsible.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124619 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 4:03 pm to
The last decade has been rock bottom. I struggle everyday not it do something I can't undo. The only reason I haven't done something stupid is because of my daughter, parents, and friends. I hate my life 99% of the time but I do it to myself
Posted by 9Fiddy
19th Hole
Member since Jan 2007
64114 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 4:03 pm to
quote:

Have you ever reached rock bottom?

Yes. Very dark times.

quote:

And what stopped you from giving up?

The love of my son.
Posted by LooseCannon22282
Mobile
Member since May 2008
33759 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 4:05 pm to
quote:

but ultimately trying to fight out of them


yeah, that's what you do.

I say you owe it to others because there is going to be a time when they need you.

you might not always get what you are looking for from others when you are struggling but a lot of times its just a personal struggle within yourself that you have to fix.

until you realize that, people's words mean nothing.

This post was edited on 6/26/14 at 4:06 pm
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
103138 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 4:06 pm to
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I hate my life


Those 6 fake dwi and and fake daughter will bring anyone down to the bottoms.
Posted by SpartyGator
Detroit Lions fan
Member since Oct 2011
75574 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 4:10 pm to
quote:


yeah, that's what you do.

I say you owe it to others because there is going to be a time when they need you.

you might not always get what you are looking for from others when you are struggling but a lot of times its just a personal struggle within yourself that you have to fix.

until you realize that, people's words mean nothing.





thanks

right now, not "rock bottom" (but who the frick knows at times)

I've been fortunate to have people support, so that's kind of a motivation. if i can fight through the issues, i sure hope to see others do it.

good input
Posted by Sampson
Chicago
Member since Mar 2012
24563 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 4:13 pm to
I feel you man. I'm still in a pretty big rut bc of poor decisions. But we're both going to be huge success stories our next 28 years
Posted by Jagoff
Member since Jun 2014
226 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 4:20 pm to
I've been there two or three times, where I really contemplated saying "frick it" and giving up. If not for my kids, I probably would have. I'm thankful now that I have a beautiful woman who loves me. I've come to realize that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I can definitely understand why so many people takes their lives, though. This world ain't all it's cracked up to be sometimes.
This post was edited on 6/26/14 at 4:23 pm
Posted by windmill
Prairieville, La
Member since Dec 2005
7020 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 4:24 pm to
Talk to a health care professional or perhaps clergy.You will establish this contact and have someone that is skilled in helping you to talk to when and if you need help. They can help you put things into perspective when the "seeing" isn't so easy.You are worthwhile to more people than you realize. Be good to yourself-you deserve it. Hang in there-things will be ok. Truly.
Posted by slutiger5
Parroquias de Florida
Member since May 2007
10656 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 4:32 pm to
watch lone survivor... that movie is an inspiration.
Posted by genuineLSUtiger
Nashville
Member since Sep 2005
72994 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 4:36 pm to
Medic, I've been there man. I'm probably going through some of the most difficult challenges I've ever had right now so just know that you aren't alone. You have been given some really good advice in this thread. Let your son be your motivation and take it one day at a time. Try to live in the present moment and watch your thoughts and emotions as they come up. Realize that they don't represent reality. Cultivate positive habits like exercise and meditation and keep the substances to a minimum. Have faith and remember the worm always turns.
Posted by Isabelle
Member since Jul 2012
2726 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 4:41 pm to
Yes. My children stopped me from giving up.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
103138 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 4:45 pm to
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