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re: Have you ever reached rock bottom?
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:20 pm to GEAUXmedic
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:20 pm to GEAUXmedic
Seriously. If you've been feeling this way for a length of time now, stop into a physician's office TODAY and get some antidepressant meds (generic Paxil is literally like $5 from Wal-mart). You will begin feeling better immediately and can begin to deal with your underlying issues.
Just imagine being able to wake up tomorrow and feel normal again.
This post was edited on 6/26/14 at 3:22 pm
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:20 pm to GEAUXmedic
After six-plus decades of drug abuse, either I haven't yet reached bottom … or I have and I happen to like it.
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:21 pm to GEAUXmedic
quote:
. its weird I know..
Not really.
Just try to give the next girl a little more of a chance going forward
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:21 pm to GEAUXmedic
Gotcha. Hang in there man. Be the best dad you can be and let the rest come to you.
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:21 pm to TigerPanzer
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After six-plus decades of drug abuse, either I haven't yet reached bottom … or I have and I happen to like it.
or option c:
You don't really know what happiness is anymore.
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:23 pm to GEAUXmedic
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No, I haven't been able to bring myself to date cause I feel like no one is good enough to be in my son's life... its weird I know..
I know it can seem there are no good women left in this world, particularly if you spend any amount of time here on the OT. But there are still good decent women out there despite all you read on here. How old is your boy?
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:24 pm to shutterspeed
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Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:25 pm to GEAUXmedic
Hope that the future will be better, even if I couldn't see it.
Like when you're driving, maybe heading on vacation, you can only see the road and stuff beside it.
You can't see the the beach but you keep going because you hope, you know, it will be there.
And you know that beach will be a lot better than where you are right now. So you keep driving.
Terrible analogy, I know...but I'm still gonna keep driving toward that damn beach!!!
Like when you're driving, maybe heading on vacation, you can only see the road and stuff beside it.
You can't see the the beach but you keep going because you hope, you know, it will be there.
And you know that beach will be a lot better than where you are right now. So you keep driving.
Terrible analogy, I know...but I'm still gonna keep driving toward that damn beach!!!
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:25 pm to GEAUXmedic
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No, I haven't been able to bring myself to date cause I feel like no one is good enough to be in my son's life... its weird I know.
There are good women out there bro. Live your life the right way and you won't even have to look, they'll find you. There are many "what about me" attitude women out there to be sure but I'm living proof that there are also some good ones because I found one. Out there somewhere, is a good hearted woman that would love the privilege of helping you shape that young man's life. Like I said, just live right and be patient. Don't "settle" just to fill the void in your or his life. Pick the right one so the little man don't have to see you go through that twice.
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:26 pm to Bullfrog
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terrible analogy
:kige:
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:28 pm to Tiger Ryno
I feel better already! Thx TR
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:32 pm to GEAUXmedic
couldn't say really.
my parents got divorced when I was 16. I think maybe I started to feel sorry for myself much later on though (early 20s).
got drunk all the time.
which was stupid.
lost my job.
went to rehab.
stuff like that.
Finally just got to a point where I decided I was going to do something about that. Sometimes you find your answers early on during hard times, sometimes you don't.
but you owe it to yourself, family, and friends to keep going.
my parents got divorced when I was 16. I think maybe I started to feel sorry for myself much later on though (early 20s).
got drunk all the time.
which was stupid.
lost my job.
went to rehab.
stuff like that.
Finally just got to a point where I decided I was going to do something about that. Sometimes you find your answers early on during hard times, sometimes you don't.
but you owe it to yourself, family, and friends to keep going.
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:34 pm to LesMiles BFF
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You don't really know what happiness is anymore.
You imply that you indeed do know what true happiness is. Please then, enlighten the rest of us-what is this state of bliss you speak of, and how would you instruct us to achieve it?
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:38 pm to TigerPanzer
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You imply that you indeed do know what true happiness is
No I didn't. All that I know for certain is that when I was using drugs, what I thought was happiness was just a temporary fix to trick my brain into believing it was happy.
I did it for so long that I forgot how to have fun naturally. Now I have fun again.
I'm guessing that if you have been doping it up for 6 decades, then you probably forgot what it was like to have fun also.
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:48 pm to GEAUXmedic
quote:
Have you ever reached rock bottom?
it seemed like it at times
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And what stopped you from giving up?
knowing i still can fight my way out of it. it's difficult, though.
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:51 pm to Festus
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For a lot of people, divorce sucks. Then for some, seems like they don't even care. I kinda wish I was more like them.
For me, the hardest part about divorce was when the kids were gone. Man, the house felt so empty. And I would start feeling like a failure as a husband and father. But it's just your brain processing things in a depressed way. Don't believe it. I bet most of the people close to you don't feel anything close to the way you are feeling about yourself.
I feel for you. Unless you've been through it, tough to understand. Just keep plugging away, it always gets better eventually.
This is why I have mad love for you. Instead of telling your sob story, you give genuine encouragement from personal experience. I miss the Dear Festus threads, I could've used you a few times the past year.
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:52 pm to Sampson
Yeah I definitely see some of you differently now..
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:53 pm to SpartyGator
At first medic I thought that you missed something in the tropical weather thread and felt bad. Look first off, you should probably get the F off this website. Honestly you should if shite is that bad. Don't start GMT threads assuming everyone is your friend. Go out and enjoy life.
Also realize that what you do is in your hands and not anyone else's. Look I believe in higher powers and this isn't a bash on that, just know you are in control.
Next- stay focused on being a man for your son. That is always the right thing even if he isn't with you.
Lastly just make today better than yesterday- and aim for that every fricking day. Sure there are some days you may step back but keep moving forward.
Also realize that what you do is in your hands and not anyone else's. Look I believe in higher powers and this isn't a bash on that, just know you are in control.
Next- stay focused on being a man for your son. That is always the right thing even if he isn't with you.
Lastly just make today better than yesterday- and aim for that every fricking day. Sure there are some days you may step back but keep moving forward.
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:54 pm to LooseCannon22282
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Finally just got to a point where I decided I was going to do something about that. Sometimes you find your answers early on during hard times, sometimes you don't.
but you owe it to yourself, family, and friends to keep going.
that's ultimately the biggest thing for me. although, i can't speak on having answers or solving problems, but ultimately trying to fight out of them. the emotions do suck big time, though.
eta: I'm sure i'll have another bout with this stuff down the road.
This post was edited on 6/26/14 at 3:56 pm
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