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re: Have you ever reached rock bottom?

Posted on 6/26/14 at 2:53 pm to
Posted by bencoleman
RIP 7/19
Member since Feb 2009
37887 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 2:53 pm to
Yes. When I got out of jail and had lost everything I had and had no family to help me. It is almost impossible to climb out of that pit without help
Posted by heartbreakTiger
grinding for my grinders
Member since Jan 2008
138974 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 2:54 pm to
Id say rock bottom is different for each person but being close to homeless or in a trailer, jobless, friendless is pretty much rock bottom.
Posted by VernonPLSUfan
Leesville, La.
Member since Sep 2007
15825 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 2:54 pm to
Not rock bottom, but concrete bottom a few times by diving too deep.
Posted by LesMiles BFF
Lafayette
Member since May 2014
5101 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 2:56 pm to
quote:

Id say rock bottom is different for each person but being close to homeless or in a trailer, jobless, friendless is pretty much rock bottom.


PJ better not read this
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
64427 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 2:57 pm to
quote:

Id say rock bottom is different for each person but being close to homeless or in a trailer, jobless, friendless is pretty much rock bottom.


So you'd consider spending Christmas Eve night alone in a house trailer with no electricity or water and you're huddled over a portable kerosene heater that is both your only source of heat and light as "rock bottom?
Posted by MasCervezas
Ocean Springs
Member since Jul 2013
7958 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 2:58 pm to
quote:

So you'd consider spending Christmas Eve night alone in a house trailer with no electricity or water and you're huddled over a portable kerosene heater that is both your only source of heat and light as "rock bottom?


sounds pretty close
Posted by GEAUXmedic
Premium Member
Member since Nov 2011
41598 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 2:59 pm to
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This post was edited on 6/27/14 at 3:31 am
Posted by brodys_lettuce
Houston
Member since Jun 2014
791 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 2:59 pm to
Keep your head up man. Call your ol' man, that always helps me if I'm ever feeling down.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
64427 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:00 pm to
quote:

sounds pretty close


That was my Christmas in 1986.

I made it past that and more. Keep your chin up Medic. No matter how bad it is now, the only way to make sure it never gets better is to give up. Keep fighting.
This post was edited on 6/26/14 at 3:01 pm
Posted by LloydChristmas
in a van down by the river
Member since Nov 2009
2829 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:01 pm to
you fight until you can't fight no more. There are people depending on you and they need you to fight.
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79143 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:01 pm to
Never hit rock bottom but I've hit a few ruts.

I've got family, a few friends, a good job, a good dog, some ambitions, some hobbies, some things that I get excited about.

In the absence of true satisfaction in any one area, a few of those things should keep any man afloat. As much as I value family and friends and faith, having a few things I just outright enjoy doing and look forward to keeps me going more than anything else. Living day to day isn't optimal, but it'll get you through the rough patches.
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92876 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:02 pm to
Not yet, thankfully.
Posted by bigberg2000
houston, from chalmette
Member since Sep 2005
70025 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:02 pm to
Hey man Cena will be champ in a few days. Things are turning around!!!




I am not treating your situation as a joke I am just trying to hopefully lighten the mood.
Posted by unclejhim
Folsom, La.
Member since Nov 2011
3703 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:02 pm to
quote:

I contemplated running my car off the road a few times in the past hour on the drive home.. idk what stopped me..

BUT YOU DIDN'T. Now that's positive. Something stopped you, find out what that something is. Good luck my friend.
Posted by Sampson
Chicago
Member since Mar 2012
24561 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:02 pm to
January 2011 was my rock bottom. Dropped out of school for the 3rd time, didn't know what I wanted to do with my life, only girl I ever loved told me she hated me, moved back in with my parents, and drank/took painkillers every night to sleep. A very inspiring pep talk from my father woke me up and made me realize it was time to man up, quit quitting and stop feeling sorry for myself. I'm very grateful to have that mean old bastard in my life, I would be much worse off without him.
Posted by ellishughtiger
70118
Member since Jul 2004
21135 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:04 pm to
quote:

When I got out of jail


for what if you don't mind me asking
Posted by LaBR4
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
50743 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:04 pm to
quote:

hit rock bottom.
Not yet, thankfully.


In Scottsdale that is considered nailing a chick with A cups for a bra size, right?
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
64427 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:04 pm to
quote:

Idk, how much i'd wanna say on here, in case anyone knows me IRL... it's just a feeling of losing everything, or not knowing what to do. My son is gone for the summer with his mom.. I'm not homeless or jobless or anything... but I have this feeling of not being where i'm supposed to be at in life.. just fricking everything up as soon as it goes good.. and i feel like i'm failing.. even though i have one person who relies on me for everything.. and feeling like im a burden on others who are there for me.. yet not wanting to be a burden.. so giving up feels like the right thing to do so their lives will be easier cause i can't live with the thought of hurting or inconveniencing anyone else because my life isn't worth someone elses..


In all that I saw two key words.....

quote:

My son


That right there is what you keep fighting for. No matter what shite life throws at you, you fight it off and you do it for him. He needs his father. If you can't fight and be strong for yourself,m then do it for him.
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79143 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:05 pm to
quote:

Idk, how much i'd wanna say on here, in case anyone knows me IRL... it's just a feeling of losing everything, or not knowing what to do. My son is gone for the summer with his mom.. I'm not homeless or jobless or anything... but I have this feeling of not being where i'm supposed to be at in life.. just fricking everything up as soon as it goes good.. and i feel like i'm failing.. even though i have one person who relies on me for everything.. and feeling like im a burden on others who are there for me.. yet not wanting to be a burden.. so giving up feels like the right thing to do so their lives will be easier cause i can't live with the thought of hurting or inconveniencing anyone else because my life isn't worth someone elses..



Expectations about where you're supposed to be in life will kill you.

Spend your time worrying about who you want to be and what you want to do (within reason). Work on being a good friend, good dad, good employee, whatever. That is stuff you control.

Know also you don't have to get there today.
Posted by Shexter
Prairieville
Member since Feb 2014
13858 posts
Posted on 6/26/14 at 3:05 pm to
Find a new hobby - fishing, golf, hiking, etc.
Do some volunteer work.
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