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re: Had this girl I'm dating drop the E bomb (exclusive) on me
Posted on 5/7/15 at 8:46 am to Kracka
Posted on 5/7/15 at 8:46 am to Kracka
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I love it when threads don't go the way the OP thought they would.
If he wanted high fives and "you're so cool, bro" then he should have saved this story for his high school friends.
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Posted on 5/7/15 at 8:47 am to jvilletiger25
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I didn't tell her ok, and then continue to date other girls.
But thats clearly exactly what you want to do.
I mean, you've been dating this chick for a couple of weeks. You're obviously banging her. And now you think she's crazy for *gasp* wanting to know you are banging other chicks on the side?
Sounds like this chick was right to call you out.
Posted on 5/7/15 at 8:47 am to terd ferguson
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And I hope it was put there by a guy who will respect her.
I don't respect her because I want to take things slow?
I've been burned too many times not to be cautious.
Posted on 5/7/15 at 8:49 am to jvilletiger25
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I don't respect her because I want to take things slow?
Does not equal:
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Why put pressure on me to commit to only you after dating for less than a month?
Your OP made it sound like you wanted the option to date other chicks. That's not taking it slow.
Posted on 5/7/15 at 8:50 am to jvilletiger25
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I don't respect her because I want to take things slow?
No, you don't respect her because you want to continue to see other people while shoplifting the pootie.
Edit: Terd is the voice of reason in this thread. :mindblown:
This post was edited on 5/7/15 at 8:51 am
Posted on 5/7/15 at 8:51 am to elprez00
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She's pregnant
Posted on 5/7/15 at 8:51 am to jvilletiger25
How have you been burned? Seems like she's very interested in you and clearly wants to take things to the next level. Doubt she's looking to burn you here.
Doesn't matter, she's already moving on in her head.
Doesn't matter, she's already moving on in her head.
Posted on 5/7/15 at 8:51 am to jvilletiger25
It sounds to me like you really like this girl but you're scared to get into anything serious because you've got some other stuff going on. Fear of commitment perhaps? Or abandonment issues? Either way, your best course of action is to get her pregnant, your natural instincts will kick in overriding whatever baggage is preventing you from getting serious with this girl you like so much. Good luck.
Posted on 5/7/15 at 8:51 am to The Torch
quote:Don't tell jvill this. He'll take it to heart.
If she wants the E tell her she has to take the D in her A
Posted on 5/7/15 at 8:51 am to jvilletiger25
If she hooked up with another guy tonight, would you be mad?
Posted on 5/7/15 at 8:58 am to jvilletiger25
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I don't respect her because I want to take things slow?
I can't help but laugh at your logic. It's not very good.
How often do you see her, talk to her, go on dates?
This post was edited on 5/7/15 at 8:59 am
Posted on 5/7/15 at 9:15 am to jvilletiger25
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for less than a month
Run.
Posted on 5/7/15 at 9:25 am to jvilletiger25
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Why do women feel the need to say this? Let's just keep dating and see what happens. Why put pressure on me to commit to only you after dating for less than a month?
Maybe this is just experience talking, but you're in for an absolutely miserable, lonely life if you're for real with this. Assuming any of this story is true, something has kept you hanging out with this girl for a few weeks...right? Whatever that is ought to be enough to keep you around exclusively for a few more to see if it's worth pursuing...right?
Or are you simply so in demand that you can't risk not shopping around some more for a month or so to see if there's something legit there?
Of course...this all depends on your end goal for your life, obviously. If the goal is simply to stick your cock into as many new openings as possible, than congrats...you're on your way. If the goal is to find someone with whom you can share a life, you're doing it incredibly wrong. My guess is you're either late teens or very early 20's, right? There is NO HARM in being exclusive with a girl you seem to like for a little while to see if it's worth really pursuing. If you really do think there IS something wrong with it, you're not ready to be exclusive with anyone and you're a giant a-hole for not straight up telling girls that they have NO SHOT at being anything other than your frick buddy from the get-go.
Posted on 5/7/15 at 9:37 am to elprez00
Same here. I've never understood why people want to have sex ith someone who was fricking someone else the night before. 
I've never dated two people at the same time. I'd give them an ultimatum after a few dates. If I wanted to date someone, they either wanted the same thing or didn't. It's not that difficult.
I've never dated two people at the same time. I'd give them an ultimatum after a few dates. If I wanted to date someone, they either wanted the same thing or didn't. It's not that difficult.Posted on 5/7/15 at 9:42 am to 911Moto
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I'd give them an ultimatum after a few dates.
A few dates? Why wouldn't you do this after the first date? Seems like waiting for more dates is just crawfishing trying to buy time.
Posted on 5/7/15 at 9:43 am to jvilletiger25
Want a mother frickin cookie?
Posted on 5/7/15 at 9:45 am to jvilletiger25
Would it break your jaw to say you love her?
Posted on 5/7/15 at 9:48 am to Oizers
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If she hooked up with another guy tonight, would you be mad?
Even better, how would you feel if she was blowing some guy an hour before your next date?
Posted on 5/7/15 at 9:49 am to Oizers
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If she hooked up with another guy tonight, would you be mad?
No. The deep feelings aren't there yet, and I'd just move on.
Posted on 5/7/15 at 9:50 am to 911Moto
Give the op a break. I dint know details, but maybe they have busy lives/schedules which could be affected by "getting serious"
OP, don't be worried about semantics with her. This doesn't mean you can't hunt, fish, or hang with your boys (that comes later). It just means she's probably a solid girl respecting her family values and wants to make sure you're not sleeping around. IF you are, be honest and she'll stay around if she chooses.
Just become a man and stay honest. It ALWAYS works better that way. But don't trick her into thinking you not sleeping around only to have it hurt her in the future. Everyone loses in that situation.
OP, don't be worried about semantics with her. This doesn't mean you can't hunt, fish, or hang with your boys (that comes later). It just means she's probably a solid girl respecting her family values and wants to make sure you're not sleeping around. IF you are, be honest and she'll stay around if she chooses.
Just become a man and stay honest. It ALWAYS works better that way. But don't trick her into thinking you not sleeping around only to have it hurt her in the future. Everyone loses in that situation.
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