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re: Going through a break up, need some advice

Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:44 pm to
Posted by DeathValley85
Member since May 2011
17176 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:44 pm to
1. Keep active...go do stuff.

2. Get laid.

3. Let time pass.


That's really it man.
Posted by Lazy But Talented
Member since Aug 2011
14447 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:45 pm to
You'll be fine.
It takes time.
Don't constantly talk about it to others. You'll get the same responses every time and end up talking in circles.
Start lifting.
Pick up golf or tennis.
Posted by Ash Williams
South of i-10
Member since May 2009
18147 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:47 pm to
Delete her number from your phone

If you're mopey you'll end up drunk dialing her

Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55643 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:48 pm to
Smoke weed
Eat like shite
Drink a lot
Go to bogies/freds and bang slightly overweight bottom tier sorostitutes
Posted by DeathValley85
Member since May 2011
17176 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:50 pm to
quote:

Go to bogies/freds and bang slightly overweight bottom tier sorostitutes


Not sure how much you're joking but that isn't half bad advice
Posted by terriblegreen
Souf Badden Rewage
Member since Aug 2011
9645 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 1:53 pm to
I don't know why anyone would ask for advice in this situation. Do you think there's some magical answer. There isn't. Just man up and move on.
Posted by Tiger4life306
Member since Apr 2016
420 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 2:04 pm to
-Like many others said lose all contact with her. Don't text her, don't write her, don't watch her snapchats, delete her number and delete her from all social medias if you can't control yourself. At first you will be ignoring her but eventually it will help you completely forget about her.
-Don't fall into the trap of mind games, if she contacts you just ignore her or end the conversation as fast as possible. Bitches are crazy and will frick with your head if you let them.
-Accept that she is never coming back, this part's hard but as soon as you accept this the faster you will get over her.
-Also realize that she is probably out on the prowl too, possibly getting railed or shoving cocks in her mouth so when some picture pops up on social media of her with another dude just be ready for it.
-As time goes on it will get easier every day to move on, but it's ok to be upset about it - that's normal. You'll have times where you think about her, but that doesn't make you weak- I'm sure she was a big part of your life, eventually those thoughts will fade to where you don't think about her/don't have feelings for her.
-In the mean time working out or pick up some type of hobby definitely helps almost as much as anything and this will keep your mind off things too.
-frick as many girls as you possibly can, enjoy being single and before you know it you won't think twice about her
Posted by biglego
Ask your mom where I been
Member since Nov 2007
76330 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 2:07 pm to
In a year you won't even remember the bitch.
Posted by DownSouthCrawfish
Simcoe Strip - He/Him/Helicopter
Member since Oct 2011
36366 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 2:08 pm to
Just knock her off.
Posted by Adam4848
LA
Member since Apr 2006
18964 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 2:09 pm to
quote:

Long story short, I just got dumped


Just in time for Halloween you lucky SOB
Posted by Jorts R Us
Member since Aug 2013
14817 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 2:13 pm to
No piece of arse is worth crying over. There are plenty of fish in the sea and someone else will come along. Just remind yourself that you are now in a position to slay as much poon as you want guilt-free.

Listen to a guy who wasted 5 years on a girl who simply didn't love him as much as he loved her: frick a lot of women and don't ever look back.
Posted by geaux4a
Nola
Member since Sep 2013
248 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 2:14 pm to
You've got to stay busy. Like other guys have said already, find someone else to hang out with. Catch up with friends, do fun shite you couldn't do when you were dating, like go golfing all afternoon and get wasted. Staying busy is key, but unfortunately, there's really nothing that will heal it but time. Try to keep your mind off of it and sooner or later one morning you'll wake up and you wont think about her.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
83937 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 2:15 pm to
quote:

Something your wife has long forgotten about



Prolly
Posted by DeionDeion
New Orleans, LA
Member since Apr 2010
6110 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 2:17 pm to
First, I think the key here is that you dont want to suppress your emotions. If youre pissed, be pissed. Sad? Be sad. Otherwise bitterness sets in and that hurts you more than anything else.

Find someone that wants to listen to you vent (dont overdue it bc even the most understand friend will eventually get tired of listening). But realize youre not alone and that people around you can relate.

Venting and talking things out are two very healthy tools. Isolation and bottling it up is super detrimental.

it's going to suck for a while and youre just going to have to deal with that, but it'll get better. dont isolate yourself, dont make her the bad guy (regardless of what she's done), dont throw a pity party, and dont try to think of ways the two of you can get back together.

it won't be easy but if you push through the process will make you a better man.
Posted by Wolfhound45
Hanging with Chicken in Lurkistan
Member since Nov 2009
120000 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 2:19 pm to
quote:

Yaboylsu63
Posted by BlindTiger7
Houston
Member since Sep 2016
2683 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 2:21 pm to
Frick her. Go spend the money you would have spent on her Christmas present and buy a new gun.
Or blow it on strippers.

Nudes?
Posted by Bunk Moreland
Member since Dec 2010
53391 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 2:22 pm to
Posted by CockHolliday
Columbia, SC
Member since Dec 2012
4516 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 2:24 pm to
Bang all of her slutty friends.

Nah seriously, it will take some time, just make the best of it for a while. Do things with friends, go out and meet new ones, find a new hobby. Most important thing is don't get too down on yourself; you'll be fine.
Posted by white perch
the bright, happy side of hell
Member since Apr 2012
7136 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 2:25 pm to
go bang a fatty and quit being a pussy you fricking pansy

Posted by TaderSalad
mudbug territory
Member since Jul 2014
24656 posts
Posted on 10/26/16 at 2:27 pm to
quote:

it's still raw



Go see a doc for some cream and law off the peen for a bit. It'll still be acceptable in a few months.
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