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re: Friend confided in me that he's having an affair (updates in OP)

Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:22 am to
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
67482 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:22 am to
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So you blame the user, not the dealer.

Sure....what am I missing?
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
67589 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:22 am to


in my younger days I would take that as I am allowed a free pass
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
68475 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:22 am to
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but "not getting any at home" is as good an excuse as so can think of.

No it's not. If you're not getting what you need then stop being a pussy and talk to her about it. Cheating is a bitch move.
Posted by Winkface
Member since Jul 2010
34377 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:22 am to
Not a crock of shite. Even you said it, nothing makes it right. Nothing excuses it.
Posted by meauxjeaux2
watson
Member since Oct 2007
60283 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:23 am to
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Post baby issues are tough on a marriage.
and Facebook for these women who think they've all of a sudden become ugly to their husband is like a shining light to them where random pervert men can like or comment on their swim suit posts.
Posted by Sevendust912
Member since Jun 2013
11366 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:23 am to
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I don't understand how someone can cheat on the mother of their children.


You really don't understand?
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
67589 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:24 am to
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I didn't feel that way. But looking back, I wish I didn't know


he cheated on you and you stayed with him?
Posted by OceanMan
Member since Mar 2010
19971 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:24 am to
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Sure....what am I missing?


Nothing. Its just your perception, but one could argue if there were no dealers, there would be less users. That is, if it would be harde to find willing participants to cheat, there would be less cheaters.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81185 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:24 am to
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excuses



The fact that no two people define this word the same kills me.
Posted by elprez00
Hammond, LA
Member since Sep 2011
29365 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:24 am to
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So you blame the user, not the dealer.


No, but women that cheat are just as guilty as men that cheat.

Its like the whole feigned outrage over Tiger Woods. How he "took advantage" of all these women.

He's Tiger fricking Woods. You can google and find out what he shot on the 9th hole of the US Amateur he won at age 12. There is no way these chicks didn't know who he was, or that he was married.

If you sleep with a married man, you have not been taken advantage of. You are an accomplice.
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
16993 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:24 am to
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Why not just split before cheating? Cheating is so cruel.



I had a friend that was more like a brother. He married my cousin and started having an affair on her. I found out and punched that bastard in the face. Haven't spoken to him since.

My wife cheated on me, and it wasn't because she wasn't getting it at home. I told her that I wish she would have just divorced me before doing that. She said she didn't want to lose her family. I told the bitch she had a funny way of showing she didn't want to lose her family and just finished signing the divorce papers yesterday. You not only turn your back on your spouse, but also your children. Now my kids have to grow up in a broken home. Quit being selfish @ssholes people!
Posted by Navytiger74
Member since Oct 2009
50458 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:25 am to
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Tell him to tell his wife or you will. I don't care if they went a year without sex, cheating is never EVER warranted.


What the frick is wrong with you guys? Were you all raised by Oprah?

1. Why does he owe more allegiance to his friend's wife than to his friend?
2. What would telling her solve? A good friend would try to persuade him to end the affair and point out the potential harm it could cause--not threaten to break up his marriage and ruin his life.

What the hell has happened to men in this country that would lead anyone to consider your post reasonable.

Jesus.
This post was edited on 8/1/14 at 8:34 am
Posted by meauxjeaux2
watson
Member since Oct 2007
60283 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:25 am to
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Nothing. Its just your perception, but one could argue if there were no dealers, there would be less users. That is, if it would be harde to find willing participants to cheat, there would be less cheaters.






you go home and find a stranger in your bed with your wife. Guy had no idea she was married.
Who do you get pissed at?
Posted by Dire Wolf
bawcomville
Member since Sep 2008
36588 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:25 am to
Posted by RedRifle
Austin/NO
Member since Dec 2013
8328 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:25 am to
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You will eventually slip up and tell your S/O and they will let his know


That would be the worst thing that I could do. My wife can't keep anything a secret.
Posted by Winkface
Member since Jul 2010
34377 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:26 am to
Jesus would never cheat.
Posted by jmcs68
Member since Sep 2012
40401 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:26 am to
Yes. All I am going to say is you can tolerate alot for the sake of your children. I did what I thought was best for my child. But know that I plotted my exit for 8 years. I have no regrets.
Posted by meauxjeaux2
watson
Member since Oct 2007
60283 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:26 am to
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She said she didn't want to lose her family

this is the main reason people cheat instead of just divorcing.
Posted by 79
Welp...
Member since Aug 2013
1029 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:27 am to
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That would be the worst thing that I could do. My wife can't keep anything a secret.


So now your keeping secrets from your wife?

Solid plan is solid...
Posted by OceanMan
Member since Mar 2010
19971 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 8:28 am to
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Why does he owe more allegiance to his friend's wife than to his friend?


He doesn't. Telling his wife would be stupid IMO, as it automatically involves him. But you can't just keep your mouth shut. Sometimes all someone needs to hear is how stupid their actions are, that might be what the friend is looking for.
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