re: Friend confided in me that he's having an affair (updates in OP)

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Ain't my business, and it has no bearing on my friendship with the person. As long as they're still a good friend to me, I couldn't give frick all what they do otherwise.

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Goddamn some of you people are trashy as frick.

The only true answer is to tell him to sign up here on the OT and introduce himself.

There's plenty more -worthy disaster coming down the road with this dude.

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If your wife was fricking another man you would not want to know? I would so I could move on with my life.

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This!! Cheating (IMO) is the death penalty a marriage. No amount of apologizes will fix it.

As a friend, you are honor-bound to try to point him in the right direction (ending the affair). You should never do anything that implies that you sanction his behavior (meeting the mistress , hanging out with her, etc). I personally wouldn't feel the need to end a friendship over it, but I know many better men who would.

Whatever happens, unless you're speaking with him, keep your mouth shut about it. You're a grown man.

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Your wife's cake is nice and I love eating it too. Thanks for raising my kids and taking them fishing all the time

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you had me going for a second

Until i read

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Your wife's cake is nice

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it feels ok.

then you said

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I love eating it too

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This is where i figured out you were just joking.

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meauxjeaux2

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Everyone is confused by your posts.

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Said it started due to a lack of intimacy at home.

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bullshite. It started because he let it start.

He is going to regret acting out of self-pity.

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Mrs. Martini wants to pass out her cookie,

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First of the day.

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People are greedy.

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especially women.
They have a cozy home provided by the husband.
Nice car,kids in a good school. 18 pairs of shoes,full wardrobe.

Cheats.

Well it is to me