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re: Found out my ex cheated

Posted on 9/23/14 at 1:27 pm to
Posted by Jones
Member since Oct 2005
90500 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 1:27 pm to
It happened over 5 years ago and youre currently in a great relationship.

Are you still friends with this ex gf?
Posted by lsufan27
The PJ
Member since Mar 2014
385 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 1:38 pm to
quote:

Are you still friends with this ex gf?



no contact whatsoever in years
Posted by Thib-a-doe Tiger
Member since Nov 2012
35374 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 1:39 pm to
Then why do you care?
Posted by JBeam
Guns,Germs & Steel
Member since Jan 2011
68377 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 1:45 pm to
quote:

no contact whatsoever in years

I don't know what to tell you man. At best, just let it go.
Posted by Neauxla
New Orleans
Member since Feb 2008
33443 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 1:49 pm to
7 pages and still no pics?
Posted by Jones
Member since Oct 2005
90500 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 1:49 pm to
quote:

Then why do you care?

Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 1:51 pm to
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But I don't think an internal "WTF" makes be a sniveling little bitch man.




No one is saying you're a sniveling little bitch, just a romantic at heart. You need to call this ex of yours and try to get back together, or at least get her pregnant. I know you've had a rough patch over the past five years but when it's meant to be, it's just meant to be. Go get'er bro!!
Posted by BayouBandit24
Member since Aug 2010
16572 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 1:53 pm to
quote:

no contact whatsoever in years


The one that got away. Poor man, go drink at a bar all alone and reminisce on your failure.

Posted by inthemorning
Alabama
Member since Sep 2014
395 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 1:54 pm to
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You need to call this ex of yours and try to get back together, or at least get her pregnant


There could not be worse advice to a man who had an unfaithful ex. She is going to do it again. Full stop. She is going to do it again.


Do you even care? Life isn't some storybook and rainbow set, people do crappy things and people don't change.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 1:58 pm to
Must be rough going through life with such a cynical attitude. One set-back shouldn't stop this guy from chasing after true love.
Posted by Jones
Member since Oct 2005
90500 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 1:58 pm to
Posted by inthemorning
Alabama
Member since Sep 2014
395 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 2:02 pm to
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true love


There is no such thing.

I think there are deeply happy and positive relationships, sure, but 'true love' is a fantasy. Even fantastic relationships can have rocky moments. 'True Love' is a symptom of everyone buying into the Disney Princess ideal of relationships.

What I find so hurtful about the ex in discussion is how she lied to him for years, by omission, and didn't have the decency to at least say she was unhappy. I've seen this reckless behavior before and its baffling why it isn't shamed more when women are unfaithful.

Oh well, don't mind me. I'm just saying the issues in play that caused her to cheat are definitely not resolved.
Posted by JBeam
Guns,Germs & Steel
Member since Jan 2011
68377 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 2:10 pm to
quote:

I think there are deeply happy and positive relationships, sure, but 'true love' is a fantasy. Even fantastic relationships can have rocky moments. 'True Love' is a symptom of everyone buying into the Disney Princess ideal of relationships.

nailed it.

quote:

What I find so hurtful about the ex in discussion is how she lied to him for years, by omission, and didn't have the decency to at least say she was unhappy. I've seen this reckless behavior before and its baffling why it isn't shamed more when women are unfaithful.

Oh well, don't mind me. I'm just saying the issues in play that caused her to cheat are definitely not resolved.

This probably happens more than people think. The OPs situation will never reach a reasonable conclusion. Unless, he confronts his ex [which I do not recommend].
Posted by TigerPanzer
Orlando
Member since Sep 2006
9476 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 2:21 pm to
quote:

Is it reasonable for me to be this hurt 5 years later?

No. Why rage over some skank that pole vaulted with another jizz dispenser years ago? Must be your ego feels corn holed, but let it go, that shite's in the past and means nothing.
Posted by TigerPanzer
Orlando
Member since Sep 2006
9476 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 2:26 pm to
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I will never mention this to a soul.

Just the 8000 or so maladjusted fricks who hang out on this board. Got it.
Posted by TigerPanzer
Orlando
Member since Sep 2006
9476 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 2:31 pm to
OP, this'll make you feel better. It's a Stooges song about your fallen angel entitle "Rich Bitch":
LINK
Posted by LSU1NSEC
Member since Sep 2007
17243 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 2:39 pm to
it's just your ego f'n with you


and take out some cheater's insurance next time
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
67482 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 2:53 pm to
quote:

No one is saying you're a sniveling little bitch

Careful now.....go back and read all 7 pages cause there are MANY calling him a sniveling little bitch
Posted by Farkwad
Byzantium
Member since Sep 2010
2669 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 2:56 pm to
It's only your pride and nothing more - sucks, but just see it for what it is...
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 9/23/14 at 3:02 pm to
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there are MANY calling him a sniveling little bitch


That's because he IS a sniveling little bitch. What a fricking pussy!!
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