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re: Elderly couples...when one dies

Posted on 4/27/14 at 4:03 pm to
Posted by emboslice
Member since Dec 2012
4519 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 4:03 pm to
My grandpa died in 2006 and my grandma was never the same. Slowly deteriorating mentally and physically, she didn't seem to have as much of a will to live her life anymore. She died a few hours ago
Posted by mpar98
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2006
8034 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 4:28 pm to
Geez man...sorry for your loss
Posted by AbsolutTiger
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2006
4796 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 4:29 pm to
One of my great grandmothers outlived my great grandfather by 20 years, lived by herself and was always happy. She died a week before she turned 90.

Now looking at my grandmother, I'm not sure if she would be as resilient if my grandfather goes first, they're much more dependent on one another.
Posted by Jackie Chan
Japan?
Member since Sep 2012
4685 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 4:29 pm to
It depends on the person. There are those that are able to move on, and those that are "ol' Dan/little Ann"
This post was edited on 4/27/14 at 4:30 pm
Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
4275 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 4:56 pm to
Dad passed in 92. We could tell my mother was going down fast. She started hoarding, not bathing, and getting socially inappropriate. I saw the writing on the wall and started doing my homework on nursing homes. Dementia and depression got so bad I eventually had to put her in one. It was the only way I could maintain her safely.
Posted by KG6
Member since Aug 2009
10920 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 5:07 pm to
My grandpa lost it after my grandma passed. He lasted two more years, but he was a totally different person.
Posted by bencoleman
RIP 7/19
Member since Feb 2009
37887 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 5:31 pm to
quote:

grandmother and grandfather were married for 40 something years. They both live the last 15 years in bad health. When my grandmother died,my grandfather died about six months later



My mom died and my dad died six months to the day later.
Posted by emboslice
Member since Dec 2012
4519 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 5:42 pm to
when it's time to go, it's time to go
Posted by glassman
Next to the beer taps at Finn's
Member since Oct 2008
116173 posts
Posted on 4/27/14 at 5:43 pm to
Sorry to hear that Embo.

quote:

when it's time to go, it's time to go


A good way to deal.
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