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re: Dual income households, what's the cost/benefit of the lower earner's wage?

Posted on 1/22/16 at 8:54 am to
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
84886 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 8:54 am to
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Living on a combined income of 50k would not be easy. Im sorry. It is a damn lie that someone who makes 150k chooses to do so 


Agreed. People that say they live on it usually mean the live as if they're taking home 4k or so per month, which certainly is livable. That poster isn't living as if they gross $50k.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32711 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 8:54 am to
my favorite part of that picture is the "computer operator".

she wants to get paid to troll facebook for bbc for 9 hours a week?
Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
101435 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 8:56 am to
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You also have to squeeze all of the day to day chores into 3-4 hours after you get off of work instead of the entire day like you used to have.


What kind of shite do you people have to do "chore" wise?

Y'all churning your own butter and darning socks or something?
This post was edited on 1/22/16 at 8:57 am
Posted by yellowfin
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Member since May 2006
97641 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 8:58 am to
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my wife works and we cook dinner every night



We do not unless it's something in crock pot that was started in the morning

Wife gets home with kids around 5:30 so that leave 2.5 hrs before bedtime to feed them, bath them, do homework, etc. Plus they are ready to eat as soon as they get home so if they have to wait an hour for her to cook something they'll just eat snacks anyway

Posted by LSUfan20005
Member since Sep 2012
8817 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 8:58 am to
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Costs (1) none.


Except:

1.) Child Care
2.) Inevitable meals out
3.) Gas
4.) Work Clothes
5.) I can go on and on

We have a single income household with 4 kids (2 school age). Break even for my wife to go back to work would be about $40K. So, if she could get a job at $60K (decent starting salary), we'd net 20. I'm not sure it's worth the stress.
Posted by G Vice
Lafayette, LA
Member since Dec 2006
12919 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 8:59 am to
No kidding.

3 kids, private school tuition, teenagers with cars, teenagers on car insurance......it's expensive.

It's funny though, when they ask for a little money to go to the movies, I give them a $20 bill and think to myself wow that was easy.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97641 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 9:01 am to
I haven't even got to the teenage expenses yet
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
101919 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 9:01 am to
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3 kids
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a little money to go to the movies
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I give them a $20 bill


Bummer, which one gets left out? Or do they pull the whole buy one ticket then let the other two in through the exit door routine? That would be thrifty, could probably even afford a popcorn to share.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129003 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 9:04 am to
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2.) Inevitable meals out


She can bring her lunch from home...she would still be eating that same food if she was at home right?


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3.) Gas

She doesn't drive anywhere when she is home with the children?

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4.) Work Clothes


So she doesn't spend money at all on clothes? Not every job requires an expensive work wardrobe.

Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
84886 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 9:06 am to
I wouldn't say that meme is complete bullshite, but it fails to account for the fact that most working parents do all of that while working themselves.
Posted by LSUfan20005
Member since Sep 2012
8817 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 9:08 am to
All of those categories would increase dramatically for my wife if she worked.

Posted by ShoeBang
Member since May 2012
19359 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 9:08 am to
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Break even for my wife to go back to work would be about $40K


Take home pay is somewhere around $2500 a month.

2 kids in daycare: $1100
2 kids in school: Free in public schools
Meals out & gas: $250 a month if you bring lunch most days / depending on commute
Clothes: $150 a month (generous IMO)

Theses an extra $1000 there at 40k. at 60K, take home should be around $3500. That's $2000 a month extra in your pocket.

How is that not an obvious benefit unless you make $150k a year or something?
Posted by G Vice
Lafayette, LA
Member since Dec 2006
12919 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 9:09 am to
No one gets left out. They each have their own friends, and they go out in little groups. And they are not all going to the movies on the same night. Just saying that when they ask for money to go to the movies, they get a 20, max, and that feels like pocket change. If they want blizzard from Sonic afterward, they need to bring their own money to cover that.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83582 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 9:09 am to
I get home at 4, so I can start dinner and have it almost ready when the wife gets home at 5:30

my wife's job is perfect (although she doesn't make very much)

she works right down the road (5 min), she dresses casual, we get kid clothes/accessories/toys/furniture/etc at cost, she can come and go as she wishes, she can bring my daughter to work with her if she has to (they have a play area in the store), boss buys lunch everyday, I could go on and on

if she didn't have this job, she would probably stay at home, but her job is just too perfect
This post was edited on 1/22/16 at 9:11 am
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
70911 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 9:11 am to
Do not home school your kids; they need a social life that is not constantly being monitored.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97641 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 9:13 am to
yeah that sounds more like a hobby and they give her a little spending cash than a true job
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
84886 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 9:16 am to
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What kind of shite do you people have to do "chore" wise? 

Y'all churning your own butter and darning socks or something?


, no, of course not, but surely you can appreciate that it would entail a lifestyle change for a couple with kids who are going to lose 40 "free" hours they used to have during the week.

It also means you're up earlier to get ready and get kids ready to go to daycare, get to daycare, and then to work.

I pity someone who goes back to work just because they'll make more money than daycare cost. That person could be in for a rude awakening, figuratively and literally.
Posted by ShoeBang
Member since May 2012
19359 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 9:20 am to
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That poster isn't living as if they gross $50k.


If you provide insurance for the whole family and claim everyone on you paycheck, take home of $50k is somewhere in the $3000 a month range. Tough to survive on unless you have no rent / mortgage, no car notes, or live in a bad area
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58761 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 9:23 am to
My wife just recently stopped working. She was paid pretty well, and the income hit hurts a little. However, less stress, less of a tax hit, etc. will eventually help.

I also formed an LLC for her to start a photography business, so it's not like she's just sitting at home all day doing nothing.
Posted by Janky
Team Primo
Member since Jun 2011
35957 posts
Posted on 1/22/16 at 9:23 am to
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I'd be so fricking rich with no kids


No doubt. Take away the wife and I would have frick you money.
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