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re: Daughters BF has asked to marry daughter
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:02 am to darnol91
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:02 am to darnol91
You are not allowed to judge someone based on their job/title if that is what the economy is showing as the prominent profession.
Trade schools/trade jobs are on the up and up. A degree is worth nothing nowadays in many disciplines unless you have a major and preferably a masters.
You cannot be worried about their well-being when he is on the right path. Sure, you can ask about his goals/aspirations in his career, but he is doing things right for right now.
Trade schools/trade jobs are on the up and up. A degree is worth nothing nowadays in many disciplines unless you have a major and preferably a masters.
You cannot be worried about their well-being when he is on the right path. Sure, you can ask about his goals/aspirations in his career, but he is doing things right for right now.
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:03 am to CHEDBALLZ
Gotcha. I understood that he called to ask and the FIL said let's have lunch to discuss.
Nevermind.
Nevermind.
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:04 am to Badman
if he's man enough to look you in the eye, shake your hand and actually ask for your blessing... seems like a good guy.
she could probably do worse.
she could probably do worse.
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:06 am to MorbidTheClown
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if he's man enough to look you in the eye, shake your hand and actually ask for your blessing.
just a formality anymore, if they're going to do it(and they're already doing it,) they're going to do it
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:07 am to 777Tiger
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just a formality anymore
agreed. but, if this kid actually asked....that's a plus in my book.
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:09 am to MorbidTheClown
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if this kid actually asked....that's a plus in my book.
agree
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:11 am to 777Tiger
i was nervous as a MF when i asked my GF's dad back then.
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:15 am to Badman
It could be worse. She could had gotten knocked up at 16 by some loser that lives in your trailer park and now you're having to raise her bastard son while she's finishing up her GED.
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:25 am to tgrbaitn08
quote:bruhhh
She could had gotten knocked up at 16 by some loser that lives in your trailer park and now you're having to raise her bastard son while she's finishing up her GED.
Why you have to bring up PJ in this thread?
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:32 am to Badman
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I do believe this is a real love and they both would do anything for each other. My only hesitation is that he is not in school and I don't really see any future career path for him. Guess I'm just trying to save my daughter from a financially insecure future.
He works out of town a lot and called me tonight see if we could meet to talk. I asked was it about my daughter and he said yes he was going to propose to her.
Dude told you he was going to propose to your daughter over the phone? Frankly, I'd have hesitations as well. Anybody that asks my permission to marry my daughter via telephone will not get my blessing.
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:32 am to Ed Osteen
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sorry, "about five years since 11th grade" is just a strange term to use as a measuring stick
He just left out a comma, you half-wit. He's saying they've been dating for 5 years, since 11th grade. In other words, they started dating her junior year of high school, which was 5 years ago. Really not that complicated.
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:32 am to tgrbaitn08
What's the matter? You seem uptight lately.
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:33 am to T Blair
quote:ok
Dude told you he was going to propose to your daughter over the phone? Frankly, I'd have hesitations as well. Anybody that asks my permission to marry my daughter via telephone will not get my blessing.
Good luck with that grandpa. Hope the 21st century treats you well.
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:35 am to tgrbaitn08
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It could be worse. She could had gotten knocked up at 16 by some loser that lives in your trailer park and now you're having to raise her bastard son while she's finishing up her GED.
Also known as living in Livingston parish
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:35 am to SuperSaint
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What's the matter? You seem uptight lately.
99 problems
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:40 am to Badman
As long as he makes a good living, loves her, and treats her with respect, shouldn't be an issue. If you raised her right, and she wants to marry him for all the right reasons, then it's all you can ask for.
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:41 am to SuperSaint
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ok
Good luck with that grandpa. Hope the 21st century treats you well.
Call me old fashion, but I'd like to look the man in the eye that asks me for my daughters hand in marriage.
Posted on 1/23/17 at 8:42 am to Badman
As Charles Barkley so famously put it when asked how he would handle that situation: " I'll kill the first one to ask & word will get around". But, as well, do understand that the lad will be nervous as hell, so cut him some slack when talking.
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