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re: Cant stand this guy in my new GF's social circle

Posted on 11/25/14 at 3:15 pm to
Posted by htownjeep
Republic of Texas
Member since Jun 2005
7612 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 3:15 pm to
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Even if you do date this girl, she is gonna continue to cheat on you, guaranteed.

FIFY
Posted by CptBengal
BR Baby
Member since Dec 2007
71661 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 3:16 pm to
I dont hate you.

I hate that you whine, like a bitch.

The sad part is you're doing things to "get better"

yet dont understand why you're doing them.

It's the height of pathetic futility.
Posted by CptBengal
BR Baby
Member since Dec 2007
71661 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 3:16 pm to
FACT. That prof is balls deep.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
55448 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 3:16 pm to
quote:

I don't see why people are hating on me so much.


Insecurity irritates the frick out of me.

Posted by Jones
Member since Oct 2005
90503 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 3:17 pm to
quote:

working out, learning a new language, killing it at work, etc.



i just dont see how any of this changes the description youve given yourself in the OP.


quote:

The thing that pisses me off is that I know for a fact that I make more money than him


this line of thinking doesnt change because you pump iron or buy a rosetta stone.


did you ever find out if she slept with him or not?
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
83933 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 3:17 pm to
You seem like an okay guy, SirWinston. I think you should just dump her. She is either oblivious to your feelings, in love with the guy, or she is just testing boundaries. Either way, it doesn't end well for you. Just get out now.

Her friends will respect you for it, and her girlfriends will probably want you afterwards (if you're at least decent-looking).
Posted by SirWinston
PNW
Member since Jul 2014
81634 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 3:17 pm to
When did I whine? I don't understand how me describing my weaknesses and how I felt during a certain situation makes me a "bitch".

At a point in the thread I agree that this guy is probably not the problem, the problem is probably more me and my confidence. I am going to work my arse off to be an even better man. Don't see where the propensity to dislike me and wish ill on me comes from
This post was edited on 11/25/14 at 3:18 pm
Posted by htownjeep
Republic of Texas
Member since Jun 2005
7612 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 3:18 pm to
quote:

The rest of you seem pissed for some reason, I don't really know why.

I don't hate you and I just posted for the first time a few minutes ago. But, I've read a decent portion of this thread and you're either trolling or you are super beta and she will walk allllll over you for your entire relationship unless you change your shite...and I mean rickey tick.

Quit fricking around with these hippies and do something in your comfort zone or either man the frick up and be a man.
Posted by Mr. Tom Morrow
Cosmic Ray's Starlight Cafe
Member since Jun 2012
6847 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 3:18 pm to
He's learning beta max.
Posted by SirWinston
PNW
Member since Jul 2014
81634 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 3:19 pm to
Dude, I'm going to seem beta when I open up about an insecurity I have. That situation and this thread/problem represents probably less than 1% of my total life. I wanted advice on how to deal with this situation and how I should have handled it better last weekend. That's it.

I'm going to the gym now, baws. See ya'll later.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
55448 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 3:20 pm to
quote:

the problem is probably more me and my confidence. I am going to work my arse off to be an even better man.


You don't work on confidence. It comes from innate self-love and comfortability with one's self.

I'm fricking awesome because I think I am.

shite, man, fake it till you make it.
Posted by Jones
Member since Oct 2005
90503 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 3:20 pm to
quote:

At a point in the thread I agree that this guy is probably not the problem, the problem is probably more me and my confidence


The guy is not the problem at all. You cant fault him for being "alpha"
Posted by htownjeep
Republic of Texas
Member since Jun 2005
7612 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 3:21 pm to
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Dude, I'm going to seem beta when I open up about an insecurity I have.

I'm not talking about being beta on here. I'm talking about being beta in all of the situations you have described.
Posted by CptBengal
BR Baby
Member since Dec 2007
71661 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 3:25 pm to
quote:

I am going to work my arse off to be an even better man. Don't see where the propensity to dislike me and wish ill on me comes from


This comment proves you dont get it, clown.

I do the things I do because I love to do them. A bitch does things because they think they'll make him better.

The fact you hate this other guy shows how far off the path you are, and blindly doing "things" aint gonna get you there.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
55448 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 3:28 pm to
quote:

SirWinston



You should read 'Models' by Mark Manson. It could help you a great deal.
Posted by lsu xman
Member since Oct 2006
15551 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 4:06 pm to
Just get her knocked up.
Posted by BugaPainTrain7
Oxford, MS
Member since Nov 2014
11567 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 4:08 pm to
I had this same thing happen to me except she didn't talk about him all the time I legit thought about stabbing this douche in the jug....I hate him to this day and I always will
Posted by schlow mo
New Orleans
Member since Feb 2010
5245 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 4:11 pm to
Solution is simple you beta

1. Dump this chick before you are anymore invested

2. If you continue to pursue this garbage flat out ask her if she banged him; it is certainly not asking too much to avoid spending a lot of time with a guy she banged in the beginning of a relationship.

3. If she answers in the affirmative and is hesitant see 1.

4. Quit being a bitch and pawn this 35k making pseudo intellectual junior professor bitch.
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
39578 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 4:12 pm to
Schlow, get off the internet when you're on vacation you dumby
Posted by schlow mo
New Orleans
Member since Feb 2010
5245 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 4:13 pm to
Waiting on a woman
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