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re: Anyone else had this problem after first child born?

Posted on 6/1/14 at 9:58 am to
Posted by CENLALSUFAN
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Posted on 6/1/14 at 9:58 am to
Man y'all better kick your women in gear.. I've got 5 with one on the way...she Begs me to get out the house.. Lol.. I'll be glad when the oldest is old enough to baby sit by herself... That way we won't have to pay that extra fee..

Just put a few more in her the more you have the more she wants to get away haha... (could be the reason we keep having more)but we are done with six..

In all honestly though.. We hardly ever have a babysitter.. We always go out as a family.. More entertaining that way!
This post was edited on 6/1/14 at 10:00 am
Posted by MBclass83
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 6/1/14 at 9:59 am to
Could be a mild form of post-partum depression.
Posted by Im4datigers
Northern Virginia
Member since Oct 2003
4462 posts
Posted on 6/1/14 at 10:00 am to
Women are wired different we all know.

My guess is PPD. Trust me it can be a son of a bitch and you don't even know she has it as men are just wired different. Hard to call them out on it though to get them help.
Posted by 756
Member since Sep 2004
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Posted on 6/1/14 at 10:03 am to
PPD is real and a serious condition. I suggest you have her see her physician and an appropriate counselor
Mayo Clinic PPD
Posted by StrangeBrew
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Posted on 6/1/14 at 10:03 am to
pIHB
Posted by LigerFan
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Posted on 6/1/14 at 10:05 am to
She may just have a different idea of what life would be like after children. It may have been how her parents did things after they had kids.
Posted by loopback
Member since Jul 2011
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Posted on 6/1/14 at 10:05 am to
PPD 17 months later?

Welcome to fatherhood and marriage with kids. This is normal.
Posted by biglego
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Posted on 6/1/14 at 10:06 am to
Leave her
Posted by Mike da Tigah
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Posted on 6/1/14 at 10:10 am to
quote:

Does she have PPD?


If she doesn't get out the house, she's going to have FAT

Posted by Tom4LSU
Member since Jun 2009
275 posts
Posted on 6/1/14 at 10:11 am to
If it's any consolation it does get easier when they get a little older and you're not changing shite diapers all day. Sex comes back too. At least that has been my experience. 17 months is a tough age.
Posted by Im4datigers
Northern Virginia
Member since Oct 2003
4462 posts
Posted on 6/1/14 at 10:12 am to
If PPD was never initially treated it likely never went away. I would say 17 months isn't out of question. And it doesn't start the second the baby pops out
Posted by Im4datigers
Northern Virginia
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Posted on 6/1/14 at 10:14 am to
LINK

Up to 2 years it can last
Posted by TigerGman
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Posted on 6/1/14 at 10:17 am to
Ashleymadison,com.

Problem solved.
Posted by RadTiger
Member since Oct 2013
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Posted on 6/1/14 at 10:20 am to
housekeeper, babysitter, etc....
Posted by TheIndulger
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Posted on 6/1/14 at 10:23 am to
Farmersonly.com
Posted by LSU alum wannabe
Katy, TX
Member since Jan 2004
26973 posts
Posted on 6/1/14 at 10:30 am to
Sounds like the wife and I. Ours is 4 now. Your wife sounds smart or overwhelmed. Mine does not like to go,out nearly as much. Nor do I. Hate asking mom to watch our son to go out and drank.

My wife understands what yours may too. Kids don't give a frick about your hangover, and I am less than useless with my son when I am hungover. Wife knows our son will want to climb back in her uterus whenever she feels her worst.

You sound young? What's your age? If all of your friends have no children or just are irresponsible you may need to branch out. Find friends with similar interests meaning kids. Sadly kids are a time when friends begin to drift apart. Like graduation. From high school and college.
Posted by Libertariantiger
Member since Nov 2012
981 posts
Posted on 6/1/14 at 10:49 am to
Have you let her know?
It's sad some women are changed from fun, spontaneous women to moms. I would talk to her about balancing being a wife vs a mom. Don't let it get to where she is 100% mom. That's when people get bossed around all day and not laid at night.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 6/1/14 at 10:50 am to
Welcome to parent hood, loser. My parents didn't do shite after I was born.
Posted by RadTiger
Member since Oct 2013
1121 posts
Posted on 6/1/14 at 10:53 am to
quote:

Up to 2 years it can last


Well, seven more months and he is in the clear.
Posted by CoCo311
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Posted on 6/1/14 at 11:00 am to
quote:


It's sad some women are changed from fun, spontaneous women to moms. I would talk to her about balancing being a wife vs a mom. Don't let it get to where she is 100% mom. That's when people get bossed around all day and not laid at night.


Do you even have a wife or kids?
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