re: Any Family Men here have a job with 50% travel?

If it's going to make you a shitload of money, it'll be fine. If you are still just making ends meet, it will add more stress into an already stressful situation. I've been in the latter position.

If you're worried about family time, you will actually spend more quality time with your family being gone that much than just a normal 40 hour work week.

I travel 15-20% of the time international and have a 16 month old daughter and a boy on the way. It gets pretty damned hard to be away most of the time, I have begun disliking it strongly.

i'm not at 50% travel but i average 7-10 nights a month in a hotel room out of 20ish days during work weeks.

i maximize time with the kids on weekends. instead of watching football all day saturday, i drain my phone checking scores. i don't go out very often with friends on nights i'm home.

i facetime with them every single night no matter what situation i'm in. i facetimed 2 weeks ago with them from the Quarter, because i was in NOLA area on business.

one thing i negotiated when i took this job was to make sure that there was some compensation for nights missed with the family. not financially, but intrinsically.

case in point:

I had to miss 5 nights over the last two weeks including a Friday night where I didn't get home till Midnight Saturday morning. So, I asked to work from my family's house the week of thanksgiving, which should be minimal work. So for the cost of missing 5 nights with my family i get a 7 day holiday with them.

ETA: I have a 7 year old and a 5 year old. We are seriously considering home schooling next year. Most of my travel is in state and in such a way that i can drop them off at the hotel, get done around 7 and spend the evening together.

I don't think I could handle much travel. I may be away from home 10-20 nights a year on business. I have a 6 year old son. The past 2 months I've been overseeing a project 97 miles from home, hell I miss things now because I choose to make the drive instead of stay in a hotel away from the family, Leave at 4:00AM get home 7:30PM. But I still get to see my son every night. I go in late every other Friday so I can bring him to school and grab donuts. That's the stuff I would really miss if I worked out of state. My father chased pipelines all my life, he did it to provide us with a better way of life, but he missed a lot. Most of the important stuff he would find a way to make it to though.

There is a balance if you can handle being away. Good luck

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One perk though, be sure to collect all the hotel, airline, and rental car points you can. Believe me they rack up fast and I use these for free vacations with the family when I am in.

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hellz yes.

my 10 year anniversary is coming up and if i can cram enough in between here and December I should be able to fly my wife and myself to NYC, stay 3 nights in hotels, and get 2x$100 prepaid cards for food in the spring without spending more than $20 dollars on the mandatory airline fee. that's after a year and some change of living the traveling lifestyle.

Perks are nice. I have about 750k in hilton points and about 300,000 points between United and Southwest. I keep hoarding them for some vacation that I don't have scheduled nor even planned.

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Perks are nice. I have about 750k in hilton points and about 300,000 points between United and Southwest. I keep hoarding them for some vacation that I don't have scheduled nor even planned.

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i haven't been gone that much.

i think i'm just short of Gold with 60kish Hilton points and have about 30-40kish SW points.

My Brother in law got a job within the same company that made him move from Abilene to Houston. Company will pay for one year of hotels until you sell your house and it took him 8 months to sell the house and move his family. He was a diamond Hilton member in 2 months. fricker will always send me pictures of his point balance when he reaches a milestone.

I do it now but it is only temporary until relocation is complete. I have been doing it for 4 months now and it is tougher on my wife and youngest child to not have me at home every other week. I have friends with kids who did it for a few years, racked up lots of miles and hotel points and now travel with family for free.

I could never do it especially w/ kids.

I travel but never far and usually 1-2 nights a month. It's perfect because I get some peace and quiet on occasion but not gone long enough to miss the kids or miss out on anything significant.

I have no choice, it's called deployment. Missed my kids first birthdays, first anniversary and many holidays over the past few years. It pays out in the end though.