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re: A friend of mine is getting disowned by some family members for divorcing wife that
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:42 pm to molsusports
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:42 pm to molsusports
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Generally kids pick up behavior from their parents and their peers. Not what we tell them to do. What they actually really do.
Exactly. So they will either learn that their father’s love & respect is conditional on their appearance or they will learn that the only people who have a certain appearance are valuable and worthy of their love and respect. Either way, congrats on decent eating habits in a depressed or shitty human being assuming they didn’t develop an eating disorder.
By divorcing the fat mom, he can still teach them good eating habits and it will stand out even more when compared to another over weight parent with bad eating habits.
I don’t have an issue with him divorcing her if he’s not attracted to her anymore and there wasn’t enough love to bridge that gap. I DO have a problem with him staying with a woman he doesn’t live and respect until his kids are 18, especially if he is fat shaming and disrespectful of their mother. Those lessons are hard to unteach once kids live them through their entire childhood.
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Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:43 pm to Klark Kent
She will 100% lose the weight now. And he is going to see her and be like damn if she would have just lost the weight when I was with her.
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:43 pm to kywildcatfanone
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Your friend is a terrible person and I hope she gets 100% of his stuff.
I think y’all are being a little rough on the dude
If this dude is out there divorcing his kids’ mom because her tits ain’t as high as they used to be or she’s got the c-section scar, yea that’s fricked, but ONE HUNDRED POUNDS is an insane amount of weight
I’m imagining the truth is somewhere in the middle where she gained a bit of a weight and he was a bit of a dick, but I’d be surprised if any straight man was willing to stick with his wife if she gained 100 pounds. For an average thin person to gain 100 pounds, that takes her from 115-130 to 215-230. That’s a legit unit of a woman. That’s get out of breath walking up the stairs weight. And where do you draw the line? If she gains 200 is it ok? 300?
I imagine, like mentioned, their relationship was already messed up. Healthy, active, supportive people don’t gain 100 pounds, atleast not normally. He should’ve recognized she was unhappy and eating through it, worked on their relationship, and figured out active things they could have done together. At some point there is a breaking point though IMO
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:44 pm to WDE24
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Give those kids all sorts of psychological issues because his wife was fat. More guys should definitely be like that.
Well, being fat is also a psychological issue she is teaching them.
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:47 pm to kywildcatfanone
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Your friend is a terrible person and I hope she gets 100% of his stuff.
100 lbs is an unhealthy amount of weight to gain.
If he was an arse hole and become unattractive to her emotionally, she'd get all the support in the world for leaving him.
This is why marriage is a sham for men. She can do what she wants, not give a shite and now she gets half of everything, only to repeat the cycle again with some other dude.
This post was edited on 10/29/23 at 5:52 pm
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:47 pm to LSU Warren
I hate to see any marriage fall apart, especially when kids are involved, but I can understand his frustration.
Who wants to be an ATM in an affection-less marriage where he's being spoken to sharply.
Who wants to be an ATM in an affection-less marriage where he's being spoken to sharply.
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:47 pm to LSU Warren
Good for him. For better or worse, doesn't give her the right to stop taking care of herself. Nobody wants to be wheeling a fat arse around Walmart and spending a small fortune on meds because she thinks it's ok.
I don't want to be that guy, do you?
I don't want to be that guy, do you?
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:48 pm to Pandy Fackler
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Also, men don't realize how childbirth utterly wrecks a pussy. I mean it really fricks it up pretty good.
It's true. The difference between a pussy that has passed kids through it and one that hasn't is like the difference between OJs glove the night he wore it to kill Nicole and the day he tried to slide it on in court.
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:48 pm to LSU Warren
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More guys out there should have the balls to do the same.
More guys should have the balls to keep their commitments.
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:50 pm to Iron Lion
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Side pussy is cheaper
Should've gotten caught cheating. She would've filed then and he would get what he wanted anyway.
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:50 pm to LSU Warren
He could put a gun to her head and tell her to lose the weight or else, but, some of her kin would probably frown on that, too.
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:51 pm to tigerbacon
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2 kids are really hard to the body. If he wanted the same figure for his wife don’t have kids
100 pounds overweight is 100 pounds overweight. Cardiovascular disease doesn't give a frick how many kids you have. What an ignorant arse comment.
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:51 pm to LSU Warren
She ain’t a lady if she ain’t 280.
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:52 pm to LSU Warren
I can’t imagine this guy was actually nice to her about losing weight. Maybe if he worked out with her and encouraged her it may have turned out different. Having kids does a number on our bodies and while some women can bounce back the majority can’t and it takes ALOT of work to get there. And in the process of getting there something in the house will suffer that mom usually takes care of.
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:53 pm to OweO
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:55 pm to Hondo Blacksheep
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Who wants to be an ATM in an affection-less marriage where he's being spoken to sharply.
This man knows a thing or two about marriage.
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:55 pm to Legion of Doom
To be a slob, you only have to gain 1 pound a year.
I mean how many pounds overweight should you be by age 50? I’ll give you 10 pounds because you’re big-boned.
Dad statement and question I’ll never ever forget.
I mean how many pounds overweight should you be by age 50? I’ll give you 10 pounds because you’re big-boned.
Dad statement and question I’ll never ever forget.
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:56 pm to Meauxjeaux
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More guys should have the balls to keep their commitments.
aka. My wife is fat af
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:56 pm to LSU Warren
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He told me that it is costing him a fortune in child support etc., but that he would rather live in a studio apartment and eat peanut butter for the rest of his life than to wake up and have to look at her for the rest of his life.
2 thoughts. 1, I think this is embellished by you for some odd rant reason. 2, if not embellished, your "friend" is a low life with an equally low IQ. Choose a better sphere.
Posted on 10/29/23 at 5:56 pm to Mouth
quote:I’m not in favor of her bad health. I just don’t see divorce as the solution and creates more damage for the innocent kids involved instead of the selfish arse parents.
Well, being fat is also a psychological issue she is teaching them.
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