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re: What would you do?

Posted on 9/29/08 at 10:10 am to
Posted by BDTiger
Member since May 2006
4481 posts
Posted on 9/29/08 at 10:10 am to
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i would've have told him to watch his fricking mouth before he gets a fist in it.


That will get you nowhere.
I dropped a few at Ole Miss last year this guy turns around and tells me to "watch my fricking mouth, and stop the god damn cursing"
...This is the same guy who all during the game got pissed with the "go to hell ole miss" chants.


There is a right way and a wrong way to do it.
This post was edited on 9/29/08 at 10:11 am
Posted by Lsuhoohoo
Member since Sep 2007
94402 posts
Posted on 9/29/08 at 10:10 am to
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11 year old daughter


Agree with this. I understand that you wouldn't want someone using this language around your daughter but keep in mind that kids in middle school discover curses and think its really cool to use them so its probably nothing new to her.
Posted by Bengal
Northgate Tavern
Member since Dec 2006
15091 posts
Posted on 9/29/08 at 10:13 am to
Don't be a vag about it. Use that guy as an example of how not to be at a game. Getting your arse kicked in front of your daughter isn't going to impress her
Posted by lsudupont82
The Avoyelles Parish
Member since Nov 2007
5112 posts
Posted on 9/29/08 at 10:13 am to
quote:

I understand that you wouldn't want someone using this language around your daughter but keep in mind that kids in middle school discover curses and think its really cool to use them so its probably nothing new to her.


true
Posted by Jaydeaux
Covington
Member since May 2005
18754 posts
Posted on 9/29/08 at 10:13 am to
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ask him politely to take it down a notch. if he doesn't, suck it up or leave


Well chances are he's probably a coward like this punk so if you asked him to stop in front of people he'd stop.

But if he somehow thought he had the right like this arse clown above, then I'd get someone to watch my daughter in the tunnel then embarass the guy with a beat down in front of everyone. Trust me people like me would help you.

Posted by im4LSU
Hattiesburg, MS
Member since Aug 2004
31932 posts
Posted on 9/29/08 at 10:14 am to
what section were you in?

EBL?
Posted by TigerEd
Luling
Member since Dec 2004
218 posts
Posted on 9/29/08 at 10:15 am to
I can tell you how I handled something similar some time ago. I was 9 years old and my Mom took me to my first LSU Game because my dad had recently passed away. It was the LSU/Notre Dame game in the early 70's (The 28-8 Game). There was an LSU fan behind us, drunk and cursing like crazy with f-bombs and sexually related talk. I remember standing up to him and told him to stop using bad language in front of my mom.
Posted by flyingtexastiger
Southlake, TX
Member since Oct 2005
1636 posts
Posted on 9/29/08 at 10:15 am to
It's an uncomfortable situation. Most of us have been guilty of dropping an F-bomb or two in the heat of LSU frenzy. But as a predominantly Southern fanbase, most of us have been taught better and will respond appropriately when politely asked to take it down a notch.

99% of the crowd will appreciate you for doing it. If the polite request doesn't work, then is the time to get the marshall involved. And sometimes maybe it's worth the trouble to help the guilty party "lose his balance" and take a tumble down a few rows. Whoops, maybe you shouldn't have been drinking so much.

OBTW, paying for a ticket doesn't give you an automatic pass to be an obnoxious a-hole.
Posted by BDTiger
Member since May 2006
4481 posts
Posted on 9/29/08 at 10:17 am to
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OBTW, paying for a ticket doesn't give you an automatic pass to be an obnoxious a-hole.




+1
This post was edited on 9/29/08 at 10:18 am
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
36703 posts
Posted on 9/29/08 at 10:19 am to
Didn't read all the responses BUT before EVERY game I remind my 16 yo and 11 yo sons that they will hear/see some very not nice/polite things. I in no way think that they don't/won't ever curse BUT it's my job as a parent to remind them it's not polite (yes, I'm the mom).

That said, I'd have asked him to stop ... and I'd have done it if there were kids around and mine weren't.

Posted by LStateU
Metairie
Member since Nov 2007
736 posts
Posted on 9/29/08 at 10:19 am to
I think the "ear muffs" approach is the only thing you can really do...


Posted by rutiger
purgatory
Member since Jun 2007
21112 posts
Posted on 9/29/08 at 10:30 am to
its a frickin football game. i agree with the dude above that said, tell your children before hand that people are gonna be fired up and cussing. if you dont like it, take your daughter to the ballet. i think cussing at a game full of drunk fools is a given. and when jlee threw that pick i stood up and yelled jesus frickin christ, cant help it in the heat of the moment.
Posted by MrWilson
Somewhere in La.
Member since Oct 2006
926 posts
Posted on 9/29/08 at 10:30 am to
Posted by CurDog
Member since Jan 2007
28082 posts
Posted on 9/29/08 at 10:33 am to
i have been in these situations before. most of the people that sit around us are there every week so we know most of them. every now and then someone will sell/give away thier tickets and a stranger will appear.
we had a guy with his wife/girlfriend and everytime someone would mess up he cuss them up and down. i asked him nicely if he would stop throwing f bombs every where and he said he was sorry and we all enjoyed the game
Posted by Central Tiger
Louisiana
Member since May 2006
2660 posts
Posted on 9/29/08 at 10:37 am to
quote:

But if he somehow thought he had the right like this arse clown above, then I'd get someone to watch my daughter in the tunnel then embarass the guy with a beat down in front of everyone. Trust me people like me would help you.


Exactly. Unfortunately, there are always people that can't comprehend the concept of respecting others around them. Unless it effects them directly, they can't fathom why anybody else would have a problem with what they do, and if asked, even nicely, they see it as someone else's problem and an infringement on their "rights". I'm definetly not a saint, or prude and have been on the other side of the fence when I'm wrapped up in the game. Although I was never "that guy", I was asked before to watch my language because kids were around. I did what is now unthinkable apparently, I apologized and respected their right to enjoy the game with their kid without having to listen to it.

Now, having a 6 year-old of my own, I can appreciate where they were coming from. She doesn't live in a vacuum and it's obvious she has/will hear some of the same things that are screamed out there, but the difference is you can't filter out what happens when you aren't around, but like anything else, you do what you can. And asking the guy/girl to stop is one way to do it. There are other ways, but you hope it doesn't have to come down to that since chances are it'll make more of a lasting impression on your child than the inconsiderate punk that is throwing out F-bombs does.
Posted by TheHiddenFlask
The Welsh red light district
Member since Jul 2008
18384 posts
Posted on 9/29/08 at 10:40 am to
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"Dude, I love your enthusiasm and its appreciated! But if there is anyway you could cut down on the F-bombs for the sake of my kid, then I'd appreciate it." Give him some dap, thank him, and a Geaux Tigers.


+1
Posted by BAMBAM
Biloxi, MS
Member since Mar 2008
2364 posts
Posted on 9/29/08 at 10:43 am to
I'm one of those guys..lol. I dropped about 3 or 4 of them in the first quarter before Irealized that there was family sitting next to me and I kindly appolized.

His response was....oh that's okay I totally understand- don't mind us.

I guess some poeple don't mind.
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