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re: Anyone have a significant other who isn't a fan of your video games?

Posted on 3/18/17 at 12:12 am to
Posted by SpeedyNacho
Member since May 2014
2418 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 12:12 am to
EVERY frickING DAY MAN.


I dont go out and drink, i come home from work, and i turn on my PC, and i lose myself for a few hours. END OF THE frickING WORLD if i Queue up for more than a few at a time. Gotta take breaks and shite to appease her arse.


She named my computer shiela, tells me to go spend time with her when I get stressed.
Posted by Yat27
Austin
Member since Nov 2010
8108 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 6:44 am to
My wife is pretty laid back about my gaming and usually doesn't give me any grief. She realizes that she watches plenty of tv shows that don't interest me (I watch very little tv), so it would be pretty hypocritical of her to bitch at me for video games. That said, since the Nintendo Switch and Breath of the Wild came out I can feel her judging me for playing so much... And she's absolutely right. It's bad.
Posted by sicboy
Because Awesome
Member since Nov 2010
77619 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 7:39 am to
You won't be 15 forever.
Posted by imjustafatkid
Alabama
Member since Dec 2011
50526 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 7:57 am to
Life is about balance. Don't spend all of your time playing video games.

My wife doesn't play games, but I do and our kids do, so she is slowly getting into it.
This post was edited on 3/18/17 at 7:58 am
Posted by illuminatic
Manipulating politicans&rappers
Member since Sep 2012
6962 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 7:59 am to
I'm 31 and married. We made a deal where I play as much as I want without interruption 3 days a week. I work 50 hours a week and I get to game for around 20. I'm happy. She's happy. I also sneak some extra playing time when she falls asleep early or when she goes for her runs in the morning.
Posted by Carson123987
Middle Court at the Rec
Member since Jul 2011
66436 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 8:00 am to
quote:

do not want kids or marriage probably ever,


Im pretty anti-marriage but god I want kids so frickin bad
Posted by illuminatic
Manipulating politicans&rappers
Member since Sep 2012
6962 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 8:07 am to
Don't worry bro, you'll be knocking up a high school senior in no time
Posted by McCaigBro69
TigerDroppings Premium Member
Member since Oct 2014
45086 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 8:13 am to
quote:

You won't be 15 forever.


I love money too much to literally just light like a mil on fire when if I get a bitch pregnant.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
15511 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 8:46 am to
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Maybe for you, but I live my life for myself and myself only. I do what I want when I want and do not want kids or marriage probably ever, I think marriage is a sham and I enjoy my freedom without having to please some woman by doing shite I don't want to do for a piece of pussy once a month.


You just admitted it isn't just me. You don't want a partner and that's fine. I'm married with a young daughter, I want to be there in her life, not playing video games all the time. My wife does a good job of letting me have game time. Hell I ride motorcycles all over the place too. I just make sure she and my daughter gets the quality time they deserve and if I don't then I don't mind her giving me a heads up to spend more time with them.
Posted by Carson123987
Middle Court at the Rec
Member since Jul 2011
66436 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 9:01 am to
quote:

Don't worry bro, you'll be knocking up a high school senior in no time


wont be 35 for another 11 years, im biding my time
Posted by Carson123987
Middle Court at the Rec
Member since Jul 2011
66436 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 9:02 am to
quote:

I love money too much to literally just light like a mil on fire when if I get a bitch pregnant.


same, i want to be loaded before i get tied down
Posted by maximum overdrive
DFW
Member since Dec 2015
2205 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 9:09 am to
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You won't be 15 forever.


Posted by sicboy
Because Awesome
Member since Nov 2010
77619 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 9:12 am to
Ah, life in a rap song.
Posted by Wanderin Reb
Gallifrey
Member since Jun 2013
10738 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 9:21 am to
It took me about 5-6 years to get it through to my wife that video games were my hobby and they weren't going away. Luckily for those 5-6 years we weren't living together (college/post-grad/basic), so it didn't really affect me. We've been living together since we got married 5 years ago and I play pretty regularly.

It helps that she scrapbooks for a hobby so I can play while she does that. She also doesn't watch much TV, so she doesn't care when I debo the set for gaming.
Posted by Neauxla_Tiger
Member since Feb 2015
1880 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 9:22 am to
My wife has to be up like 2 hours earlier than me for her job, so she ends up going to bed about 2 hours earlier than me too. That's when I get in my me-time. Come home, she cooks dinner, we eat and talk/watch tv/play with the dogs, then she passes out and I do whatever I want. Been a nice system so far
Posted by Devious
Elitist
Member since Dec 2010
29163 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 9:30 am to
quote:

girlfriend
Well, don't marry her for starters.
Posted by VABuckeye
Naples, FL
Member since Dec 2007
35561 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 9:44 am to
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How do you deal with the situation?


Noise cancelling headphones.

Seriously, I don't game a lot and there are far worse things I could do with spare time so she doesn't complain.

I also have a separate room (office) in the house and that's where my setup is.
Posted by USAF Hart
My House
Member since Jun 2011
10273 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 10:01 am to
You know, for the longest time (been married for almost 9 years), my wife didn't want a thing to do with video games. it caused us a TON of issues early on in our marriage. So like any respectful husband, we sat down and worked out a schedule for gaming. This way I had my time to relax and de-stress and then there was time for her and I (and the kids later on down the road). This schedule eventually played a huge role as it was based on my streaming schedule. So not only was I able to play games do de-stress, I was able to give my potential viewers a solid schedule so they knew when I would be on.

Fast forward a few years and a few kids and the schedule remains mostly the same. We have 3 kids now, so sometimes my stream will start a bit late, or I will cut it off a bit early if I am just exhausted or if she needs help with something. Here in the last 6 months or so, she started sitting in on some of my streams and talking with my viewers and found herself having fun. So I bought a game upon recommendation (Until Dawn) and she streamed on my channel and got addicted. She now owns her own PS4, her own Twitch channel and we are working on getting an office space for the both of us to game when we get down time.

Tl;dr - my wife wasn't fond of my gaming but I told her it was my hobby so she accepted it. We came up with a schedule to split between de-stressing with gaming and family time. She started watching me play, and tried streaming herself and loved it. She now games occasionally with me or on her own.
Posted by WilliamTaylor21
2720 Arse Whipping Avenue
Member since Dec 2013
35930 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 11:19 am to
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How do you deal with the situation?

Tell her to stfu.

She has two choices:
1. Deal with it
2. Leave
Posted by FlappingPierre
St. George
Member since Nov 2013
4400 posts
Posted on 3/18/17 at 12:56 pm to
She hates it. Is what it is.
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