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I don’t get dripping $1000’s on kid’s travel ball in hopes of a scholarship

Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:00 pm
Posted by theantiquetiger
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Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:00 pm
A guy at work has a daughter that’s really, really good at softball. She will get a scholarship to some school, but at what cost?
For nearly 10 years now, he has dropped $1000’s of dollars a year, on training, traveling, etc. All his vacation is used for away tournaments. They do nothing but travel for games. They don’t take vacations, and probably over half his weekends are taken up from softball.
I know some people say that’s what they enjoy, but he complains ever second about it. He acts miserable about the entire thing.
He has spent enough money to pay for two college tuitions in hopes to get one, and missing out on living a family life together other than hotels and ball parks.
This post was edited on 3/19/19 at 4:03 pm
Posted by TechDawg2007
Bawville
Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:01 pm to
It’s a god damn racket
Posted by Chad504boy
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Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:02 pm to
so the example you use is a kid being successful and getting a scholarship to a school.


Try harder, start over.

Why the heck are you worried about the type of vacations they take or don't take?

Do you talk about sense of accomplishments, vacations of going to tournaments. The friendships made over the years with families?
This post was edited on 3/19/19 at 4:03 pm
Posted by RunLindsayRun
LaGrange | Athens
Member since Sep 2012
2727 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:02 pm to
Sounds like your friend fricked your wife.
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
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Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:02 pm to
Original topic
Posted by Riolobo
On the lake
Member since Mar 2017
4315 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:02 pm to
But Gulf Shores and Pensacola World Series.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
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Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:02 pm to
quote:

theantiquetiger
why are you worrying about how another family spends their money?

you are sounding like a woman
Posted by LSUnatick
South of Lafourche
Member since Jul 2008
1081 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:03 pm to
Kudos on bringing original content to the masses.
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30126 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:04 pm to
quote:

in hopes of a scholarship


they need to face facts, if she is white it will never happen, not even at the point of a gun
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98335 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:05 pm to
A guy I work with has spent 8-10K a year on travel ball since his daughter was 9 years old. She's maximized her ability and as a senior she's a pretty good HS player, but that's all. She may be able to walk on at a smaller school, but she's not getting a scholly. He could have saved up all that money and be able to pay her full tuition anywhere she wants to go.

Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
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Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:06 pm to
That type of life really sucks
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
39062 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:07 pm to
We do/did it from U10-U13, but we’re done after this year. He can play school sports from now.

It really has been a great confidence booster for my son. Best thing is that nobody knows what he does. He can be the star of the #1 U13 team in MS on the weekend, then he goes to school like everyone else and doesn’t say a word about it. He’s ready to play other sports, but the level of success he’s achieved at this one will help him I believe.
This post was edited on 3/19/19 at 4:08 pm
Posted by Tiger985
Member since Nov 2006
6471 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:08 pm to
I don't get it either but to each his own.

Spending time together as a family is a good thing and I don't see it as my place to tell someone else how to spend their time or money.

Posted by Modern
Fiddy Men
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:10 pm to
Should have a travel ball forum instead of a garden forum
Posted by whoisnickdoobs
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Member since Apr 2012
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Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:11 pm to
That's how my mom was with my sister. She was decent at basketball and our whole lives revolved around her basketball schedule. Where we went on vacation, what we did on the weekend, what we ate for dinner, everything revolved around my sister and basketball. Didn't mind it at first but after a while you get annoyed being the little brother being drug to every one of your sibling's games. I didn't even have a choice. My parent's were separated and my mom used to make me got to her all her games and some of her practices. Any sane person can only take so much of women's basketball. Especially at the high school level. Still a little bitter about it if you can't tell.

Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
21953 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:22 pm to
I dropped about $1500 a year for 5 years. I didnt do it with the hope's of him getting a scholarship, he was serious about baseball and enjoyed t so I wanted him playing with other players who felt/played the same.
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19054 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:24 pm to
Why are y’all so cheap when it comes to kids happiness?

At least she’s not smoking pot or poles, she’s learning teamwork and discipline
Posted by Nado Jenkins83
Land of the Free
Member since Nov 2012
59753 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:26 pm to
I understand your point. But competition breeds winners IMO. So there's that
Posted by Zendog
Santa Barbara
Member since Feb 2019
4517 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:26 pm to
You’re paying for the exposure basically. Depends on if the sport your kid is playing is played at the same time of year in college. Like in baseball, high school and college play at same time. Coaches can’t see his players during season so they go watch travel teams in summer and fall
Posted by dsides
Member since Jan 2013
5404 posts
Posted on 3/19/19 at 4:27 pm to
sorry your kid is a soy boy
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