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When a Friend Cheats Often on Her Husband, Should You Keep Quiet?

Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:31 pm
Posted by RedRifle
Austin/NO
Member since Dec 2013
8328 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:31 pm


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More than two years ago, my best friend’s husband discovered that she was cheating on him with her business partner. They decided to work on their marriage and go to counseling, together and separately. I’ve had long conversations with my friend, and she confessed to me that she has slept with more than 10 other men while being married and even slept with an ex-­boyfriend while she was engaged. She has gone to addiction support groups; however, she’s still seeing and sleeping with the man she was caught cheating with, engaging in threesomes with him and sleeping with other men. She even brought him to my birthday party, where there were only a few friends celebrating (none of whom know her or her husband). She travels a lot for work, so it’s not hard for her to hide her affairs from her husband. They’ve been married for about a decade and don’t have any children.
Posted by SirWinston
PNW
Member since Jul 2014
82162 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:32 pm to
That husband is def a Hillary voter. Very sad!
Posted by Bossier2323
Bossier CIty
Member since Sep 2014
1910 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:32 pm to
Pics or GTFO
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
68583 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:32 pm to
That dude needs to divorce her but sounds like he doesn't have the balls. If someone ever cheats on you, you shouldn't give them a chance to change. They don't deserve it.
This post was edited on 8/26/16 at 2:35 pm
Posted by undrafted
DHA
Member since Oct 2009
1000 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:32 pm to
dude sounds like a total cuck
Posted by elprez00
Hammond, LA
Member since Sep 2011
29418 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:33 pm to
I would never give any of my friends a pass for cheating on their spouses.
Posted by Piscinin
the hills
Member since Nov 2015
3561 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:33 pm to
That husbands on a one way track to syphilis.




Never understood why someone would want to get married only to keep fricking around
Posted by SirWinston
PNW
Member since Jul 2014
82162 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:35 pm to
he really does, mate. No way he is totally clueless.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17536 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:35 pm to
At first I thought it best to stay out of it, but the person being cheated on definitely has the right to know.
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8390 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:35 pm to
Yeah. Keep out of that mess. Dude obvious tried to turn ho in to housewife
Posted by Fun Bunch
New Orleans
Member since May 2008
116309 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:35 pm to
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caught cheating with, engaging in threesomes with him and sleeping with other men.


Could there be any worse feeling than not only finding out your wife is cheating on you, but she is having fricking threesomes with the guy she is cheating with, and you don't get any of that threesome action?

Totally cucked.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33794 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:35 pm to
Woman in the OP has some kind of personality disorder. What she's doing is a lot more than "I'm not getting enough attention at home."
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
17032 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:36 pm to
This is one instance where Muslims have it right. Those cheating whores should be executed. If you've never been cheated on, it basically kills you without you actually having the sweet release of death. But the cheaters go on living their life, blaming you for it, and not having an ounce of remorse.
Posted by Jimmydatiger
North Endzone
Member since Dec 2011
369 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:36 pm to
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This post was edited on 6/6/20 at 1:25 pm
Posted by Rounder1
Member since Feb 2013
522 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:36 pm to
For me, the answer would be not to get involved in the affairs of others.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17536 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:36 pm to
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That dude needs to divorce her but sounds like he doesn't have the balls. If someone ever cheats on you, you shouldn't give them a chance to change. They don't deserve it.


^This. Especially when two families are ruined. Especially when you are sent xrated pics of them. Especially when she was taking xrated pics of herself while the kids were in the other room.
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:37 pm to
this rings close to home. two stories.

The wife had a good friend that regularly cheated on her husband, and used my wife as cover. this really bothered me and I asked her to tattle, she refused saying it wasn't her business. BUt she did cut contact with the friend.

I have a work colleague that has cheated on her husband 10+ times, usually with ex bfs. He has no clue that has done it, but did catch a few times cheating when they dated. I have thought, shoudl I tell him? She swears that is behind her, but I think once her kids are over 5 or so, she will go back to her ways.
Posted by FLBooGoTigs1
Nocatee, FL.
Member since Jan 2008
54668 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:38 pm to
My Gf has a best friend that is separated from her husband and they are supposedly trying to work it out. She moved out and is smashing everything in sight. It takes everything in my power not to tell her husband. My Gf tells me to stay out of it. I do tell my Gf I hope her husband is not stupid and is banging random also. frick marriage yeah I am over it.
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25418 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:38 pm to
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If someone ever cheats on you, you shouldn't give them a chance to change.


I want to say that people make mistakes, but I'm not sure that I believe it. Woman in OP is definitely pathological though.
This post was edited on 8/26/16 at 2:47 pm
Posted by GoCrazyAuburn
Member since Feb 2010
34911 posts
Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:39 pm to
I'd let the husband know. Nobody deserves to be wronged like that. That type of behavior puts him at risk at no fault of his own. If you want to act like that, go for it, but be honest about it. You have no reason getting married if you're going to lie about it.
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