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Posted on 7/7/16 at 1:55 pm to Chad504boy
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for husbands with kids is hardest. death you just go new mommy shopping.
Really? You don't think seeing your children mourn the loss of their mother would be the most difficult thing? Imagine being a child yourself and a parent dies when you are young? That has to be a horrible thing and something that forever affects you as a person.
Becoming a widow before I'm really old is one of my greatest fears. I just cannot imagine having to deal with such a loss as that.
Posted on 7/7/16 at 1:55 pm to drewnbrla
quote:you are a fricking idiot
Death because then I wouldn't have to split shite in the divorce or pay spousal support.
Posted on 7/7/16 at 1:57 pm to lsunurse
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You don't think seeing your children mourn the loss of their mother would be the most difficult thing?
you gotta start teaching kids today about the big picture of life and not about the details.
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That has to be a horrible thing and something that forever affects you as a person.
so does parents divorcing and then watching mommy go sleep with other men. Not watching literally but theoretically you know.
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Becoming a widow before I'm really old is one of my greatest fears. I just cannot imagine having to deal with such a loss as that.
definitely sucks for people, and 6 months later they meet this tasty fellow named pancho and look happy as can be on facebook.
Posted on 7/7/16 at 1:59 pm to BabyTac
Getting divorced from a woman who doesn't want to be with you is a blow to the ego.
Having a loving and devoted wife die will cut your heart out with a spoon.
You decide which is worse.
Having a loving and devoted wife die will cut your heart out with a spoon.
You decide which is worse.
Posted on 7/7/16 at 1:59 pm to BabyTac
If she divorces me, I'm paying...if she dies, I'm getting paid.
The choice is easy.
The choice is easy.
Posted on 7/7/16 at 2:01 pm to Chad504boy
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Death because then I wouldn't have to split shite in the divorce or pay spousal support.
you are a fricking idiot
Alright, I laughed. Have an upvote.
This post was edited on 7/7/16 at 2:02 pm
Posted on 7/7/16 at 2:01 pm to Chad504boy
Anybody who says divorce and would prefer the death option is a sad, soulless husk of a human being.
Posted on 7/7/16 at 2:04 pm to BabyTac
I can tell you from my experience, I'd rather my wife had died. Not seeing my kids every day and seeing her with another guy hurts so much worse than never getting to see her again. I wish I never had to see her again. I figured I could move on, especially with all the hell she put me through. But it hurts almost 2 years later just as much.
Posted on 7/7/16 at 2:05 pm to RockAndRollDetective
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is a sad, soulless husk of a human being.
now that is a better argument than fricking idiot.
Posted on 7/7/16 at 2:14 pm to BabyTac
Divorces can be expensive but most people move on emotionally within a year, much quicker if they start banging a hot 20 something.
I imagine for some people the death of their wife could cast a shadow for several years, maybe even forever.
I imagine for some people the death of their wife could cast a shadow for several years, maybe even forever.
Posted on 7/7/16 at 2:17 pm to BabyTac
death can be buried. divorce is death that walks the earth still
Posted on 7/7/16 at 2:26 pm to JETigER
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death can be buried. divorce is death that walks the earth still
good one, and true
Posted on 7/7/16 at 2:26 pm to MightyYat
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Death is always harder. How is this even a question?
I originally thought the same thing, but then I gave it some more thought.
I've never been divorced, but have lost very close family. Obviously, the gut punch from death is tremendous and probably blows the divorce away. But, there is typically at least a sense of finality and closure. You don't harp on any negatives and typically think fondly on the good times and memories. It brings a smile to your face randomly throughout the day thinking back on teh loved one. Plus, there is literally nothing you can do about it but move on.
With an unwanted divorce, it seems like it would be constant emotional torture. What coudl I have done? Is it my fault? What can I change? What's wrong with me? Will I ever find anyone else again? Not to mention the thought of yoru former spouse living there life with some other dude now. The woman that was your wife is now getting wined/dined/69ed by some random frick who you probably think you're better than anyway. Plus you may lose your kids half the time to boot, in adiditon to likely losing half your shite.
Upon further reflection, I think I'm going to answer B.
Posted on 7/7/16 at 2:41 pm to WG_Dawg
Thinking about how something effects others and placing that above how anything effects oneself is what the real meaning of marriage and family is all about. Selfishness is why the divorce rate is so high to begin with.
Both options suck but sincerely preferring a loved one to die so YOU will suffer less is just kind of disgusting IMO.
Both options suck but sincerely preferring a loved one to die so YOU will suffer less is just kind of disgusting IMO.
This post was edited on 7/7/16 at 2:52 pm
Posted on 7/7/16 at 2:43 pm to TheDude
His mom's name is Linda!!
Boom!
Boom!
Posted on 7/7/16 at 2:46 pm to BabyTac
So Jodi got your woman. Poor schmuck.
Posted on 7/7/16 at 2:50 pm to BabyTac
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Posted on 7/7/16 at 2:52 pm to Jp1LSU
No brainer a divorce is expensive whereas a death comes with a nice life insurance payout. One you go broke, the other you get paid.
Posted on 7/7/16 at 2:52 pm to Chad504boy
Divorce is better than murder
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