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re: Married OTers...how many times a week/month do you have sex?
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:00 am to lsunurse
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:00 am to lsunurse
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And here is the question....are you both satisfied with this amount? If the answer is yes...all that matters. I'm guessing you started this thread though because the answer for you is no?
You really can't fairly compare each couple. Every couple will be different. There isn't a perfect "average," cause the number will vary for each couple.
Agree. Peoples' sex drives vary a lot. Some need every day, some are fine once every few weeks or longer.
For OP, In an ideal world, how often would you like to have sex with your wife?
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Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:01 am to lsunurse
No guy that's being honest is ok with once every 4-6 weeks
and if he is then maybe he should check to see if he likes dick better
and if he is then maybe he should check to see if he likes dick better
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:01 am to StringedInstruments
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Since you don't initiate it very often, ask yourself why not.
Are you not feeling it? Are you gassy? Eating too much sugar? Smell bad? Tired?
I'm trying to be mindful and respectful of her, I sense she wants nothing to do with it so I don't push the issue.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:02 am to subMOA
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With that said, I bet you and your wife still love each other very much.
Yes, we've been through a lot and we're still together.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:03 am to Spilled Milk
Been married over 20 years and we average twice a week. It is easier now that the kids are out of the house and we are busy doing the kid things all the time.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:03 am to TheIndulger
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For OP, In an ideal world, how often would you like to have sex with your wife?
Once a week would be great.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:03 am to Spilled Milk
Are you getting massive helmet? Or is that factored into your numbers?
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:04 am to SDVTiger
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Are you getting massive helmet? Or is that factored into your numbers?
No, not even that
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:04 am to Spilled Milk
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Once a week would be great.
Honestly, tell her that. Tell her you are serious.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:05 am to Spilled Milk
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Once a week would be great.
See you need to be having this conversation with your wife and not us.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:07 am to Spilled Milk
Sit down and have a calm talk about your problem. Tell her how you feel about her and that you want more. Ask her what you can do to help the situation for her. Maybe there are things you can take off her plate. Giving the kids their bath...doing the dishes...help with laundry. Take the initiative.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:08 am to Spilled Milk
Make more money, get in shape and do things that make her want to have sex.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:10 am to Spilled Milk
That is crazy.
Are you like 80 or something?
Are you like 80 or something?
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:11 am to Sparkplug#1
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Make more money, get in shape and do things that make her want to have sex.
Do yall really look at your wives this shallowly?
OP's issue is him not initiating it enough for his own desire.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:11 am to Spilled Milk
You said you and your wife have two kids? What's the youngest age? I am willing to bet you, she has some form of post-partum depression going on. My wife and I had this issue. When each kid is born, chemicals and such changes in a woman. Her sex drive could be much lower right now. Top it off with depression, and that destroys all will to have sex. The way you are describing her emotions and such makes me think the reason you are getting it 4-6 weeks is simply pity sex.
This is not uncommon, even if all the guys in here tell you they are having lots of sex. Everyone saying they are having lots of sex could very well be in the same boat after the next kid. You two should go to get counseling. I will bet anything, the determination will be on her hormones and depression that she will never admit to you. If she has ever made comments about wishing she wasn't a parent, or missing being young, etc... this is signs of it. Now that doesn't mean it is though, either. It could be a simple innocent look back to yall's time before kids. However if she is mentioning it more than once, could be a huge red flag. Does she have high Anxiety?
If any of this seems possible, go to the doctor. There is nothing wrong with getting her medicine that could calm her down. Put another kid in her and that could cause an increase in sex drive too! All of this is possible. Do not push sex on her though like some people are suggesting. She could then start finding it forced and start to look at it negatively. Go see a therapist or doctor. Nothing Wrong with that.
Sorry for Length and Grammar.
This is not uncommon, even if all the guys in here tell you they are having lots of sex. Everyone saying they are having lots of sex could very well be in the same boat after the next kid. You two should go to get counseling. I will bet anything, the determination will be on her hormones and depression that she will never admit to you. If she has ever made comments about wishing she wasn't a parent, or missing being young, etc... this is signs of it. Now that doesn't mean it is though, either. It could be a simple innocent look back to yall's time before kids. However if she is mentioning it more than once, could be a huge red flag. Does she have high Anxiety?
If any of this seems possible, go to the doctor. There is nothing wrong with getting her medicine that could calm her down. Put another kid in her and that could cause an increase in sex drive too! All of this is possible. Do not push sex on her though like some people are suggesting. She could then start finding it forced and start to look at it negatively. Go see a therapist or doctor. Nothing Wrong with that.
Sorry for Length and Grammar.
This post was edited on 2/22/16 at 9:13 am
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:12 am to LNCHBOX
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OP's issue is him not initiating it enough for his own desire.
not necessarily. by his description it sounds like she is not into it which leans towards her desire for him sexually.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:12 am to yellowfin
I would post my answer, but it wouldn't be believed.
If OP is OK with his frequency, that's fine.
It is best to know going in what the expectations are.
If OP is OK with his frequency, that's fine.
It is best to know going in what the expectations are.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:13 am to Spilled Milk
quote:Bruh, I hope you bullshitting. About 2 times per week is enough for me.
've been married 6+ years...we average sex once every 4-6 weeks.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:14 am to Displaced
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not necessarily. by his description it sounds like she is not into it which leans towards her desire for him sexually.
She hasn't said that though. He "senses" it. He says she never turns him down, so what has better odds? Him luckily only picking the exact moments she's open to it, or him not initiating enough? My money is on the latter.
Posted on 2/22/16 at 9:14 am to Spilled Milk
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Spilled Milk
LINK
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Mother-of-three who no longer wants to sleep with her husband says she would pay for him to visit a prostitute if sex was 'that important to him'
forward to your wife
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A mother-of-three has admitted that she and her husband are happy having a sexless marriage because she does not have the time or inclination to go to bed with him.
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