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Question to OT about an old flame

Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:01 am
Posted by NWTS_
calabas
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Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:01 am
No pics.

Story goes: In college I met a girl and we hit it off. Hooked up a couple times, and there was genuinely something there, as we both openly liked one another,but then summer hit and school was let out. We sparsely spoke during the summer, but then she went aboard with one of my really good friends.

They end up hooking up abroad in Prague, to much of my sadness, but my buddy straight up confessed to it and told me right after it happened. I asked him if it was just a one time thing, and he said yeah and that it was unlikely to happen again.

Well it happened again, they hooked up and it kinda tore at me but I respect him as a friend and man for telling me, and they both ended up genuinely loving one another. Theyve been dating ever since, and I believe (im not sure) that I was the last guy she liked before her to be husband. They are both great people and they are now (8 years later) engaged. It took me sometime to get over it back in college, but I eventually did and I see it now as something that happened for the best. I am happy for them (people make mistakes. its how you deal with it), and hes actually someone I go to for my own current relationship advice.

Well I mention this because back when I was a dick in college, we were all out drunk once, and the gal and I were talking, and I asked her if she had a chance to go back, would she have liked to have officially dated me, and she said yes, with no hesitation. I actually went on to date one of her friends, but I never got her seal of affirmation for that relationship. Which brings me to this.

So ive caught her gazing at me a couple of times in the years after our ordeal, and after we all moved on maturely. Sometimes when we have conversations her body language is more friendly than it is with other people, but she is flirtous by nature. Its nothing overtly direct, but we also have a history of (un)finished business. I do feel uncomfortable speaking to her at times as I dont want an suppressed feelings I may have for her (I dont know of any) to arise and become apparent. She'll send me direct snapchats alot, none of which are sexual or anything. Just her out and about with my good buddy. I hardly send any to her, but she always sends them to me.

Is there a possibility that there is something still there (I have moved on and have a great little deal now and dont wish to go back in time)? Has this happened to anyone else? Does she just consider me to be a good friend? I feel like had college not let out for the summer that year, things may have been different, at least for the rest of our college experience together.
This post was edited on 7/28/15 at 12:19 am
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:03 am to
Holy shite it's too late to read that
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
78060 posts
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:04 am to
Almost everyone has that one that got away. Looking back on it fondly is OK but it's time to move on.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:06 am to
Alabama-old flame


Go for it
Posted by Tiger Bawlz
Southeast of Disorder
Member since Dec 2007
1977 posts
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:06 am to
Must feel terrible being such a pussy.

You use an alter to post this...

Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:06 am to
Bang her
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124550 posts
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:07 am to
Alabama-old flame


Go for it
Posted by NewIberiaHaircut
Lafayette
Member since May 2013
11573 posts
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:09 am to
Dear diary,

Today I cried like a bitch and wrote a story that was way too long for the OT.
Posted by Pectus
Internet
Member since Apr 2010
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Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:09 am to
Just dont get yourself into any weird situations with her and you can keep the friendship going hopefully.
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
56103 posts
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:09 am to
sure, most people feel that way about a person or two. life is just a constant string of coincidence and chance...a split second glance or look the other way can change your whole life without you even knowing it...

honestly, I have given it a second go with a couple of old flames and it typically doesn't work out. either the two of you have just grown in different directions through the years or you each fall pretty quickly back into the habits that caused you to break up the first time...

Posted by Manzielathon
Death Valley
Member since Sep 2013
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Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:10 am to
(no message)
Posted by Manzielathon
Death Valley
Member since Sep 2013
8951 posts
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:10 am to
quote:

No Pics


(no message)
This post was edited on 7/28/15 at 12:11 am
Posted by NWTS_
calabas
Member since Aug 2014
58 posts
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:10 am to
quote:

Almost everyone has that one that got away. Looking back on it fondly is OK but it's time to move on.


i have moved on, im quite happy with what I'm in now, but its just something that popped in my head now that I just got a snap chat from her 20 minutes ago.

The one that got away from me was a Jewish Girl from New York that wasnt/couldnt date or marry a Methodist/Christian (myself) boy. Everytime we see each other now its just a rush of emotions. She has told many people that she wishes we would have dated. She was the heartbreak that pulls at me the most, mainly because of things I couldnt control (im not jewish)
Posted by Manzielathon
Death Valley
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Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:10 am to
quote:

No Pics


(no message)
Posted by burdman
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2007
20689 posts
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:11 am to
What were they aboard?
Posted by Manzielathon
Death Valley
Member since Sep 2013
8951 posts
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:12 am to
His friends dick apparently





Sorry bout the triple post :(
This post was edited on 7/28/15 at 12:13 am
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
78060 posts
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:12 am to
quote:

Everytime we see each other now its just a rush of emotions. She has told many people that she wishes we would have dated. She was the heartbreak that pulls at me the most, mainly because of things I couldnt control


Geez dude. Man the frick up.
Posted by texag7
College Station
Member since Apr 2014
37572 posts
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:13 am to
Break up their engagement
Posted by burdman
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2007
20689 posts
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:14 am to
Dude, I normally don't do this, but you sound like a fricking giant vagina.
Posted by Manzielathon
Death Valley
Member since Sep 2013
8951 posts
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:15 am to
Wait is the jewess a different gal than from the OP?
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