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OT dads, how do you deal with bullying?

Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:46 pm
Posted by HappyTownTiger
Member since Jan 2012
1577 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:46 pm
My son is a 6th grader, and younger than kids in his own grade. A 7th grader is wearing him out on social media because his little GF thinks my boy is cute. It's ridiculous, but I hate to see him hurt. He's embarrassed, but not fearful of the kid.
When I was young, the bullies could be ignored, but now they take it to Instagram. Also, you could stand up and smoke or get smoked and end it. Zero tolerance took care of that.
Any advice? Be kind.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:47 pm to
my son can kick your honor student's arse
Posted by TigersSEC2010
Warren, Michigan
Member since Jan 2010
37372 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:48 pm to
This post was edited on 9/26/16 at 4:53 am
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
72193 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:50 pm to
Scruffy grew up before those retarded social sites took over kids' lives.

All we could do was insult you on AIM.

Sorry, Scruffy's only advice is to tell him to get off those stupid sites.
This post was edited on 10/22/14 at 8:51 pm
Posted by Modern
Fiddy Men
Member since May 2011
16880 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:50 pm to
What's his schools policy on bulling and social media?
Posted by WDE24
Member since Oct 2010
54183 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:50 pm to
Haven't had to deal with it yet, but try to teach him how to be the bigger person and ignore it. Cyber bullying is similar to internt trolls. Ignore them and they will move on. If it gets bad, intervene with the appropriate authority figure.
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
TeamBunt General Manager
Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:51 pm to
Get your son off social media
Posted by CAT
Central Arkansas
Member since Aug 2006
7093 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:52 pm to
I have a 7th grader and guess I'd tell him to take a week off of the social media.
Posted by MoreOrLes
Member since Nov 2008
19472 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:52 pm to
my kid was bullied for a similar reason in third grade

when i told the disciplinarian that if would not stop i would instruct my son to use force (punch him in the face) the d told me my child would be suspended.

Now my son is in 9th grade and the same bastard tries to instigate others to give my son crap.

My sons ok with it cause he says most kids don't like or listen to the kid

Still pisses me off because it could have been settled in the 3rd grade
This post was edited on 10/22/14 at 8:53 pm
Posted by GREENHEAD22
Member since Nov 2009
19626 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:52 pm to
IMO your 7th grade son shouldn't have an instagram. Also tell him to not start anything but damn sure end it if it gets to that. He get suspended for that an I wouldnt care. Prob would actually bitch at the school for it. The zero policy shite is complete BS.
Posted by zzemme
Member since Nov 2008
10163 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:52 pm to
Why not just block the dude on social media? I never get why people don't do that
Posted by Murray
Member since Aug 2008
14423 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:53 pm to
quote:

Any advice?


What can you do?

If you get involved, he'll be embarrassed.

Get school involved, he'll be embarrassed.

Reply on social media, it'll probably make things worse and he'll be embarrassed.

Any way for your boy to contact the bully offline and schedule a meeting in the BK parking lot after school?
Posted by FlappingPierre
St. George
Member since Nov 2013
4407 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:53 pm to
Go to the bully's house and beat the shite out of him. Then take a shite on his face. Take a picture of it. Then post on FB/twitter
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
85144 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:53 pm to
quote:

A 7th grader is wearing him out on social media because his little GF thinks my boy is cute. It's ridiculous, but I hate to see him hurt. He's embarrassed, but not fearful of the kid.
When I was young, the bullies could be ignored, but now they take it to Instagram
Shouldn't have those things. Or he can block him if he really wants to keep it.
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
29996 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:53 pm to
Not the kind of bullying I was expecting to read about. Ive got nothing.
Posted by secondandshort
Member since Jan 2014
1028 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:55 pm to
Best thing to do is get off the media sites. Kids this age know they can say anything on these sites and won't get punched. Bet the little bully wouldn't say this stuff to his face. The other thing is to ignore it. Tell your son to surround himself with people who want him to do well in life and forget about the rest. Also ignore the little shite stirrers that will inevitably come around and say bully boy wants to beat you up etc,etc.
Posted by fouldeliverer
Lannisport
Member since Nov 2008
13538 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:56 pm to
I'm a teacher and many students are being suspended for cyber-bullying. I'd contact the school about it. Also tell your son to not log on to social media for a bit and if the bully confronts him at school then stand up for himself.
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34377 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:57 pm to
quote:

A 7th grader is wearing him out on social media because his little GF thinks my boy is cute. It's ridiculous
TURN OFF THE frickING COMPUTER.
Posted by NewIberiaHaircut
Lafayette
Member since May 2013
11581 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:58 pm to
Tell him to punch this kid in the mouth and then get him off of social media. If he gets suspended, take him fishing.
Posted by WDE24
Member since Oct 2010
54183 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 9:01 pm to
Also, teach your son how to shame people on the Internet in a condescending way. It's pretty easy with most of the idiots around here. I'm sure it wouldn't be much harder to shame a 7th grader.
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