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Posted on 9/22/14 at 11:58 pm to SabiDojo
quote:my baw of ambiguous race be laying down the law
SabiDojo
Posted on 9/23/14 at 12:00 am to SabiDojo
quote:This is the way to go
Nah, she will eventually feel justified. Just say you don't care because you never truly loved her. Then tell her you hope she matures as a person so she can find true happiness.
Posted on 9/23/14 at 12:01 am to lsufan27
It means that you haven't dealt with the problem in a healthy manner, so you aren't completely healed. You need to objectively examine why she cheated, because cheating is a symptom, not the problem. Figure out what you could have done better, and apply it to your current gal.
Posted on 9/23/14 at 12:03 am to TigerinKorea
quote:
It means that you haven't dealt with the problem in a healthy manner, so you aren't completely healed. You need to objectively examine why she cheated, because cheating is a symptom, not the problem. Figure out what you could have done better, and apply it to your current gal.
Seriously F everything you just said.
Posted on 9/23/14 at 12:05 am to SabiDojo
Perfect way to handle it. 
Posted on 9/23/14 at 12:05 am to TigerinKorea
quote:
It means that you haven't dealt with the problem in a healthy manner, so you aren't completely healed. You need to objectively examine why she cheated, because cheating is a symptom, not the problem. Figure out what you could have done better, and apply it to your current gal.
GFY
Posted on 9/23/14 at 12:06 am to lsufan27
She's your ex for a reason bro.
Let sleeping dogs lie.
Let sleeping dogs lie.
Posted on 9/23/14 at 12:07 am to TigerinKorea
quote:
It means that you haven't dealt with the problem in a healthy manner, so you aren't completely healed. You need to objectively examine why she cheated, because cheating is a symptom, not the problem. Figure out what you could have done better, and apply it to your current gal.
No way, dude. Sometimes shite just doesn't work out. I'm all about being mindful, objective, and constructively critical of yourself, but there's no reason to go dredging up painful memories of ex-girlfriends. Sometimes things are just better off staying in the past.
Posted on 9/23/14 at 12:07 am to lsufan27
It's reasonable to be upset. Unreasonable to be upset for any real period of time. It's over and done and you have a better chick now.
HOWEVER...
You could always burn that cheating bitch's house down.
Either way...your call.
HOWEVER...
You could always burn that cheating bitch's house down.
Either way...your call.
Posted on 9/23/14 at 12:12 am to lsufan27
Posted on 9/23/14 at 12:13 am to efrad
If he's upset about it, then obviously something isn't resolved. Resolve it.
I'm not saying to call her, but find another way. It's always healthiest to face the truth, accept, and learn from it.
I'm not saying to call her, but find another way. It's always healthiest to face the truth, accept, and learn from it.
This post was edited on 9/23/14 at 12:15 am
Posted on 9/23/14 at 12:14 am to TigerinKorea
Figure out what you could have done better, and apply it to your current gal.[/quote]
thats good advice, and I have. but jesus christ I seriously can't believe she fricked a some dude. I cannot imagine how it must feel to be betrayed like that and find out in the relationship
thats good advice, and I have. but jesus christ I seriously can't believe she fricked a some dude. I cannot imagine how it must feel to be betrayed like that and find out in the relationship
This post was edited on 9/23/14 at 12:15 am
Posted on 9/23/14 at 12:14 am to lsufan27
The fact that you're describing your ex as an "absolute knockout" and offering no such words of flattery towards your current girlfriend has me worried for you.
I'd suggest that if your current girlfriend was an "absolute knockout" that you wouldn't be bugged so much.
I'd suggest that if your current girlfriend was an "absolute knockout" that you wouldn't be bugged so much.
Posted on 9/23/14 at 12:17 am to lsufan27
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This girl was an absolute knockout
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I'm 32 now and have an awesome girlfriend that I truly adore.
Sorry to be a dick, but it's even clearer now. Your ex was an 8.5 and your current is a 6.5 but is "sweet". That's why you're so bothered. I would be too - it's human. Are you sure you're happy in your current relationship though? Because you could be having fun and dating around - the worst thing to do is stay in your current relationship if you're not all in.Posted on 9/23/14 at 12:20 am to SirWinston
quote:
I'd suggest that if your current girlfriend was an "absolute knockout" that you wouldn't be bugged so much.
I get your point but thats not it at all. I can't get enough of my current. it's just that i was with the cheater for over 5 fricking years. she was like a part of my family.
Posted on 9/23/14 at 12:20 am to TigerinKorea
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If he's upset about it, then obviously something isn't resolved. Resolve it.
That's dumb.
He had one version of their story. He learned something today that changed the story, and that change creates uncertainty and draws up emotions that he had forgotten about.
This reaction seems perfectly normal. Not everyone is a frickin monk, but that doesn't mean he has "unresolved issues" either.
This post was edited on 9/23/14 at 12:22 am
Posted on 9/23/14 at 12:22 am to lsufan27
quote:
I'm 32 now and have an awesome girlfriend that I truly adore.
Focus on and be thankful for this.
Don't even waste your time on that other girl.
Posted on 9/23/14 at 12:23 am to SabiDojo
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You're human. Just don't dwell on it.
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