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re: Daughter is struggling academically in school - What do we do?

Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:07 am to
Posted by GaryMyMan
Shreveport
Member since May 2007
13498 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:07 am to
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Should we put her in some sort of after school tutoring program?

Obviously.
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Should we get her evaluated for learning disabilities?

Obviously.

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One thing we will do is now is start working with her one on one ourselves so hopefully that will help.

Jesus. Girl is 9 years old and you're just realizing that education can't stop at 2:30pm. Do her homework with her. Know when she has upcoming tests and what will be on them.
This post was edited on 9/15/14 at 11:11 am
Posted by TaderSalad
mudbug territory
Member since Jul 2014
24656 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:07 am to
Medicate. Seems to be the solution lately...


in all seriousness. Probably ADD. Get some testing done on her. My bro was ADD and sucked at school until they figured this out. Complete turn around.
Posted by OldManRiver
Prairieville, LA
Member since Jan 2005
6925 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:07 am to
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She has always struggled in school but we thought it was because of the school itself

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One thing we will do is now is start working with her one on one ourselves so hopefully that will help.

So you've gone through 4+ years of school without paying attention to the work your kid is doing and now you're at a loss as to why she's struggling?
Posted by lsufanintexas
Member since Sep 2006
5011 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:07 am to
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Should have been doing that.


It's hard when both her mom and I work 24/7.

Posted by meauxjeaux2
watson
Member since Oct 2007
60283 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:07 am to
ra'd for whack. Don't bring stuff like this to the OT.
Posted by FT
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Member since Oct 2003
26925 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:08 am to
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It's hard when both her mom and I work 24/7.
No you don't.

You're on TD.
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
Lurking the Tin Foil Hat Board
Member since Jul 2009
47603 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:08 am to
1. - Stop waiting on report cards to tell you how she's doing. She should know her test scores weekly and she should also receive a progress report about halfway through the period.

2. - Teach her how to study and to speak up in class when she doesn't understand something.

3. - Develop a relationship with her teachers and/or counselor and come up with a method of communicating things she needs to work a little harder on.
Posted by 12
Redneck part of Florida
Member since Nov 2010
18755 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:08 am to
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I actually feel like I'm a horrible parent


Asking the OT for parenting advice doesn't help your case.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
38971 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:09 am to
Just now start to work with her one on one? My boy's in 2nd and one of us works with him every school night. We make him do more homework than was assigned and put him through timed tests during the week. Just seems like something you're supposed to do.
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Posted by BOSCEAUX
Where the Down Boys go.
Member since Mar 2008
47735 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:09 am to
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It's hard when both her mom and I work 24/7.


Everybody has this issue, it can be done. If she has an older sibling they can help also.
Posted by LSUEnvy
Hou via Lake Chas
Member since May 2011
12100 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:09 am to
We went through the same thing with my son at that age and ended up having him tested. He was diagnosed with moderate to severe dyslexia. With a little extra help from the teachers and once we learned how to help him, he did much better. He is now in college and doing well.
Posted by Breaux
Member since Nov 2005
3968 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:09 am to
Move to Mississippi and enroll in public school, she'll look like a genius.
Posted by TIGRLEE
Northeast Louisiana
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:10 am to
Some things people should keep to themselves.
Posted by Draven
Moon, PA
Member since Jul 2014
808 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:10 am to
You need to get an IEP (Individual Education Program) based on her specific needs. Talk with her teachers and see what her specific problems are. The IEP will give her modifications such as extended time, shortened tests/quizzes, and other 'boosts' to get her where she needs to be.
Posted by Speck
Dirty South
Member since Aug 2014
349 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:10 am to
Somebody's gotta do it..
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:11 am to
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Should have been doing that.


It's hard when both her mom and I work 24/7.

if you do not have the time to properly raise your kids, you shouldnt have had them.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81197 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:11 am to
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If she has an older sibling they can help also.



frick. This.

I was that older sibling. Only two years older, so still a kid. Made sure to pay attention in class and get my work done early, so I could be rewarded with going outside when I get home.

Mom exhausted herself with my brother, so would make me sit with him and "help" him for the 2-3 hours it took to get him through one assignment.

That's a punishment to a kid who is getting their shite done.
This post was edited on 9/15/14 at 11:12 am
Posted by AnonymousTiger
Franklin, TN
Member since Jan 2012
4863 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:12 am to
Get her tested for learning disabilities. Better to have this done early and get on top of it. People with learning disabilities just learn differently, they are not "dumb."
Posted by c on z
Zamunda
Member since Mar 2009
127402 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:12 am to
Sylvan learning center
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
10046 posts
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:12 am to
Make her hot and have her become a world class cook.
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