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re: Child Custody Advice
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:12 pm to ForeverLSU02
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:12 pm to ForeverLSU02
quote:
she could have just been a good wife and not use the credit card as she pleased.
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Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:12 pm to Bosethus68
quote:should have filed for dismissal for insufficient service
I didnt give her anything. She filed for divorce while i was out of town working, so I never was served my hearing papers and when you dont show up to the court hearing they just give her what she wants. She was nice enough to give me 50/50 but she still hit me with $700 a month
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:14 pm to Bosethus68
quote:bullshite!
I didnt give her anything. She filed for divorce while i was out of town working, so I never was served my hearing papers and when you dont show up to the court hearing they just give her what she wants.
This post was edited on 12/14/16 at 6:32 pm
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:15 pm to Neauxla
I do have a phone call into my lawyers office, waiting for them to call back. Just thought I would seek wisdom much greater than that of a lawyer
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:16 pm to spiderman
They just have to attempt to serve him
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:16 pm to Paige
quote:uh no
They just have to attempt to serve him
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:17 pm to Paige
quote:WRONG.
They just have to attempt to serve him
This post was edited on 12/14/16 at 6:31 pm
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:18 pm to Bosethus68
quote:
Bosethus68
Oh hell yes. Are you ready to get custody of your children AND get paid? in Louisiana we are governed by the CIVIL code, which means all parties involved in a lawsuit must be civil and courteous to each other. To do otherwise was considered repugnant by Napoleon and he exacted harsh penalties against those who were deceptive. In custody cases when a party with domiciliary custody of a child moves into their parents home without telling the other spouse it is considered a violation of the Civil Code as set forth in Yick Wo and you are entitled to damages and full and complete "garde" (louisiana term for control) of your children
Not legal advice
This post was edited on 7/22/14 at 12:19 pm
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:18 pm to Bosethus68
just as an aside as I am genuinely curious... does the guy just happen to be a UPS man or was he actually the UPS man who made deliveries to your house?
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:19 pm to Paige
That is not true... I have heard of people being served in all kinds of crazy places and situations... That's why these things aren't cheap because you have to follow a certain protocol.
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:19 pm to Bosethus68
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:20 pm to BayouBandit24
He delivered to where she worked
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:20 pm to WDE24
quote:
In every jurisdiction I've ever seen, the best interest of the child will prevail. There are very few bright line rules when it comes to custody. The move may open the door for you to seek a modification, but all of the factors related to the child's best interests will likely be weighed by the judge.
Im sure you have alot of experience with this, but Ive seen alot of cases where the guy is screwed even though his situation is drastically better.
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:20 pm to Bosethus68
quote:
Turns out she is movin back home with her parents. Now i was informed that if that were the case I could take her back to court and get full custody of my daughter because her having to live with her parents is looked at as her not having a place to live or support herself...Does this sound legit?!?!
No, Sorry.. Been battling my lunatic xwife for a decade now... That's not enough so don't waste your money
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:21 pm to spiderman
So if you don't have their address you're screwed?
Wrong
Wrong
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:21 pm to theronswanson
quote:
Oh hell yes. Are you ready to get custody of your children AND get paid? in Louisiana we are governed by the CIVIL code, which means all parties involved in a lawsuit must be civil and courteous to each other. To do otherwise was considered repugnant by Napoleon and he exacted harsh penalties against those who were deceptive. In custody cases when a party with domiciliary custody of a child moves into their parents home without telling the other spouse it is considered a violation of the Civil Code as set forth in Yick Wo and you are entitled to damages and full and complete "garde" (louisiana term for control) of your children
This post was edited on 7/22/14 at 12:23 pm
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:22 pm to BayouBandit24
If you were never served a good atty can at least get you a new hearing which will bode better for you now given her current living circumstances.
I would first try to just go talk to her and see if you can talk her into giving you primary custody (what they call it in AL) while still giving her the 50/50 time split (that is what's fair to the child).
In AL, there is a set scale that is used for CS. Given the split visitation, you must make way more than she does.
I would first try to just go talk to her and see if you can talk her into giving you primary custody (what they call it in AL) while still giving her the 50/50 time split (that is what's fair to the child).
In AL, there is a set scale that is used for CS. Given the split visitation, you must make way more than she does.
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:23 pm to Mayfair2Pville
How many of you have been to court for custody in the past month?
I served my ex at his grandparents' house and he didn't show up so I got a default judgment
I served my ex at his grandparents' house and he didn't show up so I got a default judgment
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:24 pm to Bosethus68
quote:
the car she drives is in the UPS guys name and he pays for it. So when shes leaves she will not have a car SIDE NOTE, she is 6 months pregnant with his kid
What a fricked up mess!
Sorry man, but it sounds like you need to try and get your daughter away from all that. Assuming you have your shite together.
Posted on 7/22/14 at 12:27 pm to Interweb Cowboy
I would like to think I do, I sit at a desk in a LARGE Chemical Plant. She cant survive on her own with her job and the child support she recieves, why should she be allowed to keep my daughter AND her new bastard child
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