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re: Child Custody Advice
Posted on 7/22/14 at 2:17 pm to 3D
Posted on 7/22/14 at 2:17 pm to 3D
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Bose, sorry bro.... your beat.... the court will side with Mom with whatever choice she makes. The sooner you accept this, the better off you will be. To fight it will just spend your time and your money. The good news is that your daughter doesnt have to know about your anguish. Smile, enjoy the time to get and make your visits the best environment you can. Thats the only way you can win.
Me and this guy ^^^ trying to tell you what's up, Brosey.
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Posted on 7/22/14 at 2:17 pm to Bosethus68
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the halloween after we split all my friends dressed up as a UPS Man.....
Sounds like you have incredibly cruel and shitty friends.
Posted on 7/22/14 at 2:22 pm to mikelbr
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Bose, sorry bro.... your beat.... the court will side with Mom with whatever choice she makes. The sooner you accept this, the better off you will be. To fight it will just spend your time and your money. The good news is that your daughter doesnt have to know about your anguish. Smile, enjoy the time to get and make your visits the best environment you can. Thats the only way you can win.
Not true in my case. This isn't 1980.
Posted on 7/22/14 at 6:05 pm to mikelbr
Reading some of these responses indicates some people have no idea about what goes on family court and custody issues. Just answer this question...does the move benefit your child?? That is really the ONLY thing that is important. She is in preschool so as long as she attends another good school, great. She is still local. Your child will have her grandparents around her to dote on her every move, fantastic. Divorce sucks, but focus on what is important and that is your child. You will end up spending a lot of money on an attorney with nothing really to gain. I speak from experience...3 years and 100 grand later. Much better to make the effort to do what is right for your child. Don't worry about the ex...she is your ex for a reason. Pick your battles and fight things that you should fight for.
Posted on 7/22/14 at 6:19 pm to mikelbr
Yea unless you can make a strong case the grandparents are unsafe, or the family doesn't have means to give proper care even with child support... I'm not sure what your case would be..... Having more access to caregivers, and lowered expenses doesn't sound like a terrible thing on the surface (just giving the flipside of your argument)
Posted on 7/22/14 at 6:48 pm to Wtodd
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The man gets screwed.
No the kid gets screwed. Having to live in two different houses...being shuffled around like cattle.
Posted on 7/23/14 at 5:54 pm to Tiger Ryno
This site's Q&A forums can be helpful: LINK /
Posted on 7/23/14 at 6:53 pm to Bosethus68
No, she is moving, you can take her back to court and ask the judge for custody. By moving she is disrupting the child. If she moved to the moon, it is her responsibility to make sure she picks up and drops off the child at the appointed times.
Posted on 7/23/14 at 6:58 pm to WDE24
Alabama standard
Posted on 7/23/14 at 7:00 pm to blackmouth
I know more about the OP's life than some of my siblings' lives. Dude airs too much laundry.
Posted on 7/23/14 at 7:46 pm to Bosethus68
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Now i was informed that if that were the case I could take her back to court and get full custody of my daughter because her having to live with her parents is looked at as her not having a place to live or support herself...Does this sound legit?!?!
Whoever told you this is full of shite. Maybe if her parents were swinging meth heads. Just because she moves home with maw and paw doesn't mean your getting full custody or even domicilary.
Think about how many single women with kids live with their parents at some time in their life.
Posted on 7/23/14 at 7:54 pm to Bosethus68
Man, I feel your pain. Jody got me good too. All you can do is fight for your rights (to party, among other things) and be the best dad you can for your kids.
You should have NEVER given her domicilary rights. Don't trust her on ANYTHING. She will lie to your face in spite of overwhelming evidence and unfortunately there's not much you can do without an ugly court battle, but DO NOT surrender anything else to her.
You should have NEVER given her domicilary rights. Don't trust her on ANYTHING. She will lie to your face in spite of overwhelming evidence and unfortunately there's not much you can do without an ugly court battle, but DO NOT surrender anything else to her.
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