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re: Child Custody Advice
Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:06 pm to Bosethus68
Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:06 pm to Bosethus68
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ExWife Seemed like a decent person,but ive heard it 1000 times, "You dont know someones true colors until you go through a divorce with them" I could never keep my daughter from her, thats just not right to do to my daughter, but i hate having to see her mom. I drop a check off and pick up a recipt later and we rotate weeks by dropping my daughter off at daycare on Mondays, this all limits interaction with the ex
My non professional but life experience advice(amounts to more than a law student with a family law class under the belt) is to drop this trying to get custody on just the move. It won't work and will make shite mo worser.
You really have a big burden of proof to show the 3 or 4 things(google or ask lawyer) that can prevent a move, specially with child being in daycare and in same parish.
I've had both exes move on me at some point and neither were preventable.
This post was edited on 7/22/14 at 1:07 pm
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Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:06 pm to Bosethus68
I have a Fiance and a beautiful healthy son, there is no Reconciling. AS FOR WHERE I HEARD THAT FROM FIRST. My parents split up, my dad moved off for work, My mom moved out of her house and into my grandmaws. Moms lawyer told her she needed to move back into the house unless she wanted my dad to be able to take my brother. My dads lawyer also informed him of this.
Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:09 pm to Bosethus68
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I have a Fiance and a beautiful healthy son, there is no Reconciling. AS FOR WHERE I HEARD THAT FROM FIRST. My parents split up, my dad moved off for work, My mom moved out of her house and into my grandmaws. Moms lawyer told her she needed to move back into the house unless she wanted my dad to be able to take my brother. My dads lawyer also informed him of this.
That sounds maybe a bit old-fashioned. Let me know if this is still the case and I'll be surprised b/c a healthy 'home' for the child these days is not necessarily mom living on her own in an apartment if her parents are healthy, have a house, and the environment if safe.
Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:14 pm to mikelbr
If the mom is a fat frick and the dad is an alcoholic, is that a safe environment?
Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:17 pm to dnm3305
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If the mom is a fat frick and the dad is an alcoholic, is that a safe environment?
Nope not at all. I read that and eta'd about the dad. He'll need some hard evidence or some good witnesses to light them up like recalling a crawfish boil where the dad fell down drunk and knocked over a kid on a swingset.
I don't have Findlaw access and what-not but I'm suspecting this precedent he's trying to find isn't common is all. If it is, then good for him. His lawyer is obviously going to either request a hearing or not, based on his expertise and such precedents.
This post was edited on 7/22/14 at 1:18 pm
Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:18 pm to Bosethus68
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you know when we split up I was working nights and she worked during the day and she told me if i would have "taken care of things at home" she wouldnt have ran off with the UPS guy....i guess you are sort of right
You should have left our wives alone, Mr. UPS Man
Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:24 pm to Bosethus68
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This post was edited on 7/22/14 at 1:25 pm
Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:26 pm to OMLandshark
New Question! Good Lawyer for Livingston
Dont quote "Livingston" and say "Well there's your problem"
Dont quote "Livingston" and say "Well there's your problem"
This post was edited on 7/22/14 at 1:28 pm
Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:27 pm to Bosethus68
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she told me if i would have "taken care of things at home" she wouldnt have ran off with the UPS guy..
I miss my old job.
Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:28 pm to Bosethus68
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she wouldnt have ran off with the UPS guy
Sounds like you should have sole custody. Your attorney must suck
Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:28 pm to ISmellMischief
the halloween after we split all my friends dressed up as a UPS Man.....
Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:30 pm to Bosethus68
Money reasons get custody.
But what is better for the kids and do you still work nights or shift.
But what is better for the kids and do you still work nights or shift.
Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:31 pm to Bosethus68
You need better friends.
Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:32 pm to Death Before Disco
No more nights unless I go on a Turnaround which is usually one or two months out of the year
Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:33 pm to Bosethus68
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you know when we split up I was working nights and she worked during the day and she told me if i would have "taken care of things at home" she wouldnt have ran off with the UPS guy
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the car she drives is in the UPS guys name and he pays for it. So when shes leaves she will not have a car
SIDE NOTE, she is 6 months pregnant with his kid
Looks like you two learned that you can't turn a hoe into a housewife.
Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:34 pm to crimsonsaint
Yes Sir
Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:35 pm to Bosethus68
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He delivered to where she worked
Yes he did. Good luck to you in this.
Posted on 7/22/14 at 1:42 pm to Bosethus68
Bose, sorry bro.... your beat.... the court will side with Mom with whatever choice she makes. The sooner you accept this, the better off you will be. To fight it will just spend your time and your money. The good news is that your daughter doesnt have to know about your anguish. Smile, enjoy the time to get and make your visits the best environment you can. Thats the only way you can win.
Posted on 7/22/14 at 2:11 pm to Bosethus68
Do you live in the school district she has been going to?
You may be able to stop her from changing schools.
You may be able to stop her from changing schools.
Posted on 7/22/14 at 2:16 pm to Big Pun
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Do you live in the school district she has been going to? You may be able to stop her from changing schools
Kid's still in daycare. I thought of that one too.
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