re: Is your spouse/SO a better person than you?

yes, she keeps up w my family and old friends better than I do myself

Of course they are

No

I'd say about half of my exes were a "better person" than me.

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Absolutely.

Mine is definitely.

I can be a douche from time to time. She's fricking perfect in every way I can imagine.

In certain aspects, yes.

But nobody is better than someone else at everything.

I'm better than her at peeing standing up.

I'm more intelligent, better at math, possessing a better sense of direction, more social, more confident, less irritable, and more stable.

She has more home skills (sewing, cooking, carpentry, gardening, repairing stuff, ect), more patience, more common sense, more creative, more ethical, more athletic, more fervant in her religious beliefs

We complement each other nicely

My wife is way better than me. I am a selfish bastard.