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You ever find it weird when people talk about dead children
Posted on 5/3/14 at 12:44 pm
Posted on 5/3/14 at 12:44 pm
and talk about how that child is in heaven with another child who died previously and they are going to be friends, etc?
Posted on 5/3/14 at 12:46 pm to SlowFlowPro
Don't judge slow. You have no idea the horror of losing a child.
Posted on 5/3/14 at 12:46 pm to SlowFlowPro
Whatever helps the grieving parent deal with the loss. If they find comfort in that thought, more power to them.
Posted on 5/3/14 at 12:47 pm to SlowFlowPro
Some people would find it weird that a grown man has a roomate.
Posted on 5/3/14 at 12:48 pm to SlowFlowPro
Whatever helps them grieve, my friend. I'd rather die the slowest, most painful death every single day for eternity than lose my child once.
Besides, it's not like we can affirmatively say they're wrong.
Besides, it's not like we can affirmatively say they're wrong.
Posted on 5/3/14 at 12:49 pm to SlowFlowPro
No. My friend lost her 13 year old son to cancer
Every time one of their st Jude's friends dies, she talks about how they're in heaven together
It's super sad. But not weird
Every time one of their st Jude's friends dies, she talks about how they're in heaven together
It's super sad. But not weird
Posted on 5/3/14 at 12:50 pm to Paige
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lost her 13 year old son to cancer
Damn. Just, damn.
Posted on 5/3/14 at 12:51 pm to Cosmo
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Don't judge slow. You have no idea the horror of losing a child.
i'm not judging..it's just kind of weird to me
Posted on 5/3/14 at 12:52 pm to SlowFlowPro
Losing a child has to be the most painful thing a human can go through. Whatever helps them cope, in any way, is fine.
Posted on 5/3/14 at 12:52 pm to SlowFlowPro
I don't believe in Heaven but I would never say that in conversation with someone who lost someone.
I would just say "they are in a better place" and that seems to be all they want to hear.
I would just say "they are in a better place" and that seems to be all they want to hear.
Posted on 5/3/14 at 12:57 pm to SlowFlowPro
No. One of my brothers lost his eldest in a small plane crash in 2002 shortly after he graduated from college. At family gatherings his name still comes up in conversation among my siblings and his older cousins. I am the oldest of my siblings. That nephew and I had a special bond as he was the eldest of his siblings. We often spoke about that. He was also the eldest grandchild.
We all feel a loss, but his immediate family has truly been scarred by his death. I only have one child and do not know how I would handle his loss.
Anything a parent needs to do to cope with such a horrendous loss is OK in my book.
We all feel a loss, but his immediate family has truly been scarred by his death. I only have one child and do not know how I would handle his loss.
Anything a parent needs to do to cope with such a horrendous loss is OK in my book.
Posted on 5/3/14 at 1:00 pm to SlowFlowPro
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i'm not judging..it's just kind of weird to me
So you are judging it to be weird.
Posted on 5/3/14 at 1:01 pm to SlowFlowPro
I very nearly lost my daughter when she was 18months. I don't believe in heaven and all that but in that bleakest hour when I was expecting her to die and wondering if I should kill myself, it would've been a comfort.
Posted on 5/3/14 at 1:01 pm to Cosmo
well technically if i'm judging, it's not the actions of the person who is currently grieving the loss
Posted on 5/3/14 at 1:10 pm to SlowFlowPro
Some things, you just have to go with it and don't over think it.
Posted on 5/3/14 at 1:11 pm to SlowFlowPro
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well technically if i'm judging, it's not the actions of the person who is currently grieving the loss
This doesn't make sense, my neice died last Christmas day and our entire family is grieving and it hasn't gotten better.
Posted on 5/3/14 at 1:24 pm to SlowFlowPro
My parents lost their first child three days after he was born. The only picture we have of him is the one they take immediately after your born. The weird thing is if you look at my picture like that and his we look exactly alike. We would also have been something like 17 years apart. I sometimes think about him.
Posted on 5/3/14 at 1:34 pm to SabiDojo
Well said.
I have a close family member that lost two daughters.
It changes a man.
I have a close family member that lost two daughters.
It changes a man.
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