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re: Does your wife "want" to work?

Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:16 am to
Posted by bleuman
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Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:16 am to
my new SIL sure as hell doesn't want to work. she made that clear.


Posted by Cold Cous Cous
Bucktown, La.
Member since Oct 2003
15054 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:16 am to
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How is this relevant? Having to do clerical work as part of a job is different than having your entire work life revolve around doing clerical work. Everyone has paper work to do in their job/career.

The point is that calling yourself a "professional" doesn't mean what you do is automatically superior to what anyone else does. It's an attitude I see all the time, and it's both stupid and poisonous.
Posted by Fall Creek Tiger
Spring, TX
Member since Jul 2009
1195 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:17 am to
What does a stay at home parent do when all the kids are school age? Don't tell me home school.
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
18531 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:18 am to
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What does a stay at home parent do when all the kids are school age? Don't tell me home school.



They home school...wait frick!
Posted by yellowfin
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Member since May 2006
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Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:18 am to
My wife would rather spend time with our kids, do volunteer work, dabble in a couple family business ventures, etc than work a typical 8-5.....so that's what she does
Posted by Prominentwon
LSU, McNeese St. Fan
Member since Jan 2005
93793 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:18 am to
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What does a stay at home parent do when all the kids are school age? Don't tell me home school.


Keep the house in order. Logistics. Laundry for 3 kids.

That is, if you don't have a lazy SO.

My wife will be quitting her job at the end of April because she wants to stay at home.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83661 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:20 am to
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What does a stay at home parent do when all the kids are school age?


My mom kept the house spotless, baked cakes, had a garden, landscaped, laundry, etc

Posted by Prominentwon
LSU, McNeese St. Fan
Member since Jan 2005
93793 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:20 am to
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My mom kept the house spotless, baked cakes, had a garden, landscaped, laundry, etc


All easy work, right? Meaning that SAHM's don't do shite! LAZY!
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83661 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:21 am to
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Meaning that SAHM's don't do shite!


I would do 10x more work at home than I do at work
Posted by tiger rag 93
KCMO
Member since Oct 2007
2574 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:21 am to
OP seems like a controlling dick who is pissed his wife won't bow down and praise him for all his greatness.
Posted by GRTiger
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Member since Dec 2008
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Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:21 am to
Mine talks about being able to stop working when I make a ton of money. I think she would probably stop if it came to that, but I also think she would not like not working after a while.

She makes too much for me to be ok with losing that income now, so she's working whether she wants to or not for the forseeable future.

We will use grandparents and nannies to raise our son and any future children. They'll just have to deal with it, I guess.
Posted by Emiliooo
Member since Jun 2013
5148 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:22 am to
At that age, the kids should be doing their own laundry.

I was brought up in a house that we had to do chores in. Once my brother went away, I had to do the laundry, wash dishes, mow the yard, and other general house chores.

I mean, it's not like these kids can't help out. It definitely teaches you discipline. Even though they will hate it, it's valuable to learn how to maintain something yourself.
Posted by Fall Creek Tiger
Spring, TX
Member since Jul 2009
1195 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:23 am to
My wife does all of that and works full time. Stay at home parents aren't needed once the kids hit school age. I'm sorry. We both work and have no problem with logistics. I don't understand.
Posted by Prominentwon
LSU, McNeese St. Fan
Member since Jan 2005
93793 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:24 am to
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At that age, the kids should be doing their own laundry.

I was brought up in a house that we had to do chores in. Once my brother went away, I had to do the laundry, wash dishes, mow the yard, and other general house chores.



Our kids are 1 and 3.

Once they reach school age, I'm sure she'll be tired of staying at home by then.
Posted by yellowfin
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Member since May 2006
97775 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:24 am to
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What does a stay at home parent do when all the kids are school age? Don't tell me home school.



Bring all those kids to soccer practice cause the working moms can't, keep up the house, bills, have a home cooked meal ready at 5:00 instead of something out of the microwave, volunteer at school
Posted by Emiliooo
Member since Jun 2013
5148 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:24 am to
I thought you were still referring to the OP.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83661 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:25 am to
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My wife does all of that and works full time. Stay at home parents aren't needed once the kids hit school age


congrats

People are free to do what they wish

If I could somehow double my income, my wife would stay home

I don't really care if she just laid around the house all day either
Posted by Prominentwon
LSU, McNeese St. Fan
Member since Jan 2005
93793 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:26 am to
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My wife does all of that and works full time.


Our schedule at the moment is being gone from 7am - 6pm for both of us. Their bedtime is 8pm.

Matter of fact, we didn't even eat dinner until about 730 last night. Where's the time for herself?

Posted by Fall Creek Tiger
Spring, TX
Member since Jul 2009
1195 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:28 am to
Again, all done by full time working parents. I respect my wife so much because she does everything that people praise stay at home parents for doing with a full time job. Not only does my wife do all of that with a job she also did it while completing her 2nd Master's degree.
Posted by detmut
Jesuit 81 Metairie
Member since Sep 2011
2304 posts
Posted on 2/18/14 at 10:28 am to
maybe your wife is an anti-dentite.
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