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re: Men who dated rich women what happened?

Posted on 10/29/23 at 1:04 pm to
Posted by patnuh
South LA
Member since Sep 2005
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Posted on 10/29/23 at 1:04 pm to
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Dumb move


He said he was a cop - do you expect anything else?
Posted by Tempratt
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Member since Oct 2013
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Posted on 10/29/23 at 1:05 pm to
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was a cop at the time and only made like 40k a year, she was a doctor.


How did you two even meet?
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
26868 posts
Posted on 10/29/23 at 1:06 pm to
She was crazy….

Later, she put herself on Paxil, she told me if she had done it earlier we’d be married. I told her in a Jerry Seinfeld voice, “I don’t think so.”
This post was edited on 10/29/23 at 1:11 pm
Posted by Antonio Moss
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2006
48348 posts
Posted on 10/29/23 at 1:06 pm to
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You know how uppity women can get even when you're paying for everything?

Now just imagine them being the main breadwinner of the household.




In reality, it’s pretty freaking awesome.
Posted by whiskey over ice
Member since Sep 2020
3298 posts
Posted on 10/29/23 at 1:07 pm to
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It was cool until she tried to turn me into a housewife. “You can quit, stay home and play Xbox all day just have dinner ready and homework done when I get home.”


Posted by evil cockroach
27.98N // 86.92E
Member since Nov 2007
7543 posts
Posted on 10/29/23 at 1:10 pm to
Biggest question when thinking about marriage with a rich girl , “are you gonna ‘retire’ on full salary? Or, am I now paying for your horse instead of daddy?”
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73729 posts
Posted on 10/29/23 at 1:11 pm to
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Cant imagine anything worse than having to ask my wife/gf for money all the time.


Do you think your wife struggles with asking you for money?

Never been in the position, but the last thing I am worried about is sharing money if she can support us.
Posted by auwaterfowler
Alabama
Member since Jan 2020
2013 posts
Posted on 10/29/23 at 1:12 pm to
This past week in the Dominican Republic, I saw a 35-40 year old dude in a Speedo every day at the pool with his sugar mama. She was literally 80ish. Looked every day of whatever her age is. Saggy doesn’t even begin to describe how she looked. And he looked miserable when she wanted him to cuddle with her. All I could think of was Woody Harrelson “paying the rent” in Kingpin.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
42981 posts
Posted on 10/29/23 at 1:13 pm to
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I saw a 35-40 year old dude in a Speedo every day at the pool with his sugar mama. She was literally 80ish
bc he didn’t know that going into that relationship?
Posted by EarlyCuyler3
Appalachia
Member since Nov 2017
27290 posts
Posted on 10/29/23 at 1:13 pm to
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He said he was a cop - do you expect anything else?


Posted by DecadePlusLurker
Member since Sep 2016
507 posts
Posted on 10/29/23 at 1:24 pm to
Yeah, she consistently undermined me and during fights would act like she could do better than me. Her parents more or less tolerated me, for the same reason, but weren't above making little comments here and there.

I was young and she was really hot before she got fat thanks to her bipolar meds, so it was worth it. I had a lot of fun, usually on her/her parents' dime, but it taught me that women will never truly respect you if they're the breadwinner.
Posted by Tantal
Member since Sep 2012
14215 posts
Posted on 10/29/23 at 1:27 pm to
Young, attractive women rarely have money. If you're going the sugar mama route, she's probably going to be in her late-50's, minimum.
Posted by tide06
Member since Oct 2011
11335 posts
Posted on 10/29/23 at 1:34 pm to
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I guess just couldn't accept the lifestyle level she had always existed in.

I would think there would be real baggage being the proverbial trailer park rescue to the rest of the rich in-laws.

Not saying I agree with the guy bailing on a woman that truly loved him, but it wouldn’t be easy mentally.
Posted by tylerlsu2008
Zurich
Member since Jul 2015
1228 posts
Posted on 10/29/23 at 2:09 pm to
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He said no. He still has a Patek Philipe watch She bought him but it's on a velcro strap instead of the nice leather one it came with.


Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67266 posts
Posted on 10/29/23 at 2:13 pm to
Would spend hundreds on stuff like holiday place settings and table runners.

Would also give me massive amounts of shite for buying $2-3 veggie sides from the law school cafeteria when I was hungry.
Posted by brass2mouth
NOLA
Member since Jul 2007
19750 posts
Posted on 10/29/23 at 2:14 pm to
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How did you two even meet?


Cops meet doctors all the time.

I couldn’t do it though. I tried staying home but no way as a mid 20’s dude could I have just stayed at home and played house wife.

Looking at her Facebook I dodged a bullet, she’s lost custody of her kids from her divorce.
This post was edited on 10/29/23 at 3:36 pm
Posted by SugarAggie
Member since Mar 2019
343 posts
Posted on 10/29/23 at 2:20 pm to
Ex fiancée was a French girl who had a lot of money due to her dad owning a manufacturing company in France and Romania. Was great at the beginning. Sex was great. She was basically down for anything. We went on a lot of expensive vacations flying business class. Relationship was great for the first year, but she had a lot of daddy issues. Her and her father basically hated each other but her mom was kind of the glue that barely kept that family together. She also had a lot trauma in her past from being raped when she was 5. She always needed validation, couldn’t take any kind of critique, and kept a lot of her ex boyfriends and old sex friends close to her..which I didn’t necessarily mind as long as they were respecting our relationship. Well found out a few of them were repeatedly trying to get with her everytime she went back to france and she refused to cut them out. Or she said she cut them out but was still texting with them etc which pissed me off and caused a lot of communication issues on my end and other issues in general. Ultimately the relationship got very toxic and she met some DJ that she left me for which honestly was the best thing to ever happen to me and probably the both of us in general.
This post was edited on 10/29/23 at 2:27 pm
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98568 posts
Posted on 10/29/23 at 2:23 pm to
She was from Shreveport. Her great grandfather was an englishman who built railroads in Mexico. Her grandfather was an oilman. Her dad was a politically connected lawyer. She was a triple debutante-Shreveport, Houston and DC. She graduated from Sarah Lawrence and UT-Austin law school, although thanks to her trust fund she never had to practice.

Oh did I mention she was bipolar? We had a year long roller coaster ride at the end of which I was glad to stagger off it. I heard she married some dude and lives in Canada now.

This post was edited on 10/29/23 at 2:25 pm
Posted by Dickaroos
Nunya
Member since Feb 2013
485 posts
Posted on 10/29/23 at 2:33 pm to
I married her
Posted by scrooster
Resident Ethicist
Member since Jul 2012
37959 posts
Posted on 10/29/23 at 2:54 pm to
My first wife was/is a trust fund baby .... family money from gun industry and real estate in Miami and Western NC.

At the time of our divorce, 25 years ago, they had a networth (the trust fund solely) of $51 million. It's probably double that by now.

Honestly, money is not the problem with rich women .... it's usually kid rearing and politics based upon mine own experience and having watched others that ran in our circles from South Florida to Charleston to Asheville.

.... and sex, or lack thereof. They hit menopause and they shut down because they do not feel obligated to uphold that aspect of the marriage given they are financially independent.

Divorcing a wealthy woman is another thing .... mine had two divorce attorney sisters and two divorce attorney BiLs (my daughters by her are attorneys in Sacramento and Portland, if that tells you anything) so the divorces are different than your normal divorces. Motivations are different.

My ex wasn't in it for the money ... she was in it for revenge and to inflict financial pain. I was wealthy in mine own right both from earned income and family wealth and it got really nasty.

My Son ... he's now dating the daughter of one of the wealthiest men/families in the state .... every weekend it's yacht club in Charleston or sailing to Turk Caicos or flying to Chicago for a concert or flying to Argentina for a dove hunt ... they are always on the go and they're always looking for the next thing. She's older than him by three years (he's always done the older women thing) and she is spoiled.

My wife and I stay out of it because our Son was raised in a privileged home but still ... anyways. It is what it is.
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