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Posted on 7/9/16 at 11:01 am
Posted by im4LSU
Hattiesburg, MS
Member since Aug 2004
31985 posts
Posted on 7/9/16 at 11:01 am
So ive been looking at taking a trip here in the next few weeks to Isla Mujeres Mexico. My brother and sil go just about every year and they love it.

I had pitched the idea to a few friends to see if they would like to join and right now Im down to 2 possibly going. In all reality, I have a feeling that it will be just me, which I am completely fine with. I enjoy the freedom and could definitely use the time to myself to hit the reset button.

Ill be staying at a "resort" right on the beach, but it is still a litle un-nerving traveling to another country by yourself.

Dont really have a whole lot planned except for a few snorkeling trips and just relaxing at the beach.

Anybody ever gone abroad by themselves? Any pointers?

Anyone ever traveled abroad by themselves? Any pointers?

Posted by LSUButt
Lowcountry
Member since Jan 2006
14930 posts
Posted on 7/9/16 at 11:15 am to
I am currently in Norway for 3 1/2 weeks completely solo. I have 5 days left.

I would say Mexico is a little different, but you're in a resort area so many things should be the same.

1) This is my first total trip solo. The night before I left I basically had a panic attack because it is unnerving to think about. But in all reality, it's pretty awesome.

2) There are ups and downs. There are things you do and you say "Man, wish someone could have witnessed that with me." Or "I really want to do such and such, but don't want to go alone." However, there is also the "frick it, I don't feel like doing that today so I'm gonna do whatever the Hell I feel like."

3) Overall, just be friendly and personable. Don't hesitate talking to people if you want to. I've eavesdropped on so many conversations while I've been here, and they have all ended up well. Literally 10 minutes ago in the lobby, I met a group of people from Denham Springs...yea...in Norway....Denham....insane. But I was walking by and I heard them talk, so I asked them where they were from and we started talking. I also met this cute little waitress in Northern Norway and went out with her and her friends...simply because I was striking up a convo. Also, when people ask you who you're with (and they almost always will), and you say yourself...95% of humans couldn't imagine traveling alone so you instantly gain mad respect from others.

I don't know if any of that helps, but traveling alone can be just as rewarding as traveling with people.
Posted by im4LSU
Hattiesburg, MS
Member since Aug 2004
31985 posts
Posted on 7/9/16 at 11:27 am to
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I don't know if any of that helps


absolutely

quote:

I really want to do such and such, but don't want to go alone


im already saying this

quote:

"frick it, I don't feel like doing that today so I'm gonna do whatever the Hell I feel like."


but THIS is what im looking forward to for sure.
Posted by LSUButt
Lowcountry
Member since Jan 2006
14930 posts
Posted on 7/9/16 at 1:17 pm to
There have been several days where it's raining or cold, and I have had a hike planned resulting in camping. And I'm like "what am I trying to prove? Would it be cool to do that? Yea. Would it be miserable, too? Yea." So I end up drinking in a pub and meeting locals haha.

Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129005 posts
Posted on 7/9/16 at 1:51 pm to
I've never traveled to another country alone, but I would totally do it(assuming it's a place fairly safe for a woman to travel alone to).



My cousin went to Costa Rica by himself a couple months ago. He was there a couple weeks. He went to a casino one night and made friends with his blackjack dealer(who was a local from CR). The guy ended up showing my cousin around and he got to hang out with him and his friends the rest of his trip.


You just have to have the right outlook and personality. See your travels as opportunities to meet new interesting people.
Posted by DWaginHTown
Houston, TX
Member since Jan 2006
9860 posts
Posted on 7/9/16 at 1:52 pm to
I'm going to the Dominican Republic at the end of the month by myself. I've been going through planning different activities that I want to do. The best part of going by yourself is being able to do whatever you want to do and doing it on your schedule.
Posted by OldHickory
New Orleans
Member since Apr 2012
10602 posts
Posted on 7/9/16 at 2:09 pm to
Go have fun. Do what YOU want to do.
This post was edited on 7/9/16 at 2:11 pm
Posted by Palmetto08
Member since Sep 2012
4048 posts
Posted on 7/9/16 at 3:08 pm to
This is pretty obvious but when traveling alone (which I do for some for work) do a lot of research and find that things that YOU want to do before you get there. This is the beauty of traveling alone.

There are a ton of things that my wife, family or friends wouldn't want to see or do when traveling.

Have fun
Posted by im4LSU
Hattiesburg, MS
Member since Aug 2004
31985 posts
Posted on 7/9/16 at 3:53 pm to
Lots of good advice. Seems we all share a common theme of focusing on doing whatever I want to do.

Thats my favorite part.

Ive been looking at local attractions and it seems like there is plenty to do on the island so I dont think ill have a problem staying occupied. But the beauty of the whol thing is that if I dont feel like doing something on a particular day, i can just park my arse on the beach and just veg out...

Posted by OldHickory
New Orleans
Member since Apr 2012
10602 posts
Posted on 7/9/16 at 4:43 pm to
Hell yeah, man. And if you need social interaction, seek out people and engage in conversation.
Posted by Boo Krewe
Member since Apr 2015
9810 posts
Posted on 7/9/16 at 4:56 pm to
i will have to travel by myself. most of my friends just want to stay home and smoke
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19239 posts
Posted on 7/9/16 at 5:35 pm to
I traveled to SE Asia for 3 weeks alone, it was awesome and I loved every minute of it
Posted by im4LSU
Hattiesburg, MS
Member since Aug 2004
31985 posts
Posted on 7/10/16 at 9:24 am to
Thats good to know.
Posted by hoginthesw
DFW
Member since Sep 2009
5329 posts
Posted on 7/10/16 at 10:26 am to
Fellow solo traveler. I love it. If you enjoy peaceful alone time and aren't co-dependent you will be just fine. I'm not a big planner and hate itineraries and usually just figure it all out when I get to wherever I'm flying to.

I'm currently planning a trip to Andalucia in December. Very excited!! Just FYI I'm not single either and it still works out. My boyfriend is going to London for 10 days in October. We will vacation together, as well. If everyone is on the same page, it's the best of both worlds.
Posted by im4LSU
Hattiesburg, MS
Member since Aug 2004
31985 posts
Posted on 7/10/16 at 12:30 pm to
Yea, im the same way. Im perfectly fine being by myself and can handle a little alone time. Im looking forward to just having the freedom to do whatever I want for a week or so!
Posted by txtigersw
Where the west begins
Member since Oct 2011
494 posts
Posted on 7/13/16 at 9:15 pm to
I've done several solo trips, including Isla Mujeres back when nothing there was over 3 stories high. It's a mixed bag for me- enjoy the freedom, don't have to worry about whether anyone else is having fun. Do miss sharing cool experiences. Does force me out of my comfort zone and into talking to people I wouldn't normally. Always better than staying home just cause you can't find travel partner
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