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re: Gay male couples face more challenges, higher costs to start a family

Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:17 pm to
Posted by boogiewoogie1978
Little Rock
Member since Aug 2012
17023 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:17 pm to
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Gay male couples typically face a more expensive journey, as surrogacy or adoption are their primary choices.

Wait.....I thought men could get pregnant?
Posted by AggieHank86
Texas
Member since Sep 2013
42941 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:18 pm to
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We can't debate whether it's evil for gay men to unnaturally create children and bring them into an unnatural household, all via the exploitation of poor women

We'll just debate whether it's wrong that gay men have to pay out of pocket for it
We can absolutely discuss it. The problem is that "evil" is a subjective concept, and ITT we are discussing objective concepts of "the law."

If we, as a society, want to give homosexuals fewer legal rights than heterosexuals, we need only revise the 14th Amendment. I don't see a big groundswell for such an Amendment, though.
This post was edited on 6/23/23 at 12:21 pm
Posted by Steadyhands
Slightly above I-10
Member since May 2016
6818 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:19 pm to
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Gay male couples face more challenges, higher costs to start a family


Impossible is not a challenge, it's just simply not possible...without having a woman involved. It would be unfair to provide them with extra benefit and financial support to do what has been very easily done for thousands of years.

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Almost two-thirds, 63%, of LGBTQ+ people plan to use assisted reproductive technology, foster care, or adoption to become parents

So 37% don't plan on having kids at all, or they're going to go through the horrific process of putting a dick in a vagina?
Posted by KAGTASTIC
Member since Feb 2022
7989 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:23 pm to
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I see no reason that they should pay more to "start a family" versus any other infertile couple,

So match rules for 100% of the gay community, with 10ish% of the hetero community. And people complain why insurance and medical prices keep going up with no end in site. SMFH

Frick them, they knew 100% what the situation of being unable to procreate naturally before their "journey." Majority of hetero-couples, do not.
Posted by Rollo
Atlanta
Member since Sep 2012
427 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:24 pm to
They haven't a womb.
Posted by wutangfinancial
Treasure Valley
Member since Sep 2015
11157 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:24 pm to
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If we, as a society, want to give homosexuals fewer legal rights than heterosexuals, we need only revise the 14th Amendment. I don't see a big groundswell for such an Amendment, though.



I must have missed that part of the Bill of Rights where all people have a right to a family/children
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79264 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:25 pm to
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We can absolutely discuss it. The problem is that "evil" is a subjective concept, and we are discussing objective concepts of "the law."



Are we? The OP is just a blurb whining about the disparity, and while it no doubt rests on some legal/contractual issues, you brought up the policy terms specifically.

But sure, in lieu of a constitutional change I'm in favor of any and all roadblocks that can practically be erected here. Including consideration of changes that would impact heterosexual couples too (like very severe limits on surrogacy).
Posted by the808bass
The Lou
Member since Oct 2012
111562 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:26 pm to
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We can absolutely discuss it. The problem is that "evil" is a subjective concept, and ITT we are discussing objective concepts of "the law."


There’s no legal system without a concept of objective evil.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
260974 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:28 pm to
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we are discussing objective concepts of "the law."


The law dictates right from wrong.

Posted by AggieHank86
Texas
Member since Sep 2013
42941 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:28 pm to
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I must have missed that part of the Bill of Rights where all people have a right to a family/children
No, it requires that the government treat folks in similar situations the same way. That whole "Equal Protection" thing. (OK, that is in the 14A, not in the Bill of Rights, but I think it is what you were referencing).

It does not specifically mention funding for infertility any more than it specifically mentions the thousands of other specific areas in which the Equal Protection Clause comes into play.

Personally, I don't see any reason for the government to spend tax dollars helping ANYONE have children. But if it chooses to do so, it must do so "equally."
This post was edited on 6/23/23 at 12:36 pm
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
260974 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:28 pm to
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If we, as a society, want to give homosexuals fewer legal rights than heterosexuals,


Who wants to give them lesser rights?

What rights do they not have?
Posted by AggieHank86
Texas
Member since Sep 2013
42941 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:30 pm to
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There’s no legal system without a concept of objective evil.
Nonsense.

As just one simple example, no one says that jaywalking is "evil," but it is nonetheless prohibited.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
260974 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:30 pm to
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There’s no legal system without a concept of objective evil.


Exactly.
Posted by the808bass
The Lou
Member since Oct 2012
111562 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:31 pm to
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I must have missed that part of the Bill of Rights where all people have a right to a family/children


It’s in between the right to abortion on demand and the right to mutilate your kid’s genitals.
Posted by AggieHank86
Texas
Member since Sep 2013
42941 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:33 pm to
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I must have missed that part of the Bill of Rights where all people have a right to a family/children
As an aside, this comment demonstrates a remarkable lack of understanding of the Bill of Rights, which does NOT create rights, but simply outlines a host of things that the federal government is now allowed to do.
Posted by omegaman66
greenwell springs
Member since Oct 2007
22782 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:34 pm to
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Gay male couples face more challenges, higher costs to start a family


Good
Posted by AggieHank86
Texas
Member since Sep 2013
42941 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:35 pm to
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very severe limits on surrogacy
Bit of a derail, but why? If all parties agree, why should the government get involved and "limit" it? (Assuming no coercion and no minors, obviously)

Or are you acknowledging that a few hetero-couples will be negatively-impacted and are willing to accept that side-effect in order to deny access to homo-couples (for whom it is essentially the only way to have kids who share your genetics).
This post was edited on 6/23/23 at 12:38 pm
Posted by the808bass
The Lou
Member since Oct 2012
111562 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:36 pm to
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As just one simple example, no one says that jaywalking is "evil," but it is nonetheless prohibited.


Look! It’s a retard!
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
260974 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:36 pm to
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Good


Choices have consequences.
Posted by LB84
Member since May 2016
3362 posts
Posted on 6/23/23 at 12:36 pm to
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Gay male couples face more challenges, higher costs to start a family


It's pretty justified seeing as you're an abomination and shouldn't be allowed to make your own children.
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