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re: Can I get some thoughts on this (regarding marriage)

Posted on 3/2/15 at 11:24 pm to
Posted by JBeam
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Posted on 3/2/15 at 11:24 pm to
I was expecting you to say early to mid twenties. Nevertheless, this sort of thing really doesn't surprise me. Some people nowadays are getting married way too early and to the wrong people.

I do think it's a red flag that they are doing this so early during marriage. But then again, social media is the downfall of a lot of relationships.
Posted by tigerbutt
Deep South
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Posted on 3/2/15 at 11:25 pm to
Sounds like 5 of your friends have little dicks.
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 3/2/15 at 11:27 pm to
I don't have a wife, but having an account doesn't mean cheating. I know people that have NEVER used it to meet people and just like fricking around on it in a "hot or not" type manner. And who is to say the husband doesn't knlw about it. It isn't cheating.
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
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Posted on 3/2/15 at 11:30 pm to
It's not cheating in that manner, but if he's using it behind his wife's back, it's probably not decreasing their odds of getting a divorce
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 3/2/15 at 11:32 pm to
Yeah didn't say otherwise.
Posted by JBeam
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Posted on 3/2/15 at 11:38 pm to
quote:

I don't have a wife, but having an account doesn't mean cheating. I know people that have NEVER used it to meet people and just like fricking around on it in a "hot or not" type manner. And who is to say the husband doesn't knlw about it. It isn't cheating.

But aren't you setting yourself up for a situation that you don't want to be in. Just imagine one of your SO's friends coming across you on Tinder. I can't see that ending well bro.
Posted by chRxis
None of your fricking business
Member since Feb 2008
23621 posts
Posted on 3/2/15 at 11:39 pm to
quote:

You need to do your homework

OK...
Posted by TigerBait1127
Houston
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Posted on 3/2/15 at 11:42 pm to
Not sure why you sent that to me as I agree with you.

My post wasn't directed to you

quote:

Posted by TigerBait1127 ? ? on 3/2 at 11:17 pm toxxKylexx
Posted by chRxis
None of your fricking business
Member since Feb 2008
23621 posts
Posted on 3/2/15 at 11:44 pm to
quote:

Not sure why you sent that to me as I agree with you.

My post wasn't directed to you

it had my name on your post, when you said you need to do your homework....

shite.... just saw you posted it to him, and was quoting him, not me..... sorry bro...
This post was edited on 3/2/15 at 11:46 pm
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 3/2/15 at 11:46 pm to
I agree... It's red flags. But not technically cheating.

Confront them, if they lie, then you need to worry. But it isn't cheating technically yet
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 3/2/15 at 11:46 pm to
I agree... It's red flags. But not technically cheating.

Confront them, if they lie, then you need to worry. But it isn't cheating technically yet
Posted by HBomb
Dallas
Member since May 2012
249 posts
Posted on 3/2/15 at 11:55 pm to
Just be their friend, it's not for you to decide what they should or shouldn't do. It is up to ourself to pave our life.
Posted by shaqazoolu
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2008
600 posts
Posted on 3/3/15 at 6:36 am to
This is a stupid way to look at it. Marriage doesn't suck because you are friends with people who make bad decisions. Your friends suck because they don't know how to marriage. Blaming marriage for their cheating would be like blaming the butcher for overcooking your steak.
Posted by josh336
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Posted on 3/3/15 at 6:39 am to
This seems like a perfect thread for wiki
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
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36186 posts
Posted on 3/3/15 at 6:49 am to
A spiritual relationship with or without God is the answer to both of your questions.
Posted by gorillacoco
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2009
5320 posts
Posted on 3/3/15 at 7:04 am to
quote:

I know a few bad apples doesn't represent the whole picture


this. you have chosen your friends poorly.

quote:

divorce rates higher than ever


incorrect. divorce rates have come down some recently.

quote:

what is the point of marriage?


committing yourself to one other (well chosen) person for life has serious benefits for both parties including:
-a better chance of raising kids in a stable environment
-emotional security
-financial security
-social status
-people enjoy it
Posted by CidCock
Member since Sep 2007
Member since Feb 2011
8631 posts
Posted on 3/3/15 at 7:10 am to
I don't know any of my friends who are cheating.

Could be ignorant, but would be surprised by any.
Posted by ALWho
Earth
Member since Oct 2014
612 posts
Posted on 3/3/15 at 7:21 am to
OJ was married twice so it must be an "ok" thing.

ETA: a woman sees cheating if her man messages a female of twitter.
This post was edited on 3/3/15 at 7:27 am
Posted by ZereauxSum
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Member since Nov 2008
10176 posts
Posted on 3/3/15 at 7:21 am to
quote:

I agree... It's red flags. But not technically cheating.


You can split hairs if you want to, but having a Tinder account that your spouse doesn't know about will ruin your marriage just as easily as sinking your peter into another woman will.
This post was edited on 3/3/15 at 7:25 am
Posted by ZereauxSum
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Member since Nov 2008
10176 posts
Posted on 3/3/15 at 7:24 am to
quote:

I ask, what is the point of marriage?


For your friends, there is no point. If they have to seek attention/affection/sex from outside their marriage, there shouldn't be a marriage.

Not saying they're bad people, they just seem to have made a life decision that they're not happy with.
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