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re: How would you gauge this relationship situation?
Posted on 2/28/15 at 2:35 am to zacata88
Posted on 2/28/15 at 2:35 am to zacata88
Seems pretty normal to me given that y'all don't live together. Hell, sometimes I only see my wife for more than five minutes 3-4 times a week when we have conflicting work schedules.
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Posted on 2/28/15 at 5:44 am to zacata88
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she brought up the exclusivity conversation (not seeing anyone else) in month #2 and it's been upheld on both sides since then
Hahahahahahahahaha a chick that's in her 20's only wanting to see a guy 1-3 times a week isnt being exclusive. Women are dying to get a ring and have babies (most) at that age . You're in a competition buddy sorry to let you know that. She's just controlling you and mind fricking you. Also I'd bet she's not having sex with you either. You're her "comfort stick" that's all and her exclusively is just making sure you're there when she needs you. You know this already or you wouldn't have started this post.
This post was edited on 2/28/15 at 5:45 am
Posted on 2/28/15 at 6:00 am to zacata88
She's putting up walls because she's frightened by how strong her feelings are for you. If you truly love her, then it's your jobs to demolish these walls by any means necessary. Surprise her at work, a lot, like almost every day. Tell her you got evicted and you need to stay with her until you can find a new place, and then just never find a new place. You're going to have to be romantically manipulative but just try and spend every moment you can with her regardless of whether or not she acts like she doesn't want it.
Posted on 2/28/15 at 6:08 am to SuperSaint
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Sounds like one person is unhappy and that person sounds like you. Either man up and explain it to her of get it pushed to the side over and over until you resent her. Grab your balls bro or quit being a bitch is my advice. Things aren't that hard but you people make it much more difficult than it really is. Sending good vibes your way Godspeed. Bc You may need it.
THIS. Sounds like she doesn't want you and looking for Mr Goodbar.
Talk to her if you are looking for a commitment. If not for her, time to go shopping.
Posted on 2/28/15 at 6:23 am to zacata88
Posted on 2/28/15 at 6:24 am to fishfighter
I'm in a pretty similar situation and it's awesome. I had a long relationship before and seeing that person almost every day for 2-3 years got really stale. Didn't help that she was a fricking loser, though. Enjoy your alone time.
Posted on 2/28/15 at 6:44 am to LucasP
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Tell her you got evicted and you need to stay with her until you can find a new place, and then just never find a new place. You're going to have to be romantically manipulative but just try and spend every moment you can with her regardless of whether or not she acts like she doesn't want it.
Well done
Posted on 2/28/15 at 6:46 am to zacata88
Are y'all having sex every week? For a relationship that is 5 months old you should be having sex at least 3 times a week, imo
Posted on 2/28/15 at 6:51 am to zacata88
I need a picture of her arse to give any advice this early on a saturday
Posted on 2/28/15 at 7:42 am to Kel Varnsen
I'm married and I only see my wife on Fri-sun because I work out of town.
Posted on 2/28/15 at 7:45 am to BAMBAM
It works for us because her family is close and we trust each other
It sucks sometimes when we don't see each other for two weeks but we are making it going on. 3yrs
It sucks sometimes when we don't see each other for two weeks but we are making it going on. 3yrs
Posted on 2/28/15 at 7:49 am to zacata88
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d. only see each other between 1-3 times a week, only on weekends (i.e. some combination of Friday/Saturday/Sunday) because she's relatively busy with work and values alone time
Count your blessings, my son.
You get laid regularly and have your freedom too.
WTF more could you ask for?
Posted on 2/28/15 at 8:20 am to NeverRains
Someone else is PIIHB on weekdays
Posted on 2/28/15 at 8:21 am to Loveland Tiger
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Sounds fricking perfect. Enjoy the space.
no kidding. I've been looking for a chick like this my entire life.
Posted on 2/28/15 at 8:25 am to zacata88
Depends on several factors
Work schedules
Does she have kids or do you and what are custody schedules
If y'all are off same weekends do you spend them together
Do y'all like to do the same hobbies
Work schedules
Does she have kids or do you and what are custody schedules
If y'all are off same weekends do you spend them together
Do y'all like to do the same hobbies
Posted on 2/28/15 at 8:31 am to SuperSaint
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Grab your balls bro or quit being a bitch is my advice.
Yep BUT, is she someone you want to be with? You should have a gut feeling by now. What I mean is...be careful what you wish for. If you bring it up, are you ready to see her non stop every time she's free?
Posted on 2/28/15 at 8:32 am to bulldog95
Wait until you get one that's up your arse 24-7 (marriage), you'll be begging for 3-4 times a week.
Posted on 2/28/15 at 8:34 am to zacata88
He is fricking someone else during the week.
Posted on 2/28/15 at 9:35 am to LucasP
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She's putting up walls because she's frightened by how strong her feelings are for you. If you truly love her, then it's your jobs to demolish these walls by any means necessary. Surprise her at work, a lot, like almost every day. Tell her you got evicted and you need to stay with her until you can find a new place, and then just never find a new place. You're going to have to be romantically manipulative but just try and spend every moment you can with her regardless of whether or not she acts like she doesn't want it.
Posted on 2/28/15 at 9:50 am to zacata88
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d. only see each other between 1-3 times a week, only on weekends (i.e. some combination of Friday/Saturday/Sunday) because she's relatively busy with work and values alone time
Busy with what?
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