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re: My best friend's girlfriend has a best friend that is a lesbian...
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:15 am to Tuscaloosa
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:15 am to Tuscaloosa
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Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:16 am to Tuscaloosa
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He just doesn't understand the need for the relationship at all, but feels like he'd be being a giant douche for asking her to stop with the sleepover type stuff.
Some guys don't seem to understand the nature of a female befriending a gay guy either, but it's never really problematic unless the gay friend is talking shite about the boyfriend behind his back.
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He just doesn't understand the need for the relationship at all, but feels like he'd be being a giant douche for asking her to stop with the sleepover type stuff.
It is somewhat weird, but he is still being a bit of a douche. What if his SO was upset about him spending the night at a gay friend's house?
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:16 am to lsusteve1
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Tell your "friend" he better be taking care of that stuff
Or Pat will
Strangely enough, I think this girl's name is Amanda.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:17 am to Tuscaloosa
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My best friend's girlfriend has a best friend that is a lesbian...
So.
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My friend seems really insecure about that relationship,
He's an idiot.
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His girlfriend doesn't see the problem with it and gets irritated at him for questioning the relationship.
See other thread about how to handle this.
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Should my friend to just stop being a little bitch about it?
Yes
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He has equated it to if she had a guy friend that she spent time with frequently who has admitted to wanting to date her.
That's asinine. Does he think homosexuality is a choice and she might just jump on that train at any second?
It's his girlfriend and she's a straight female correct? What does he have to be worried about?
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:17 am to LSUballs
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:18 am to saint amant steve
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What if his SO was upset about him spending the night at a gay friend's house?
Good point...
It's weird to think if it like that, but that's pretty much the same on the surface. I guess the dynamic of guy relationships is a little different in a lot of ways.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:19 am to Tuscaloosa
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:20 am to Breesus
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Does he think homosexuality is a choice and she might just jump on that train at any second?
Girls "try" stuff all the time. I've known otherwise straight girls to "hook up" with other chicks plenty of times.
A lot different with guys... but girls are crazy.
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It's his girlfriend and she's a straight female correct? What does he have to be worried about?
This much is true, and my arguments for why he shouldn't be worried about it. I can understand how the thoughts might be creeping in his head though.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:21 am to Tuscaloosa
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the dyke best friend has said multiple times "I wish you were gay"
This is over the line. Gf knows that butch wants to boink her but she stills says "they are friends". Bs. They are boinking. Imagine if the dyke was a guy. That sleeping over stuff would not be ok.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:22 am to Sir Drinksalot
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This is over the line. Gf knows that butch wants to boink her but she stills says "they are friends". Bs. They are boinking. Imagine if the dyke was a guy. That sleeping over stuff would not be ok.
Which is exactly the reason why I can empathize with him a bit on this.
That wouldn't fly too well with me either - if it were my wife. If you take the "I wish you were gay" out of the equation, I think my friend wouldn't be so irritated by it.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:25 am to saint amant steve
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The dyke is in the friend zone. That's all it is.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:26 am to Breesus
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Breesus
We should charge for the relationship advice that we have given out this morning.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:28 am to Breesus
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Does he think homosexuality is a choice and she might just jump on that train at any second?
You can have all the trust in the world in your partner and still be upset that someone is hitting on them, regardless of who it is.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:28 am to Tuscaloosa
Your buddy's SO is going to become a lesbian.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:30 am to Tuscaloosa
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Should my friend to just stop being a little bitch about it?
yep
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He has equated it to if she had a guy friend that she spent time with frequently who has admitted to wanting to date her.
Don't think that is the same...if a gay guy was hitting on your buddy it wouldn't be the same as if a woman was hitting on him
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:31 am to Sir Drinksalot
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This is over the line. Gf knows that butch wants to boink her but she stills says "they are friends". Bs. They are boinking. Imagine if the dyke was a guy. That sleeping over stuff would not be ok.
If it was a guy, it would have a penis, which the girl likes. It is a girl, who doesnt have a penis, so there is nothing to worry about unless the guy thinks he is dating a closet lesbian. This isnt a hard concept to grasp.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:34 am to Tuscaloosa
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within his rights to be irritated by it?
It would get under my skin.
She's choosing to be around someone else who has admitted to wanting to have sex with her. it doesn't matter if the GF is interested....it's hard not to feel hostile to someone who has openly expressed an interest in undermining your relationship.
If I were him, I wouldn't get serious with this girl unless the lesbian was out of the picture.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:35 am to Breesus
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If it was a guy, it would have a penis, which the girl likes. It is a girl, who doesnt have a penis, so there is nothing to worry about unless the guy thinks he is dating a closet lesbian. This isnt a hard concept to grasp.
Do you even strap-on, bro?
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:35 am to Topwater Trout
Does your best friends girlfriend's friend look like this? If so, not to worry.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 9:40 am to Tuscaloosa
I have known several girls who were straight who started dating butchy women. All of them were hurt by men in the past, and I tend to think they just gave up on men and took the next best alternative. Not saying this is always the case, but my opinion about the women I know. All of the women I know who have always identified as lesbian are and always have been in relationships with girly women. In my experience, if a guy says he's gay, he's gay. If a woman says she's gay, she may in fact be gay or may be more fluid with her sexuality. I have lesbian friends, and the butchy ones are relentless when not in a relationship because they tend to land girls who are or have been straight. Just my experience.
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