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Friends Who Drift Apart
Posted on 11/16/14 at 9:36 pm
Posted on 11/16/14 at 9:36 pm
One thing I've realized in life, and it's a depressing realization, is that some friendships, no matter how close, will inevitably fade to where your once close friend becomes just like a casual acquaintance. I know that life's circumstances will cause people who are best friends to drift apart... work, family, distance, etc. and especially people who are best friends in school, once they leave school and they go their seperate ways, it's hard to maintain that close friendship.
I've experienced this, having a close friendship fade out like an old pair of jeans. This one particular friend, we were best friends for several years, talked on the phone almost every day, hung out all the time, and had each other's backs in everything. Those years seem like forever ago, because now that friend feels like just an acquaintance, like the history we had doesn't really hold much value anymore.
So, how many of y'all have gone through this, having a once close bond be disintegrated over time?
I've experienced this, having a close friendship fade out like an old pair of jeans. This one particular friend, we were best friends for several years, talked on the phone almost every day, hung out all the time, and had each other's backs in everything. Those years seem like forever ago, because now that friend feels like just an acquaintance, like the history we had doesn't really hold much value anymore.
So, how many of y'all have gone through this, having a once close bond be disintegrated over time?
Posted on 11/16/14 at 9:37 pm to SaintlyTiger88
everyone goes through that. just make new friends.
Posted on 11/16/14 at 9:37 pm to SaintlyTiger88
Weird. I ran into an old friend today.
Posted on 11/16/14 at 9:37 pm to SaintlyTiger88
Everyone. What are you really asking?
Posted on 11/16/14 at 9:38 pm to SaintlyTiger88
It gets worse in your 30's.
Posted on 11/16/14 at 9:38 pm to SaintlyTiger88
It happens.
It's nothing to be sad about imo. It's just life, mannnn.
It's nothing to be sad about imo. It's just life, mannnn.
Posted on 11/16/14 at 9:38 pm to SaintlyTiger88
Imagine once you both die. Then everything that you ever did together will not matter. All of your great memories will just disappear into thin air....might as well never happened. Same goes for everything with your kids, parents, siblings, etc.
Posted on 11/16/14 at 9:38 pm to SaintlyTiger88
Part of life bro. Good news is you'll meet new people that you will grow close to
Posted on 11/16/14 at 9:39 pm to SaintlyTiger88
Several unfortunately. Marriage kids work etc and you get consumed in your own stuff. i wish I had put forth more effort with my old friends.
PS. - been reconnecting with them recently which is great
PS. - been reconnecting with them recently which is great
This post was edited on 11/16/14 at 9:42 pm
Posted on 11/16/14 at 9:39 pm to Paul Allen
quote:exponentially
It gets worse in your 30's.
Posted on 11/16/14 at 9:40 pm to SaintlyTiger88
quote:
talked on the phone almost every day,
Tell me you're a woman.
Posted on 11/16/14 at 9:43 pm to AUCE05
Basically my question is how many of y'all lost close friendships and what are your thoughts about how to deal with that aspect of life.
Posted on 11/16/14 at 9:43 pm to SaintlyTiger88
It happens. With some old friends, we can pick up right where we left off after months or even years. Others, we have nothing to talk about and after a few minutes there's an awkward silence. Nothing is static, life moves on.
Posted on 11/16/14 at 9:43 pm to SaintlyTiger88
Happened with all of my best friends from high school. We're just in different places in life (both literally and figuratively). They are already popping out kids and "settling down" in the same town that we grew up in. That life isn't for me, I still talk to them rarely, but I've moved on and found friends with interests similar to mine. Now that I think about it, I'm not really sure what we had in common in the first place. shite happens
Posted on 11/16/14 at 9:44 pm to tgrbaitn08
Lol no, I'm not, but the friend I was referring to is a woman.
Posted on 11/16/14 at 9:45 pm to SaintlyTiger88
Yeah. Going through a similar thing. It's difficult to find new friends too being single in a small town.
It's also difficult to put as much trust in those new friends that you have in ones that you've had since childhood.
It's also difficult to put as much trust in those new friends that you have in ones that you've had since childhood.
Posted on 11/16/14 at 9:49 pm to SaintlyTiger88
I have a job that takes most of my time. A family that takes the rest. I have no time for anyone else.
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