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re: Is it ok for your girlfriend to go to an Ex's family member funeral?
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:03 pm to John Doe
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:03 pm to John Doe
I think that she should have asked you how you feel about it before she made plans. She shouldn't put an ex's family before you. Sounds as if there are some issues here. Proceed with caution. As far as E-mails from her ex, unless there are children involved, this is totally unacceptable. She still has strong feelings for this man.
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Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:04 pm to ctiger69
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I know her ex emails her but she says she does not respond
She still wants the D.... HIS D....
In all honesty, I'd have told her, "if you change plans with me to go there, you can stay there. Consider yourself single."
ETA: the emails... I have dealt with this before- Ignoring them is not good enough. Either, you (the GF) tells him to stop, or I will.
This post was edited on 10/24/14 at 12:09 pm
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:05 pm to Bacon84
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I'd have told her, "if you change plans with me to go there, you can stay there. Consider yourself single."
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:05 pm to rickyh
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think that she should have asked you how you feel about it before she made plans. She shouldn't put an ex's family before you.
This is what I think. I will talk to her about it.
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As far as E-mails from her ex, unless there are children involved, this is totally unacceptable.
I told her this when she told me and I reminded her this yesterday.
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She still has strong feelings for this man
I don't think so. I was invited to go to the funeral but due to the extremely short notice there was no way I could make it on time.
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:06 pm to ctiger69
When did her family and his family become friends?
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:06 pm to detmut
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where does it say maternal grandmother?
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arrangements/being at in-laws side?
Read before you respond genius.....again, it's her grandmother, and the mother "just happens to be in the neighborhood" instead of being with family or in-laws who's relative just died.
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:07 pm to ctiger69
if you trust her, then you really shouldn't even talk to her about it.
if you question her loyalty and feelings for you, then why are you even with her in the first place.
if you question her loyalty and feelings for you, then why are you even with her in the first place.
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:07 pm to GeauxxxTigers23
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When did her family and his family become friends?
When they were dating.
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:08 pm to ctiger69
Nominate: beta thread of the day
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:08 pm to Displaced
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if you trust her, then you really shouldn't even talk to her about it.
if you question her loyalty and feelings for you, then why are you even with her in the first place.
this should end the discussion
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:09 pm to ctiger69
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When they were dating
This post was edited on 10/24/14 at 12:10 pm
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:09 pm to ctiger69
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:09 pm to ctiger69
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When they were dating.
Then you should be pissed and she shouldn't even think of going. It's disrespectful of her and her family to remain friends. You are supposed to be the man in her life now. I wouldn't even argue with her if I were you. It seems to me she's made her choice. Go ahead and end it.
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:11 pm to ctiger69
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ctiger69
Alright, frick it! Now I'm pissed at your delusion.
You do know you can block emails, RIGHT? Tell me this whore hasn't also found a way to believe that feature doesn't work...at MINIMAL, you label it "junk" one time and you NEVER get another in your inbox.
You now are getting to the point where you deserve the pain heading your way buddy
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:13 pm to GeeOH
She seems to be wanting attention and will get it wherever it is coming from.
By telling you about his emails she wants some drama from you.
Learn from this information
By telling you about his emails she wants some drama from you.
Learn from this information
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:17 pm to GeeOH
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You now are getting to the point where you deserve the pain heading your way buddy
You have limited info about a certain situation that happened this morning. That is it. Our relationship is fine. Pissed about plan changes more than anything. But I did expect many comments like this.
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:18 pm to ctiger69
So what was the point of this thread?
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:20 pm to fightin tigers
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So what was the point of this thread?
If I should be extremely pissed off when I see her next or act like it is no big deal.
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:21 pm to ctiger69
Why would you be pissed? She changed her mind and went to a funeral.
To you the relationship is inconsequential.
To you the relationship is inconsequential.
Posted on 10/24/14 at 12:21 pm to ctiger69
Tell her she's free to go but you are going to go ahead and meet your family for the trip because you feel bad about changing plans on your family so abruptly. Tell her she is more than welcome to meet y'all after the funeral. See how she reacts.
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