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re: OT dads, how do you deal with bullying?

Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:54 pm to
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:54 pm to
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Get your son off social media



have to go with this, every fricking kid doesn't have to be sync'd in 24/7, but I guess if the parents can't get off of it, how are they going to tell the kids to?
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:55 pm to
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Don't forget to tell your son to taste the bully's tears.

brains for appetizer, while the parents are seated at the table making small talk
Posted by secondandshort
Member since Jan 2014
1028 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:55 pm to
Best thing to do is get off the media sites. Kids this age know they can say anything on these sites and won't get punched. Bet the little bully wouldn't say this stuff to his face. The other thing is to ignore it. Tell your son to surround himself with people who want him to do well in life and forget about the rest. Also ignore the little shite stirrers that will inevitably come around and say bully boy wants to beat you up etc,etc.
Posted by FlappingPierre
St. George
Member since Nov 2013
4400 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:56 pm to
Posted by Mizzoufan26
Vacaville CA
Member since Sep 2012
17222 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:56 pm to
frick zero tolerance whenever administrators don't do shite. Such a complete joke
Posted by fouldeliverer
Lannisport
Member since Nov 2008
13538 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:56 pm to
I'm a teacher and many students are being suspended for cyber-bullying. I'd contact the school about it. Also tell your son to not log on to social media for a bit and if the bully confronts him at school then stand up for himself.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
83938 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:57 pm to
Geez, you people are doing it wrong.

Go to the school and bring two big men in suits with you.

If the principal asks about them, tell him/her that your "company" requires protection for you.

Then, tell the principal you want the matter settled because you don't want to pursue "other options". This is when one of the bodyguards sniffles.

Finally, compliment the principal on the lovely picture on his/her desk.
This post was edited on 10/22/14 at 8:58 pm
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34377 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:57 pm to
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A 7th grader is wearing him out on social media because his little GF thinks my boy is cute. It's ridiculous
TURN OFF THE frickING COMPUTER.
Posted by NewIberiaHaircut
Lafayette
Member since May 2013
11560 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:58 pm to
Tell him to punch this kid in the mouth and then get him off of social media. If he gets suspended, take him fishing.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 8:58 pm to
quote:

Geez, you people are doing it wrong.

Go to the school and bring two big men in suits with you.

If the principal asks about them, tell him/her that your "company" requires protection for you.

Then, tell the principal you want the matter settles because you don't want to pursue "other options". This is when one of the bodyguards sniffles.

Finally, compliment the principal on the lovely picture on his/her desk.


damn, you Mississippi lawyers are all budding novelists, aren't you?
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
TeamBunt General Manager
Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 9:00 pm to
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Tell him to punch this kid in the mouth and then get him off of social media. If he gets suspended, take him fishing.



This. There's nothing wrong with standing up for yourself with violence. Some people need it. Anyone that tells you different is a bisexuals hippie communist.
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34377 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 9:00 pm to
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Then, tell the principal you want the matter settles because you don't want to pursue "other options". This is when one of the bodyguards sniffles.

School?!?! This is not a school matter. People who have kids need to raise them. Stop depending on the got dam schools to do everything.
Posted by WDE24
Member since Oct 2010
54140 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 9:01 pm to
Also, teach your son how to shame people on the Internet in a condescending way. It's pretty easy with most of the idiots around here. I'm sure it wouldn't be much harder to shame a 7th grader.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 9:01 pm to
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Anyone that tells you different is a bisexuals hippie communist.

don't hold back GT, we're all friends here
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
20043 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 9:01 pm to
Don't respond on social media. Your son can confront him at school and tell him to stop. If he doesn't stop, report his arse to the school. If it continues let your boy earn a suspension.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63358 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 9:02 pm to
Use any or all of the following options:

1. Restrict your son's access to social media sites.

2. Screenshot the offensive social media messages and show them to the principal. Bullying is a major buzzword in education right now, and principals WILL respond out of necessity.

3. Drive over to the kid's house and speak to the dad (in the unlikely event he even has one who lives at home with him).

4. Enroll your kid in judo or jiu-jitsu to gain self-confidence, as well as to kick the other kid's arse if it comes down to it.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 9:03 pm to
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3. Drive over to the kid's house and speak to the dad (in the unlikely event he even has one who lives at home with him).

4. Enroll your kid in judo or jiu-jitsu to gain self-confidence, as well as to kick the other kid's arse if it comes down to it.


nope
Posted by MSUbulldogs03
Member since Apr 2013
2644 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 9:05 pm to
Can America please stop with all of the bullying nonsense. First off, the instagram/ cyber bullying is the definition of "pussyfying America". Tell him to get off the social network or delete the guys comments. If he continues to do so, most kids wont think its cool and will just be embarrassed for the bully.

If the bully approaches your kid, tell him to teach the bully a lesson. Frick the zero tolerance rule. If you can prove the kid has been bullying him on the internet and is then confronted in person, no way the school should punish him. If they do, so be it. A suspension is a form of punishment by the school that is only as bad as the parent makes it for the kid while he is suspended. Unless of course there are multiple suspensions which result in expulsion.

Not only will the bully continue to pick on your kid, but by him not standing his ground, he makes himself a prime target for other kids down the road.
Posted by RebelOP
Misty Mountain Top
Member since Jun 2013
12478 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 9:05 pm to
Photoshop a bunch of hot girls around your son and have him post it on Facebook. That'll shut the kid up and probably make him really popular.
Posted by Voorhies7
Rounding 3rd
Member since Oct 2012
5591 posts
Posted on 10/22/14 at 9:05 pm to
Teach your blood how to be a man & how to box. Watch some John Wayne movies, take a shot, & bond.
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