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Proper protocol for leaving a job (UPDATE IN OP)

Posted on 9/26/14 at 3:56 pm
Posted by CherryGarciaMan
Sugar Magnolia
Member since Aug 2012
2497 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 3:56 pm
Here's the deal:

Received an offer to begin in a field 6 months ago with no background.

Great opportunities were presented at initial offer. Come into the field (insurance) and kill it. Write more policies in two months than the rest of the office staff for that same period combined. Lead team to two of the best three months my agent has ever had.

District manager comes and takes me out to lunches on a regular basis. I like the DM, but my agent and I don't get along at all. We butt heads constantly, and he has little patience.

Got headhunted by a competitor the other day who offerd a 15% raise and a great opportunity to lead her sales team.

I have only been on the payroll for my current employer for 6 months.

Uncouth to leave? My leaving will devestate his office and the goals will not be met this year, but should I show loyalty to a boss who I serve in a thankless manner? Is it unprofessional?

P.S. He is out of the country until next week and when he returns I plan on putting in my two week notice, but don't think it will blindside him.

P.S.S. I don't think he'll match the offer.



Update- Upon my boss' return we sat down and I explained the situation for him. He nodded his head, said that I had to do what I had to do, asked me who the company was (I told him), then asked me when was the last day I would work for him. I told him two weeks. I go back to my desk, finish out my day (which included running all over town doing underwritingesque work, get back to the office, and he tells me to pack my stuff.

He did bring me back a Scotish scarf from his trip though!

Took a two week vacation and started with my new company on Monday. Thanks for the advice people.
This post was edited on 10/15/14 at 5:10 pm
Posted by The Sad Banana
The gate is narrow.
Member since Jul 2008
89498 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 3:57 pm to
Poop on desks, drop mic and walk offstage.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83583 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 3:57 pm to
Give him a chance to match your offer. If he can't do that, give him the proper 2 weeks notice.

You have to do what is best for you.
Posted by Dr RC
The Money Pit
Member since Aug 2011
58082 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 3:58 pm to
frick it, I quit.

Posted by DeathValley85
Member since May 2011
17176 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 3:58 pm to
You need to simply do what is best for you and yours.

All you really owe them is a 2 week notice. Good luck at your new job and congrats on the bump in pay.
Posted by burdman
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2007
20686 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 3:58 pm to
quote:

Give him a chance to match your offer. If he can't do that, give him the proper 2 weeks notice.

You have to do what is best for you.


This. Don't want to go around burning bridges.
Posted by J Murdah
Member since Jun 2008
39784 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 3:58 pm to
Take it.

Its not business its personal.
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
10052 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 3:59 pm to
I wouldn't worry about it. Insurance is not a gentleman's field; they have been through this before, they will go through it again.
Posted by Thib-a-doe Tiger
Member since Nov 2012
35391 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 4:01 pm to
Nobody is irreplaceable
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
260673 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 4:02 pm to
Go for it. Just accepted another job starting 10-14, and it's going to leave the current company in a bind but it's sort of a dream job and more money. I had no problem letting them know. Money was just one reason, they could have matched and I still would have left.
Posted by heartbreakTiger
grinding for my grinders
Member since Jan 2008
138974 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 4:03 pm to
Id throw the new offer on the table and give them a chance to sweeten the pot. If they don't then go on to the new job. If they do then you have to consider what you like. You have to look out for your interest.
Posted by Geauxld Finger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2005
31735 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 4:05 pm to
business is business. either match it or move on
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 4:06 pm to
Loyalty is a word for dumb people who are afraid of change. Get the frick out of there but don't burn any bridges.


Or do burn bridges, it's pretty satisfying.
Posted by Cajun Revolution
Member since Apr 2009
44671 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 4:08 pm to
Relocating. Gave 5 weeks notice. Left after 4.

If that burnt a bridge they can kiss my butt.
Posted by GaryMyMan
Shreveport
Member since May 2007
13498 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 4:08 pm to
quote:

Give him a chance to match your offer.

Why? The new offer also includes leading a sales team, which seems better than working for a guy he doesn't get along with in the first place.
Posted by CherryGarciaMan
Sugar Magnolia
Member since Aug 2012
2497 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 4:09 pm to
Thanks for the advice.

Never done anything like this before in the "professional world".

My boss will be pissed, but he and I just do not get along, and I am miserable at work. It may be a generational thing, and he has told me on more than one occassion that I remind him of his "goddamned son".

I'm not looking to burn bridges, but he will not be happy.
Posted by TheBoo
South to Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
4515 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 4:09 pm to
quote:

Never done anything like this before in the "professional world".

My boss will be pissed, but he and I just do not get along, and I am miserable at work. It may be a generational thing, and he has told me on more than one occassion that I remind him of his "goddamned son".

I'm not looking to burn bridges, but he will not be happy. .


Doesn't matter if he'll be pissed. That's not your concern.
This post was edited on 9/26/14 at 4:11 pm
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
10052 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 4:09 pm to
quote:

LucasP

Did you ever quit your job?
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 4:11 pm to
Sore subject. But I'm gonna live vicariously through my online insurance buddy.....

Quit the frick out of that job bro.
Posted by MightyYat
New Orleans
Member since Jan 2009
24429 posts
Posted on 9/26/14 at 4:11 pm to
quote:

Nobody is irreplaceable


Neither are employers.

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