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Help me with this nanny situation OT

Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:35 pm
Posted by Salmon
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Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:35 pm
I know you people always give the best advice, so help me out with this one.

We have a nanny that comes to our house from 10-4 during the week to watch our daughter. She also brings her daughter who is about the same age as ours to our house. It's been great so far. My daughter gets to stay at our house, and have a playmate for socialization.

Now we don't pay our nanny that much ($600/month) mostly because it was kind of a you help us, we help you kind of deal.

So now the nanny has asked if she can watch of her friend's kids this summer, a 4 year old girl, at our house. I know she doesn't make much money, and I don't fault her for looking for extra income, but I don't know if I want a 4 year old at my house with 2 other toddlers, especially a 4 year old that I do not know. But then again I know our nanny could use the extra money.

What would the OT do? I'm leaning to just giving it a shot to see if it works and if the 4 year old is some batshit crazy kid telling her no then, but then I don't want to put that parent in a bind with then trying to find a daycare last minute..?
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:36 pm to
I wouldn't do it.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73674 posts
Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:36 pm to
Sounds like you are starting a daycare. I wouldn't do it.
Posted by Tornado Alley
Member since Mar 2012
26498 posts
Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:37 pm to
You'll be liable if any injury happens and will be taken to the cleaners. Tons of liability here.

Stupid move.
Posted by Salmon
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Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:37 pm to
quote:

I wouldn't do it.


my first reaction too, but our nanny is also a friend, so I do want to help her out...

It's a tough situation
Posted by SouthOfSouth
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2008
43456 posts
Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:38 pm to
sounds like the liabilities continue to grow. You don't know the parent. Are they gonna sue when their kid falls down or something? Who knows.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67007 posts
Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:38 pm to
I wouldn't do it. If you knew the kid or the family, it would be different.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124270 posts
Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:38 pm to
yeah i wouldnt do it


Posted by CaptainPanic
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Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:38 pm to
Have you sexed her?
Posted by slapahoe
USA
Member since Sep 2009
7442 posts
Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:38 pm to
I'd meet the other kid/parents before I give an answer.
Posted by AUCE05
Member since Dec 2009
42557 posts
Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:40 pm to
If that child gets hurt, you could be responible. Not to mention she would be running an illegal daycare at your house.
Posted by Salmon
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Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:42 pm to
quote:

If that child gets hurt, you could be responible.


see, I hadn't even thought of this

the OT is good sometimes

quote:

Not to mention she would be running an illegal daycare at your house.


what defines daycare?
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
68268 posts
Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:42 pm to
is the nanny hot?
Posted by Salmon
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Member since Feb 2008
83525 posts
Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:43 pm to
no
Posted by AUCE05
Member since Dec 2009
42557 posts
Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:43 pm to
Not sure, just bringing up a "what if" situation.
Posted by Tigersfan
Member since Feb 2006
2637 posts
Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:43 pm to
quote:

It's a tough situation


No its not. Don't do it. Very simple. You have way too much to lose and nothing to gain.

Pay the nanny more to keep the current situation if you are worried about her increasing her income. The extra money you spend a month on the nanny is worth it to avoid an inevitable lawsuit. The fact that you are even considering this is all kinds of crazy.
Posted by BrentED
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2007
2216 posts
Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:44 pm to
This many posts and not a single "Pics of Nanny?" response? The OT is truly slipping.

Seriously, this sounds like a bad idea. I wouldn't do it. As others have mentioned, this just sounds like additional liability for you that is almost beyond your control 6 hrs a day.
Posted by Salmon
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Member since Feb 2008
83525 posts
Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:44 pm to
yeah the liability stuff is concerning...I would definitely want to meet the parents if I did agree with this, and I would hope that the parents would want to see our house as well
Posted by dante
Kingwood, TX
Member since Mar 2006
10669 posts
Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:45 pm to
quote:

Sounds like you are starting a daycare. I wouldn't do it.
Liability issues......don't do it.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136793 posts
Posted on 4/10/14 at 1:45 pm to
so is a 3some totally off the table?
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