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re: You find out your SO cheated in a previous relationship
Posted on 10/24/17 at 11:58 pm to mostbesttigerfanever
Posted on 10/24/17 at 11:58 pm to mostbesttigerfanever
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Does that, or how does that, affect your level of trust?
Depends. One-time thing or extended affair?
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Posted on 10/25/17 at 12:41 am to mostbesttigerfanever
This girl indated once said never admit to cheating.
It only makes the cheater feel better, she was dead serious.
Kind of worried me though.
I agree with the point she made about who made feel better about coming clean but then again it speaks volumes or at least raises eyebrows that a skank could just easily keep her mouth shut and frick around.
I don't know, I think I'd rather have an honest cheater than a tight lipped one.
What y'all say?
It only makes the cheater feel better, she was dead serious.
Kind of worried me though.
I agree with the point she made about who made feel better about coming clean but then again it speaks volumes or at least raises eyebrows that a skank could just easily keep her mouth shut and frick around.
I don't know, I think I'd rather have an honest cheater than a tight lipped one.
What y'all say?
Posted on 10/25/17 at 1:49 am to mostbesttigerfanever
If you ever frick up, she's cheating.
If she's bored, she's cheating.
If she gets lazy, well you know
If she's bored, she's cheating.
If she gets lazy, well you know
Posted on 10/25/17 at 7:15 am to TigerGman
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she had NO other reason to tell you about it.
Nonsense - "keep me happy or I WILL screw around on you". If she is at all passive aggressive this is the message.
Posted on 10/25/17 at 7:22 am to Cosmo
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Once a cheater probably always will be
That's wrong. People mature over time and high school/college dating is mostly frivolity.
I used to cheat on girlfriends of a few years during my 20s. I've never once cheated on my wife of 15 years.
Posted on 10/25/17 at 7:25 am to mostbesttigerfanever
I fricked a lot of skanks pre marriage. Don’t cheat now?
Maybe the girl was in a shitty relationship? As you get older you have to take people as you find them. Everyone has a past when you start getting older. If you meet a girl with no long term ex or baggage of any kind!!!!? That’s a BIG red flag. That bitch is crazy.
Wife and I put all of our shite on the table early though. She was leaving a long relationship and I was a complete man whore who had the morals of a feral cat.
Maybe the girl was in a shitty relationship? As you get older you have to take people as you find them. Everyone has a past when you start getting older. If you meet a girl with no long term ex or baggage of any kind!!!!? That’s a BIG red flag. That bitch is crazy.
Wife and I put all of our shite on the table early though. She was leaving a long relationship and I was a complete man whore who had the morals of a feral cat.
Posted on 10/25/17 at 7:27 am to mostbesttigerfanever
It's hard to say. Given someone who has a history of cheating, and someone who doesn't, I'd rather be with the person with no history of cheating.
That said, there are different degrees of cheating and varying circumstances. So I'd prefer to be with someone who doesn't have that history, but it wouldn't be a deal-breaker without me knowing the circumstances.
I cheated on ever gf I ever had before I started dating my now wife. She's the first person I've never cheated on. I just never took those other relationships seriously enough. I also grew up a lot.
That said, there are different degrees of cheating and varying circumstances. So I'd prefer to be with someone who doesn't have that history, but it wouldn't be a deal-breaker without me knowing the circumstances.
I cheated on ever gf I ever had before I started dating my now wife. She's the first person I've never cheated on. I just never took those other relationships seriously enough. I also grew up a lot.
Posted on 10/25/17 at 7:28 am to mostbesttigerfanever
It doesn't
Posted on 10/25/17 at 7:29 am to mostbesttigerfanever
did she cheat "with" me?
Posted on 10/25/17 at 7:30 am to mostbesttigerfanever
Hey super cool, handsome dude with hot SO and low post count. How lonely and insecure do you have to be to discuss relationship on a mostly sports message board? I have never understood airing this kind of loser bullshite on social media. Damn.
Posted on 10/25/17 at 7:32 am to mostbesttigerfanever
Depends on when.
Wife and I are 30 now and just because my gf and I cheated on each other when we were 18 year old freshmen in college doesn’t mean I’d ever cheat on my wife.
Wife and I are 30 now and just because my gf and I cheated on each other when we were 18 year old freshmen in college doesn’t mean I’d ever cheat on my wife.
Posted on 10/25/17 at 7:33 am to R11
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This girl indated once said never admit to cheating.
It only makes the cheater feel better, she was dead serious.
Kind of worried me though.
I agree with the point she made about who made feel better about coming clean but then again it speaks volumes or at least raises eyebrows that a skank could just easily keep her mouth shut and frick around.
I don't know, I think I'd rather have an honest cheater than a tight lipped one.
What y'all say?
That chick was right. It sounds antithetical to what we've always been told, but it's true.
Posted on 10/25/17 at 8:05 am to mostbesttigerfanever
When someone tells you who they really are, believe them.
Posted on 10/25/17 at 8:13 am to mostbesttigerfanever
Have fun with the chick. Aren't you a better man than the guy she cheated on? Non issue.
Posted on 10/25/17 at 8:16 am to mostbesttigerfanever
I already told my wife I would never divorce her, just kill her, so I guess I'd have to make good on that promise.
Posted on 10/25/17 at 8:17 am to Pecker
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I cheated on ever gf I ever had before I started dating my now wife. She's the first person I've never cheated on.
Posted on 10/25/17 at 8:18 am to mostbesttigerfanever
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She was 22; now 32....so yeah I suppose that matters
Seconding what Sampson said earlier. If she hasn't given you any reason thus far to not trust her or to be suspicious of her, then it's not really right to hold something against her that she did a decade ago. Particularly if it was well before you knew her.
I'm fairly certain that you probably did some things 10 years ago that you aren't necessarily proud of either.
Posted on 10/25/17 at 8:21 am to fr33manator
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The only hard step is the first one. After that it’s like riding a bike.
And a drug
Posted on 10/25/17 at 8:23 am to mostbesttigerfanever
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Mentioned it kind of casually
That tells me she is doing it to you. Her way of telling you. Sorry bro.
Posted on 10/25/17 at 8:40 am to mostbesttigerfanever
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Does that, or how does that, affect your level of trust?
Nope.
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