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re: Woman who chose baby instead of chemotherapy has died

Posted on 9/10/17 at 2:53 am to
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
47385 posts
Posted on 9/10/17 at 2:53 am to
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There is nothing brave about this. It was fricking stupid. If she had a kid, be around to be a mother. If my wife faces a decisIon like this with our two kids already alive, i would get the coat hanger myself.


Wow.

Do you even understand this woman's lack of chances of survival?
Honestly, I don't think you'd do as you say. I hope not.
Posted by mdomingue
Lafayette, LA
Member since Nov 2010
30317 posts
Posted on 9/10/17 at 7:58 am to
Sad story. Had a friend do this a around 20 years ago with a better outcome. Much less aggressive type of operable tumor. Mom and daughter are fine and thriving today. I'm still in awe of her resolve.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
260665 posts
Posted on 9/10/17 at 8:09 am to
quote:

There is nothing brave about this. It was fricking stupid. If she had a kid, be around to be a mother. If my wife faces a decisIon like this with our two kids already alive, i would get the coat hanger myself.


Very personal decision, she probably is better able to decide for herself than you or I.
Posted by metallica81788
NO
Member since Sep 2008
8485 posts
Posted on 9/10/17 at 9:26 am to
The median survival of glioblastoma patients with proper surgical resection, chemoradiation and chemotherapy is about 18 months maybe 24 if you have good molecular prognostic factors. She may have been closer to the 24 months since she was young but it depends on where the tumor was located. A lot of these people don't even make it through radiation. Just going to leave that here.
Posted by DeafJam73
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
18451 posts
Posted on 9/10/17 at 9:40 am to
quote:

There is nothing brave about this. It was fricking stupid. If she had a kid, be around to be a mother. If my wife faces a decisIon like this with our two kids already alive, i would get the coat hanger myself.



Wow. The mom was going to die regardless of the treatment. She decided to accept her fate and give her kid a fighting chance. If that's not bravery, to be able to look at death in the face and accept it, I don't know what is. You're a fricking tool for that last line you typed.
Posted by offshoretrash
Farmerville, La
Member since Aug 2008
10177 posts
Posted on 9/10/17 at 10:04 am to
A good friend's wife is dealing with glioblastoma now, probably won't live another 6 months, she is 35.
Posted by HubbaBubba
F_uck Joe Biden, TX
Member since Oct 2010
45777 posts
Posted on 9/10/17 at 10:59 am to
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i would only be ok with this if said woman had a huge life insurance policy.
Okay, you've identified yourself as a huge POS, but other than that, wouldn't the insurance company look at her refusing treatment as intentional suicide since she could have tried to save herself?
Posted by ABearsFanNMS
Formerly of tLandmass now in Texas
Member since Oct 2014
17469 posts
Posted on 9/10/17 at 1:10 pm to
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With Glioblastoma, she would have died with or without chemotherapy. She decided to give the baby a chance.


GBMs are a "when" not an "if" situation. My experience is females do tend to last a tad longer than males. Actually know of 1 female pt that is still ticking 8 years post resection which is extremely rare.
Posted by ABearsFanNMS
Formerly of tLandmass now in Texas
Member since Oct 2014
17469 posts
Posted on 9/10/17 at 1:12 pm to
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Okay, you've identified yourself as a huge POS, but other than that, wouldn't the insurance company look at her refusing treatment as intentional suicide since she could have tried to save herself?


The insurance company would loose in court. GBMs are 100% eventually terminal.
Posted by ABearsFanNMS
Formerly of tLandmass now in Texas
Member since Oct 2014
17469 posts
Posted on 9/10/17 at 1:22 pm to
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Not always true but almost. Tough spot to be in regardless.


Wrong.....there are a few cases being tracked where they are lasting longer. So a GBM diagnosis is a "crack open the 401K and enjoy life on a tropical beach while you can situation" (or go to Vegas and subsist off a diet Colombian Booger Sugar and prostitutes if that is more your scene).

quote:

Unfortunately, long-term survival of glioblastoma patients is rare and there is currently no cure. The average glioblastoma life expectancy is less than a year, with only around 2 percent of people living for longer than three years after diagnosis.
Posted by wadewilson
Member since Sep 2009
36561 posts
Posted on 9/10/17 at 2:35 pm to
quote:

I admire her choice but in choosing that she chose to leave all her kids motherless.
I know, go ahead and downvote.


I'm not going to downvote you, but I will say frick you and frick your opinion.

You're part of the problem with this country. You don't think, you don't fricking observe, you don't pay attention, you just spout off an ignorant fricking opinion.

frick you.
Posted by The Korean
Denham Springs, LA
Member since May 2008
1614 posts
Posted on 9/21/17 at 5:06 pm to
Baby didn't make it

Well...that ruined by day.
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
84900 posts
Posted on 9/21/17 at 5:10 pm to
fricking hell, that's awful.
Posted by DJ3K
Member since Dec 2011
6759 posts
Posted on 9/21/17 at 5:12 pm to
quote:

Gotta admire her courage to leave them another sibling.



Baby born to mom who refused cancer treatment has died


Looks like all y'all owe cfa626 an apology bc that poster knew more about the outcome of this situation than any of you

Posted by LordSaintly
Member since Dec 2005
38914 posts
Posted on 9/21/17 at 5:16 pm to
Glioblastoma survival rates are very low.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124449 posts
Posted on 9/21/17 at 5:16 pm to
God that is terrible
Posted by TheDude
Member since May 2004
2675 posts
Posted on 9/21/17 at 5:29 pm to
Wow, this story hits close to home. In 2010 my wife was pregnant with our child when she was diagnosed with breast cancer. She delayed chemo so that our daughter could be born. Our daughter was born in October of that year and my wife started chemo treatment soon after. After a couple years of remission the cancer returned in her brain and lungs. She passed away January of 2014 at the age of 30. Not a day passes where I don't wonder if her starting treatment sooner would have changed anything, but there also isn't a day that passes where I don't look at my 6 year old daughter and become thankful for the choices my wife made.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
108541 posts
Posted on 9/21/17 at 6:36 pm to
I have to say I was not thrilled when I saw this thread bumped. So sad.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
83937 posts
Posted on 9/21/17 at 6:38 pm to
Damn, brother. I'm so sorry. Your wife was an incredible person.
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
56040 posts
Posted on 9/21/17 at 6:44 pm to
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TheDude


you have my sympathies, man...you have been dealt more than your share of hardships.
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