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Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:12 am to TheOcean
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The older you get the more you stop caring why people do things
and isn't it grand?!
I have in the past tried to convince myself I didn't care when I did. After a certain point you realize almost no one in your life besides close family is permanent so whoever else doesn't matter. 7 billion people on earth means you don't have to waste time with inconsiderate a-holes except at work and you get paid for that.
Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:20 am to Adrian777
If this continually happens, he/she isn't a friend. You're the last resort pal I'm sorry to say.
"Never enough time" means you aren't a priority.
"Never enough time" means you aren't a priority.
Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:26 am to Adrian777
She got a more exciting deal. Somewhere else.
Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:27 am to Adrian777
He's banging your wife, that's why the change in plans.
Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:30 am to CBandits82
quote:You're either a shitty friend that no one wants to do things with, have shitty friends or both and y'all are all just trashy.
In today's world No one is reliable or accountable for anything.
Most people I know don't mind helping people out and are pretty reliable.
Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:30 am to Adrian777
They don't value you as a person. They either assume a) You will continue being their friend so it's easier to bail on you when something more fun comes along or b) They don't value you at all so you were literally a backup plan to them so it cost them nothing to cancel.
I can sympathize, I'm currently in a situation where all of my good deoendable friends have moved away and/or entered into long term relationships where all they do is watch Netflix. Making friends in your late 20s early 30s is so goddamn complicated.
I can sympathize, I'm currently in a situation where all of my good deoendable friends have moved away and/or entered into long term relationships where all they do is watch Netflix. Making friends in your late 20s early 30s is so goddamn complicated.
Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:32 am to gthog61
Indeed. Give me 3-4 solid close friends and that's all I need. Hell, we don't even have to talk every week. People who try and be friends with everyone are typically people pleasers -- they never figure out that by trying to please everyone they end up miserable.
Someone doesn't want to hang out with me? Good.
Someone doesn't want to hang out with me? Good.
Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:32 am to Adrian777
So you friend zoned yourself?
Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:39 am to Adrian777
Who gives a shite about motive? Thing here is you are being beaten. Flip that shite and get back at her. Next time preempt her cancellation with your own. But give a shitty reason like you can't do a thing with your hair or you waiting for a package to arrive but that you'll get together soon. Fire with more fire I say. Good luck with the bitch friend!
Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:41 am to Adrian777
He's having sex with your wife.
Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:45 am to Adrian777
Women like to be invited to shite even if they have no plans to actually go. It's an ego thing.
Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:47 am to Rouge
All women are not flakes. Some just have this weird inability to say what they mean and mean what they say. It's annoying. I always just try to give those particular friends an easy out so they can tell me no far enough in advance that i can make other plans with other people.
This post was edited on 9/16/17 at 9:49 am
Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:49 am to iluvdatiger
quote:right....flakes...
Some just have this weird inability to say what they mean and mean what they say.
Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:51 am to Adrian777
Sensitivity Board
Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:52 am to Adrian777
Had a friend who would consistently do something similar to that, but instead of canceling plans he would just ignore me and not respond to texts or phone calls. I stopped talking to him or responding to his texts and phone calls too. Don't have time for that shite.
Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:52 am to TheOcean
Agree.
I've got a few close friends from growing up and high school. They are the only trustworthy people.
I've got a few close friends from growing up and high school. They are the only trustworthy people.
Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:52 am to Rouge
Right. Like that is the definition of a flake.Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:53 am to Peazey
Isn't that weird? Like why do people do that? Just fricking respond and say no ican't go or no i want to lay in bed all day in my pjs and eat in bed.
Posted on 9/16/17 at 9:54 am to Adrian777
Sounds like a woman. They're always flipping like a switch.
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