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re: why does divorce cost so much?

Posted on 6/11/14 at 2:11 pm to
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67043 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 2:11 pm to
1. Lawyers
2. Bitches be crazy
3. Lawyers are great at making crazy bitches even more spiteful and crazy
4. Judges tend to favor the women in cases involving children
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 2:12 pm to
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Judges tend to favor the women in cases involving children


careful, you're about to wake up boozie
Posted by Monk
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2007
3660 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 2:21 pm to
because if it was cheap and easy, most everybody would be doing it.
Posted by tduecen
Member since Nov 2006
161244 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 2:23 pm to
well except happily married people, I mean the divorce rate is already 50% which tells me that marriage isn't great to begin with
Posted by Amazing Moves
Member since Jan 2014
6044 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 2:28 pm to
Because Bitches Love Cake..

[link=(www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ki2YgvwtTrk)]LINK[/link]
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
16994 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 2:29 pm to
A bullet $0.25
A shovel $25
Posted by therick711
South
Member since Jan 2008
25093 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 2:31 pm to
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well except happily married people, I mean the divorce rate is already 50% which tells me that marriage isn't great to begin with


The divorce rate isn't 50%, btw. The methodology is flawed. The 50% number comes from taking all marriages performed in a single year and comparing them to all divorces in that same year, without regard to when the marriages occurred. It is a complete distortion. Also, another interesting fact about the divorce rate is if you exclude divorces by people who have already had one divorce (so-called serial divorcers) the actual rate of divorce drops to around 6-10%. Which means that some partners account for a disproportional amount of divorces, aka the jerk effect.
This post was edited on 6/11/14 at 2:39 pm
Posted by tduecen
Member since Nov 2006
161244 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 2:33 pm to
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Today’s infographic lays out some surprising information about divorce rates in America. Turns out, approximately 50% of all American marriages end in divorce.


LINK

Posted by MasCervezas
Ocean Springs
Member since Jul 2013
7958 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 2:34 pm to
BECAUSE IT'S WORTH IT
Posted by therick711
South
Member since Jan 2008
25093 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 2:35 pm to
An explanation of why the source for this infographic is wrong.

LINK
Posted by SoDakHawk
South Dakota
Member since Jun 2014
8548 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 2:40 pm to
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it's not the attorneys. Do you really think they want to listen to some whining female complaining about how hubs doesn't wash the kids' clothes, he sleeps with his GF while they are in his custody, blah, blah, blah? It's always the clients being unreasonable that increases the costs. The men are typically pissed that they have to give up all that money, that they busted their arse to make; and the women think the man should continue to pay for their lifestyle even after they are divorced.


This. This. This.

My wife (no pic) is a divorce attorney. I get the pleasure of hearing about all the cases. Sure, there are meter maid attorneys out there but I'd say a good majority of attorney's want to seek a decent resolution for their client and move on. With the amount of divorces today there is plenty of business to be had and lingering cases just increase the workload.

Most clients are just unreasonable. Some of it is about money but most of it is about control. There's a lot of "he can't do this, or I'm going to make him do that." Lot of vengeance. Most of all a whole lot of babysitting.

Oh, and you guys would be surprised at how often divorce attorney's get stiffed on the bill. It does not matter the financial status of the client, in fact, the wealthier they are the worse it is. My wife had one client walk in and start striking things off the bill saying "I am not paying for this, or this, or this. This is what you will be paid." I told her to take the chump to collections. Eff him. She didn't give up her weekend prepping for his court date for nothing. She's getting paid.
Posted by WG_Tiger23
La
Member since May 2014
504 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 2:50 pm to
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When I got divorced my ex and I didn't have much and we were young. So it wasn't expensive. The guy she was fricking on the side was a lawyer so he took care if all the paperwork for free. I thought that was nice if him


Posted by SuperflyLSU
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2014
970 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 2:52 pm to
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If I were you, this cat would get a xmas card every year


My dad worked with a guy that would get a card from his ex every year on Mother's Day with the same message, "To the biggest 'mother' I know"
Posted by hardhead
stinky bayou
Member since Jun 2009
5745 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 2:53 pm to
did not read but the correct awnser is: because it is worth it.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63236 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 2:55 pm to
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in fact, the wealthier they are the worse it is. My wife had one client walk in and start striking things off the bill saying "I am not paying for this, or this, or this. This is what you will be paid."


Well, they didn't get wealthy by paying retail.
Posted by Colonel Angus
Member since Aug 2007
1621 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 2:59 pm to
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My dad worked with a guy that would get a card from his ex every year on Mother's Day with the same message, "To the biggest 'mother' I know"
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34377 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 3:01 pm to
To discourage the dissolving of families?
Posted by RGJ18
Collierville, TN
Member since Feb 2010
8671 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 3:01 pm to
Supply and demand.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 3:07 pm to
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Most clients are just unreasonable

maybe, but possibly the attorney is so used to the client unilaterally accepting their strategy without question, that when someone does question, or suggest a different way, they're being unreasonable, I've had to do a fair amount of educating attorneys over the years, and I'm not a law school prof.
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you guys would be surprised at how often divorce attorney's get stiffed on the bill.

you'd also be surprised at the gross padding of the bill that takes place, not only billing for time not spent on the case or full rates for multi-tasking, but billing clerical work, not done by the attorney, or requiring an attorney(fed-exing, photo copying, etc.,) at full attorney rates, a person would be a fool not to scrutinize and challenge things like this
Posted by MountainTiger
The foot of Mt. Belzoni
Member since Dec 2008
14662 posts
Posted on 6/11/14 at 3:25 pm to
Because it's worth it.
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